I’m obsessed with really big boobs is this unusual behavior? I ask because it doesn’t seem like most men are into big boobs?

For instance I married a rather busty woman (36g ) and I find that I want to stare at them, suck touch etc all the time. When wife is naked I instantly can’t look away from the boobs. I usually want her to flash me every morning before I leave for work. I feel kinda obsessed but can’t help it any thoughts? I try not to ogle other random women with big boobs but occasionally can’t help it. It’s like I see big boobs and and my mind completely quits working and it’s all I can focus on no matter what’s going on. On the other hand I find women with average to smaller boobs unattractive and pay virtually zero attention to them. Is this a little weird or what?

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  • Dude, I totally get where you're coming from. Big boobs are just so awesome, right? Nothing hotter than a nice busty girl.

    That said, it does sound like your focus on them could be bordering on an unhealthy obsession. There's nothing wrong with really appreciating your girl's assets, but you gotta be careful not to tune out the rest of her, ya know? Her body shouldn't be all you see.

    Maybe try stepping back a bit and making more of an effort to notice other stuff you like about your wife. Her smile, her laugh, how smart she is, little things she does that are cute. Variety is good so you don't get bored!

    I'd also chill on the ogling random girls too much. Sure a quick glance is natural, but you don't wanna get in trouble or make your lady feel insecure. And average boobs aren't bad either - lots of guys don't mind at all.

    Overall enjoy what you got man, but don't let big boobs be your whole world. Keep balancing physical and emotional attraction to stay happy long run. Your girl deserves to feel beautiful everywhere, not just her chest. You've got this!

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  • you are certainly not the only one out there

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  • It's not unusual to have a fetish. Big boobs are a common fetish.

    • Ya I think it’s pretty common. Judging from your name on her I assume you have large boobs? Have you seen this type of behavior with guys your with?

    • Have I seen it? Dude, all my life! 😆 Though I will say it varies. I have met a few that a bit above the level of obsession; living by NYC doesn't help much as it's crazy central. One dude offered like $300 to buy a bra I was wearing... bra cost me like $70 (I didn't do it, I liked that bra). Another offered a few hundred for me to have a small hand towel under my boobs to catch all the sweat while at the gym; I didn't know how the hell to even respond to that. Mind you, all of this and I don't have the biggest boobs around. I'm a 34F. There's plenty of bigger ones around 😆

    • I have to say that is some of the craziest shit I’ve ever heard of lol I don’t feel like I’m that bad but I’m pretty bad …for instance I never cared about big boobs (all previous girlfriends were flat) till I met my wife and the first time I saw her naked boobs I literally ejaculated before sex—- really pathetic for a 30 year old🤷🏼‍♂️ Also when I met her she was literally a secretary for this vendor my business did work for and she barely made more than 25 grand a year and I was easily making three or 400,000 year. So here’s the successful influential businessman literally losing my mind over this little secretary that’s 5 foot tall. A year later were married and she’s on title with my house and rental properties and on my bank account etc. good thing she’s trustworthy. But literally if we get in a fight or argument it lasts about a half a day or literally until I see her naked and then it’s literally like “ oh my God honey I’m so sorry I’m totally wrong what can I do I’ll do anything” lol. She’s not overly materialistic but if she wants something all she has to do is pull those things out and start talking to me and rubbing my cock and I’ll literally do anything she wants pretty pathetic but it’s like I can’t really do much about it lol…Like honestly should I try therapy?

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  • I doubt its unusual

  • Not weird but please try and remember you're wife

    • What do you mean “try to remember your wife “?

    • Is she comfortable with this?

    • Oh ya I only react that way when she’s naked and she says she likes it. Makes her feel sexy

  • Nah. Women are the same with guys with big dicks.

    • So true!!!

    • Small dicks are unattractive

    • I agree. Unfortunately I’m only 4” erect and my wife has no problem being honest about those short comings but unlike boobs it’s not like I can enlarge it☺️🤷🏼‍♂️ Her boyfriend of 3 years before we met was like 9” so a tough act to follow

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  • Nothing wrong with having a preference

  • It might be normal, idrk

  • Nothing wrong dude