I'm jealous of people who have sex?

I'm 27 and still a virgin. I have never flirted with a girl, kissed a girl or touched a girl sexually let alone had sex. This is really beginning to frustrate me when I hear people younger than me have sex regularly whereas I can only jerk off to pornhub. It's not fair.

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  • If you really really really want to experience having sex you can always call a hooker, pay for it, explain your situation to her and she will be giving you your first sex experience if you pay her some money.

    Its not what I would recommend thought but if you really wanne get rid of your virginity that is a option you can choose being a guy.

    Watching porn and jerking off ain't gonna help you anytime soon and neither will it help you in the future bro

Most Helpful Girl

  • It's OK to feel jealous of others and be frustrated by your own situation, but it's important to remember that we all have different paths in life and there is no "right" or "wrong" way to live. It's common to have insecurities and envy when it comes to sex and relationships, but it's also important to focus on what makes you happy and build meaningful connections with people. Everyone has their own timeline, and while it can seem unfair at times, there is no need to rush or compare yourself to others.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You are far from alone: 1 in 3 men are either virgins or haven't had sex in over a year. I recommend you start getting into the red pill manosphere: trp. red is a great resource as are podcasts like Fresh and Fit or Tatespeech. For books I eould recommend the Rational Male series or, if you want a shorter read, Why Women Deserve Less by Myron Gaines.

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  • So why don't you fix it? Go out, meet women, and flirt with them. Better for you to HAVE them then for them to lose it, no?

  • how is it unfair if you don't even make an attempt to get a girl? if you were trying to approach girls, flirt with them, or seeking some casual flings and being rejected i could understand being upset but you're not even trying and are angry at people.

  • Sooooo what's the real question hea'?

    • This.

  • It is fair. This is your issue.

    Get off the computer. Clean up. Go out and talk to people. That's how you find a girl, kiss, and have sex.

  • Virtually all guys who are sexually frustrated are jealous of the alpha males who are enjoying sex with beautiful women regularly. That's only natural.

    • What do you define as an "alpha male" and do you identify as one?

    • An alpha male is a guy who is enjoying sex with beautiful women fairly frequently, without having to put forth much effort in doing so. I consider myself an alpha male, but I'm much happier when I'm not getting any pussy, so that's the path I've chosen in life.

    • How do I become an alpha male?

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  • If you've never flirted with a girl that's on you. Can't get to the other stages without doing that.

  • Lol I have never flirted with a girl and cry that u have never done anything with a girl but thats on you

  • Quit jerking it to porn, lift weights, get a hobby, and start talking to girls.

  • Get the chip of your shoulder, it isn't going to help. Why do you think it hasn't happened? What have you done differently to change things?

  • Step one, stop watching pornhub. Let yourself get sexually frustrated and deal with it, that energy will make you more bold around women

  • just get out there and get some.

  • Quit all porn and stop jacking off as much as possible. The build up in sexual energy will drive you to improve yourself and find a partner. It sounds like at the moment you are releasing all that energy into your bed sheets.

  • Cases like this make me mad because I like to think and so do many other people think that the male gender is dealt with the short end of the stick in dating and human mating

  • If you are not going to go get a girlfriend and have sex stop telling us about it on here all the time.

  • Sex can be overrated if you're not with someone you love. Focus on yourself and trying to find a meaningful relationship with someone instead of sex. It will come when you do that.

  • Stop jacking off to porn, grow up and get your life together. It is not complicated.

    • @ anonymous Are you a guy? I dont think so! You have no idea what you are talking about that's for sure. Being a woman is easy to get sex because men put in all the work... But if you are a average guy or below average then it's becomes pretty difficult to find a woman to be able to have sex with! Dating is easy for woman but it'sbvery hard for a lot of men out there, but woman don't understand that. When I wanne flirt with a woman I have to be carefully with my words, with my actions and I have to try and read her body language or else I risk getting called a freek, loser, pervert... you name it 🤨