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Exhibitionism is commonly listed among the top-ten fantasies for men, women, and couples. It is certainly one of mine. My cursory exploration of this kink revealed psychological underpinnings that ranged from playful, non-threatening behaviors.
Many of us may have a bit of an exhibitionist streak running through us. Me, myself, have worn something that accentuates my curves, reveals a bit of cleavage, or is in someway more revealing than what I wear in my day-to-day life.
Considering my photo above, there are circumstances where I could be wearing far less and it would be seen as more socially acceptable.
Wearing our clothes in a revealing way is one form of exhibitionism. On another level, individuals experience exhibitionism through nudity and self-pleasuring or as a couple through nudity and sex when others may be watching. Do you find yourself aroused thinking about being intimate with your lover in a public space where you may be seen or “caught”? This is one of the most common fantasies couples have and the one most often made a reality.
Some exhibitionist find great pleasure in the potential for arousing the viewer. Sex with the viewer isn’t necessarily the objective. Rather, the exhibitionist finds it hot knowing that someone may not only be watching but also getting turned on. This aspect resonates deeply within me and makes up a big part of what I often refer to as the “erotic swirl” and “mind fuck” in my writing.
Moreover, I typically write them in the present tense so you have the sensation of being in the room as a voyeur as the moment unfolds. I want you to feel it…I want to turn you on. Your excitement turns me on and we both become immersed in an erotic swirl.
What would make someone an exhibitionist?
If you’re curious if you are an exhibitionist, here are some things that could mean you enjoy this type of kink.
You love...
- Sharing nude photos with your partner while they’re at work.
- Encouraging your partner to go shopping for lingerie with you.
- Engaging in public sex where you could potentially be caught
- Engaging in public sex at a sex club where watching is encouraged.
- Inviting a third person over to watch you have sex and/or masturbate.
For me, I haven't done much as an exhibitionist or to full fill my fantasies, for now what I had done was just taking videos for pictures of myself, or masturbating in front of my windows. I did try anonymous camming once but i found it to be a little risky lol.
Anyway, I wrote this mytake not only just to state myself for people who dont understand, but also to help other who are still lost like i was in the past!
Thank you for understanding!
What Girls & Guys Said
14 63Do you have a favorite situation?
I love exhibitionism, as did my ex although sometimes she made it difficult like the time in the woods when I wanted to go down on her and had to struggle getting her trousers off.
Although when she wore dresses it was easier.
We used to go away to the coast and many a time we stood in a shelter with my hand up yet dress and knickers pulled to one side, she always got wetter on my fingers as people got closer.
One time we were sitting beside the boating lake and I pulled her knickers off she said "they might be watching in the old people's home?"
I looked over the road and replied "they are and can see my fingers up your juicy pussy" that was too much and she came all over my fingers as she hit my neck to stop screaming out.
Damn sexy and honest, me i like it!
I know I love this kind of kink, I have been loving it for years, I have done few things to get "caught" or be seen naked, I also was the drawing class naked model a couple of times.
I find exhibitionism quite exhilarating.
Wow I love to see you 😘
So am i
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I'm an exobitionist too. Om actually surprised how common it is. I've been wanting to try camming
I'm into it to. My boyfriend and I have two other couples that we fuck side by side with. No swinging, just same room sex.
I've got to say id let you do whatever you wanted to do to and with me
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I had a step-daughter who was an exhibitionist. She knew to not do much when her mother was present but mom was gone quite often for hours at a time. Lizzie would change her clothes without closing her bedroom door, walk around in her panties and bra, sleep topless with her bedroom door open, get out of the shower and walk around wrapped up in her towel for 30 minutes, flash her panties at me when getting out of the car. There is no doubt about her being a full-fledged exhibitionist!
She was a very attractive girl and I enjoyed the show but I never crossed the line and I was always the perfect step-dad. Her mom and I have been divorced 13 years now and I don't miss mom but I do miss Lizzie.
Hell yeah! Pursue the pleasure!