I’m losing my virginity tonight I’m scared any tips?

My main concerns are it hurting too much I can’t handle the pain, he won’t fit (he has a normal size dick), and me bleeding and it hurting. He knows I’m sexually very inexperienced and nervous and tight nbut he doesn’t know I’m a virgin and I want to keep it that way. I’m 26.
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  • USE LUBE. Happy lube is your friend.

    Go slow. The vag needs time to relax, expand, and accommodate him.

    Don't worry if things don't work the first few times. Just make sure to tell him you want to try again another day. He might blame himself if things don't work. Don't let him blame himself!

    And don't blame yourself either. Sometimes these things take time. And you may not have much discomfort at all. For situations like this I put a dark colored towel underneath her just in case.

    • The thing is he doesn’t know I’m a virgin. But he knows I’m really nervous to have sex nd very inexperienced. What if I bleed or can’t handle he pain? Those are my biggest fears like he can’t fit, it hurts too much he has to stop or I bleed

  • If your not going to tell him your a virgin (eventhough you should) at least tell him your very inexperienced and to take it slow so it is as painless as possible.

    • Yea he knows I’m very inexperienced and assumes I’m naturally tight and nervous. What if I bleed tho? To be fair I have been spotting the last Few days

    • It happens and shouldn't be that big a deal.

    • What if he doesn’t fit? I’m scared

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  • I was worried my first time as well and had similar concerns but my boyfriend and I talked about them and he went slowly and stayed inside me so I can used to the pain and him, you might bleed a little bit, use a lot of lube and do some foreplay and maybe that will help alittle

    • How long did it for?

    • Couple minutes, about

    • I’m not telling him a virgin he knows I’m very inexperienced tho and super nervous and tight

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  • Why do girls fail to stretch themselves a bit before they lose it? A few weeks of stretching will stop most pain and bleeding. Use lube, too. Do not rely on your natural secretions!

    • It’s happening today tho. Anh tops

    • Do you feel you are ready? Maybe you should tell your guy you are a virgin. Otherwise he might go at it hammer and tongs! If he does not know, it sure will hurt!

    • I feel I’m never be a hundred percent ready. I dont want to tell him a virgin but he knows I’m very sexually inexperienced and nervous. Before he enters I was just gonna tell him to go slow cause he knows I’m inexperienced. Thouguhrw?

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  • if you're going to lie you're going to hurt. you're setting up your own pain. you shouldn't be rushing through it in one night , you should slowly build up over months so everything stretches gently instead of ripping. and he should know.

    why the rush?

  • Embrace the pain, it hurts so good lol but just take things slow and do lots of foreplay to prepare yourself

    • How bad does it hurt

    • Any tips to calm me down

    • I’m actually still a virgin, so I don’t know for sure, and I also have a high pain tolerance. You just have to have your body relaxed and be turned on and prepared for it

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  • I thnk im shdnt give opinion about thz becoz im also inexperienced but hc some idea.. Tell him to play slowly btr to use carrot..
    dont get panic.. Happy night

  • If you want to keep it that way then don't do it... you shouldn't do something you clearly don't want to do

    • I mean I want to experience sex it’s such a natural thing I’m just scared

    • Well then sorry I got no advice... I'm a virgin as well 🙈🙈

  • My tip is get a ring first and use protection.

  • Having some peppermint tea before can help you

    • Will he know I’m a virgin

    • Of coarse he will You are a virgin, haven't you told him that you are?

    • I’m not telling him I’m too old and it’s embarassing. He knows I’m very sexually inexperienced nervous and naturally really tight.

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  • Youy might read what I wrote here: Losing ur virginity how painful it is guys? ↗

  • relax and have fun. Thinking too much can ruin it.

    • I know. What if it’s too painful and I need to tell him to stop? I’m scared he’ll get mad

    • You are 26, I'm guessing he is too. By that age, both of you should have more common sense than a 19 yo. So, what's the problem? If you are really worried, look into foreplay and warm it up.

    • He’s very sexually experienced but he knows I’m not. Can I just tell him to go slow

  • Make him get heavily involved into foreplay. The wetter you are, the easier it will be.

    • What if it hurts too much

    • You will get over the hurt, then the pleasure will kick in, especially when you hopefully cum.

    • Will he hear my hymen rip?

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  • Well? How did it go?

    • It didn’t happen yet. I’m not telling him I’m a virgin will it be obvious or he knows I’m bey sexually inexperienced

  • Do what you did on the last 20 or so fellows once they finished - Swallow afterwards.

  • You have to tell him. Make sure you do a lot of foreplay. Have him bring some lube as well.

    • What if he doesn’t fit

    • He should unless you are built very small down there since you say he is average sized. You being relaxed also helps- there really is nothing to worry about if you are wet enough. Tens of billions of women have lost their virginity since humans evolved.

    • I am on the petiter side but not like super petite. ya. Whenever I get nervous I’m like sex is a natural thing this isn’t some weird. if women can give birth Every second I can have sex. I guess I’m scared he’ll find out I’m a virgin but he does know I’m super inexperienced and haven’t had sex in a whole. What do y think? Will I definitely bleeed? I heard women can even bleed if if they aren’t virgins if it’s too rough, they’re too dry or tight. Any other opinions

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