I'm less interested in him because the sex was disappointing?

[Anonymous]

I'm dating a guy and I was surprised by myself that I actually liked this guy, because normally it's difficult for me to actually like someone.
However, after I told him that I quite liked him he texted less. We did have a date again and things escalated a bit and we ended up in his bed.
Long story short. He wasn't able to get an erection because he was nervous (haven't had sex in a long time) and his dick was small. Like thin and maybe 12cm or so.
Now after that, guess he was happy with me because now he texts me all the time and is really getting serious with me. However, I got turned off a bit by that experience. How do people work with small penises and get over this bad experience?

[Anonymous]

I don't know if his penis is really the problem. As you say, you weren't in the mindset and what I know about women, you HAVE to be to really enjoy yourself. I'd give this some time and see (especially if you like him otherwise?). The sex should improve as you BOTH relax and get comfortable with each other and get to know each other better sexually (this requires communication as well). On the flip side, if you're not really that into him in general, and he's got more into you, you are best to end this sooner rather than later. Or at least talk to him about it and let him know you are taking this slower.

[Asker]

I'm still trying to find out if I like him enough, but I also feel bad for taking so long to find out.

[Anonymous]

It's easy for people to say you must try and work with his small penis (12 cm \ 4.75 inches !!!) but why should you have to, especially at this stage where you not even sure about him?

Also if you're less interested in him because of his poor sex skills and the very disappointing sex it means your original interest was not very deep.. so now's probably the best time to move on from him before be gets hurt and it gets complicated

[Asker]

In my opinion you're underestimating the importance of sex in a relationship. I think a satisfying sex life is important. I actually really liked him and was feeling butterflies and everything untill he texted less and the sex was disappointing. How is my interest supposed to be super deep in this stage of dating then?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not underestimating the importance of sex in a relationship, read what I said again and you'll see I'm agreeing with you !

[Gwenhwyfar]

Did he satisfy you with his tongue?

[Asker]

Meh. It was okay. Guess I couldn't get the right mindset either so that's not completely his fault. I do like to be pleased with penetration as well though. I wonder how to still get that pleasure from a small penis.

[Gwenhwyfar]

I’ve had orgasms from a guy with a 5 inch dick. Not getting a hardon would be disappointing though. Give him a second chance. If you still hate it then give him the friends speech.

[Asker]

Thanks! I hope if it's not fixed then he won't get too disappointed, because he now really liked me I think.

[Gwenhwyfar]

He will, but you can’t stay with him if you’re unhappy But give him a second chance first

[Browneye57]

Get a new guy.

[devil_8888]

Give it one more try. Maybe it wasn’t good since he was nervous... did you give blowjob to him?

[Asker]

Yes but he was too nervous to really get hard. In the end he did kinda got hard after just laying down and talking and there was some penetration, but he came super fast and there was not much to it because his dick was small and I was already getting kinda dry.

[devil_8888]

Well small dicks can too satisfy a girl. It just depends on how he uses his dick to get his girl wet. Still as I said give it a second chance. If it doesn’t work out, then take a call.

[Valnac]

RUN!
He’s going to come after you like a puppy. You popped his cherry!

[Protein_mate]

Tongue and different positions

[TheCloud2]

Well my dick is 9 cm when hard so your boyfriend is good

[Winfordhoward90]

Intercourse doesn't work out understood but did you find his company?
as you said it was the first time for him, so maybe because of this he might not open fully.
I would suggest you to spend more and more time with him as talking, and if you again get close for an intimate session then talk more and more with him like what is his fantasy, excitement, desire for sex, etc. Maybe the second session would not be same as first.