I’m kinda sexually confused 👉🏽👈🏽?

[Melodylovelive]

I’ve only ever dated guys but I’ve always been attracted to girls and a few years ago I ended up having a 3some by accident 👉🏽👈🏽 and liked the girl waaaaayyyyy more than the guy and a few times after I hooked up with girls but I’ve never gotten serious with one and when I’m dating guys I always wish I could have a girlfriend too and I was thinking about why I want both and came to the realization that growing up I always had one guy and girl that I was always really close to both attractive and we were all best friends and we all “secretly” had crushes on each other and never addressed it and this is literally since elementary school 🤯

And now I’m a adult and I didn’t realize I was probably bi until I was 19 and now I’m also starting to think I’m poly but I only want a mff throuple and dot as connecting and I feel so confused and stressed because I come from a religious and not very open minded family and I haven’t event even come to complete turns with being bi and the thought of coming out as bi is terrifying enough and adding poly to it makes my head spin

[Berethor]

You say that you liked the girl way more than the guy and yet you want to have a guy too. Let's see, you clearly not been waiting until marriage, and you had hook ups and even a threesome, you clearly not a devout christian. If you are a bi girl then being in a mff throuple relationship makes sense for you, I don't think that you are going to have much trouble finding a guy who into it, finding other girl who into it might be more difficult.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/GirlOnGirlIsHot

[Melodylovelive]

I’m not religious but My family is and I kinda care what they think

[Berethor]

You already had a ffm threesome, I don't see how it more okay than a ffm relationship, you already doing a lot of stuff that your family might not like, but you not honest with them about that, and dishonesty usually makes things worse, also if you read mff throuple relationships stories, in most cases the families didn't liked that, even if they was not religious families, but if having a ffm relationships would stop your hooking up spree then it might be worth it, being with a lot of guys and girls only makes things worse in my opinion.

[nolabels]

For years, I was confused about how to categorize myself in many areas of life, not just my sexuality.
Somewhat recently, I decided that I was the only person who was upset about trying to make those categorizations, so I decided to stop trying to figure it out.
My username, "nolabels", here on g@g reflects that decision.
I've experienced a great deal of relief since making that decision.
My life has been much more happy and productive ever since.
It's freed up energy that I previously spent worrying about labels, and channeled it in more positive ways.

Best wishes to you.

[swettannie]

live your life the way you want ! if you want to try it, try it

[OlderAndWiser]

"I ended up having a 3some by accident" I need to be convinced that anyone in the history of the world ever had a threesome "by accident." You "accidentally" walked into a bedroom where a guy and girl were getting it on, you stumbled, your clothes miraculously fell off, and you ended up impaling yourself on the guy's boner and your mouth ended up on the girl's pussy. That would really be an amazing accident to have happen.

Referring to something as an accident when you did it by intention and design is a disingenuous way of trying to avoid responsibility for your actions. One of the steps along the path to being a more mature adult is accepting responsibility for your actions. . . right?

[Melodylovelive]

😂😂😂 100% a accident I wasn’t looking for it and later found out that they had planned it a guy I was friends with invited me to a party I was 19 and drunk the girl and I were vibing and she kissed me and I liked it so I didn’t stop it and then the guy who invited came in and started taking my clothes off me being a sexually confused drunk teenager I went with it because I was and still am bad at saying no so I accidentally had a 3 some 🤷‍♀️ maybe you should grow up and stop being so judgmental on things you don’t know anything about 😁

[OlderAndWiser]

What you described was not an accident. Someone put the moves on you an you went along with it. Being young and drunk doesn't relieve you of responsibility for your decisions. You could have said "no" and walked away, but you didn't. If this happened to you against your will, you should have called the police and reported these people for sexual assault. Did you do that? Obviously, you don't want to hear anything about responsibility and you accuse me of being judgmental but show me one word of condemnation in what I wrote.

[PhilEvans]

You don't sound sexually confused, it seems like you know exactly what you want, an MFF thruple!
It's a shame your family probably won't support that kind of relationship. You may need to decide which is more important to you, keeping them happy or having a relationship that truly satisfies you.
If you choose to pursue a relationship like that, you won't be alone and will be able to find friends who accept it. But they may not be the friends you have now, and you might be ostracised from your religious group.
Good luck with whichever you choose. You have a difficult road ahead of you.

[wolfunknown]

Do what your heart desires
Be with whom you want to be.
Don't regret it afterwards.

[slatyb]

You are fine. You don't need a label. Make whatever arrangements suit you. Date whoever attracts you. If you don't want a monogamous relationship then tell your prospective partners. If they can't handle it then they aren't right for you. You don't have to disclose your sex life to anyone, including your parents.

[JC103]

Sounds like you’re not confused but scared about coming out.


I’m in a open relationship myself and I come from a VERY conservative family too

[Valnac]

I’ve had great sex with “Bi” girls.
Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don’t!

[Dweezil]

You got me a bit confused.

You believe you are bisexual. You have had a FFM three some.

Did you enjoy it at all. Would you do it again. I assume during the three some you and the other girl gave each other some sexual pleasure.

My question is this. Would you be okay in a three way relationship? Would all three participants would be equally involved in the relationship. That would include one on one sex and a three some.

Is it actually possible to find 3 people with who such a relationship would actually work?

[jimmy2]

Well let God lead

[Yellovv]

What you mean 3some by accident?

[Melodylovelive]

A guy I was friends with invited me to a party I was 19 and was promised liquor I was drunk out of my mind and I meet this girl at the party I was into her she kissed me took me to a room we were making out and the guy who invited me came in and started taking my clothes off and as a drunk teenager who is terrible at saying no I went with it. It was never my intention to go there and have a 3some but apparently they had planned the whole thing

[Yellovv]

Sound is so hot, I like to know more about it.

[gandolph3]

take a breath, calm down, you are fine and the world is still spinning. look around, there are couples out there that are looking for a permanent third, usually a female

[gandolph3]

you have to live your life, not the life others want you to live

[Anonymous]

You can dress me in a woman and love me I bet it would work out perfectly for you