I'm officially a 29 year old virgin man. Any advice?

[G_oogle_Y_i_ndians_r]

Im about to turn 29 and I’m still a virgin, with no near future hope of having sex. I've never had a girlfriend either. I do have kissed some girls, 3 to be exactly; but those time were always at parties while drunk... I don't think I’m ugly, I could lose a few pounds but I’m not obese either. Its not that I’m highly selective or that I’m saving myself, it just hasn’t happened yet!
but I’m getting anxious as time goes by, and anytime my friends or anyone bring up sex to the conversation I get so uncomfortable and awkward! I just want to get it over wigh.

[winterfox10]

I learned something this year that might be really helpful to you. I realized that I have a tendency of being too intense with women, and I think maybe that you might have a similar issue. I didn't realize I was doing it either, but I had just blown it with this girl I knew from college. We'd always had this great, flirty, playful relationship for 4 or 5 years, and so I finally decided to ask her out and we had (what I thought was) a great first date. I mean she even messaged me afterwards to tell me how much fun she had.

Well everything was going great for a few weeks after that, until I had made some comment on an instagram post. I thought the comment was pretty innocuous, but it made her think I wanted to use her for sex. Me, not realizing what had happened, pushed to meet up with her again. She ended up freaking out and blocking me on everything.

What happened? I was too intense. I was told that it's good to be clear about your interest in a woman, because there's a lot of confusion in dating; but I didn't understand the give and take that needs to exist between men and women.

I pushed too hard because I thought our interest in each other was a foregone conclusion. Valuable information, no?

[Bandit74]

Could just say you're asexual if you're embarrassed about being made fun of. Or if you want to just lose it consider paying for it either through a high class escort service or maybe even onlyfans. I would imagine some of those girls would be down for the right price.

[jshm2]

Yeah. You'll be a 40 year old virgin trans woman if you don't get off the internet, and make some effort to improve your social skills.

[Sevenpointfive]

you have come to the right site to lose your virginity. there are plenty to choose from here. and happy birthday you virgin

[oncpl]

My friend! Nobody can help you except yourself. Analyse your habits, interests and hobbies, and also your behavior toward others. Please don't mind, sometimes we think that we are perfectly alright, but our facial or verbal expression gets others annoyed. And also discuss with others, particularly girls, who share common interest, listen to them attentively, have friendly talk and go out with them for brief recreation. I hope you will get positive response.

[In_Trance]

don't let it become 30

[abc--123]

Pay for it

[AkshiJanjua]

Does not matter bro don't care about it too much. I am also a virgin and have negligible experience with girls i can definitely be virgin at your age.
if you really want to loose it you can hire a prostitute or someone like that or you can try to get a girlfriend or just socialize with girls some more you may see new opportunities easily

[Anonymous]

What is your height?

[Anonymous]

no doubt it is more common than we think

[Anonymous]

An achievement 👏👏