Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I'm twenty two years old and i'm a virgin! My boyfriends ex-girlfriend told me that I was missing out on not having sex. She might be right, but I don't want to have sex with just any guy. I want to have sex with someone that I love, someone who's special to me. I think that my boyfriend maybe that one, but we've just started dating, i'm not that comfortable yet and we do other things than actual sex.
I'm not a slutty girl, i've only had about three past relationships and they haven't really worked out, so i'm glad that I didn't give up my virginity to them. I'm happy that I stayed a virgin until now. I don't have to worry about pregancy, STD's, being used for sex, etc...
I don't feel ashamed or silly that i've never had sex, and I don't think that you should be ashamed if you've had sex or not. It's not something you can put an age to. My male cousin had sex for the first time at twenty two, also! It's no big deal and he's happy, because he has the right girl with him!
I can safely say that i'll probably be giving up my virginity this year to my amazing and loving boyfriend, but it's my choice when I do. So, yes, i'm prefectly fine with being a virgin at twenty two, there's nothing wrong with that!
My point is, don't being ashamed of being a virgin if you are one, you just haven't met the right person yet, but you will someday!
What Girls & Guys Said
17 27Im 45 and im a virgin 100% so what?
Wow. Good effort.
@BaileyisDarcy Well you are just 18
What? You must be joking
@singlebee joiking of what?
That you are 45 and virgin
@singlebee well I am
Why? And that's great by the way
@singlebee What is so great about it? What if she doesn't want to be a virgin?
@JuicyBrain well RN she should hop on a dick and lose it! But she is 45 and still didn't.. Maybe she likes it that way
That's great...
And by the way i think girls who sleep around are slutty...
It's completely OK and not slutty if you are having sex in a strings attached types of relationship... Means in a meaningful relationships
there is nothing wrong with being a virgin, and you are doing the right thing for you by staying one until you have found the one that you think deserves to take you, and to not let anyone force you in to doing something that you don't want to do
Good for you
I agree with you, but what if a woman has a high sex drive and she doesn't have this LOVELY boyfriend yet? I think it's ok if she has sex with her boyfriend even if she's not sure that this relationship will last forever. She just has to make sure that she's ready
25 yr old virgin here. Waiting on a girl that will stick around and nit just use me.
than why are you mentioning it
To help other people ho are virgins to feel less ashamed about it. Because there's nothing to be ashamed about yet society has made it so that virgin or not, you have to be ashamed either way. But you don't, and that's her point.
@BaileyisDarcy a person should wanna have sex, now do i think the person should rush it no but by there 20s the should be fucking if not there missing out
And if they are missing out so what? That isn't your business and that's their choice. I can understand making someone eat icecream if they've never had it before because there are very few risks involved (Other than possible milk allergies) with sex, there are risks. I wouldn't force someone to jump out of an aeroplane to go sky diving because there are risks and if they don't want to then that's their choice. I may feel they're missing out but it's not my business to force them to make an unnecessary risk. I'm not going to shame someone into having sex because there are risks involved. If they don't want to have sex or don't feel ready that's their choice and good on them for being mature enough to recognise that their well being is more important than peer pressure around. It's nobodies business but theirs when they choose to have sex.
@BaileyisDarcy hun you wouldn't be saying any of this if you where a virgin, you'd be trying to get some dick in your life
I was trying. But that's simply because I'm on overly sexual person and became one at an age where it was easier for me to get it than when most people begin feeling sexual.
But just because I feel one way, does not mean that I'm going to push somebody else into feeling the same.
@BaileyisDarcy hun your a women that's the only reason its easier for you so please stop talking your starting to sound dumb
I find it funny how you think I'm the one who sounds dumb. It's not because I'm a woman that it's easier. It's because I have the means to get what I'm after that I did not have at the age most of the people around me began getting sexual. I have the means and the ability, I did not have that earlier. You do not know my life and you cannot apply a stereotype.
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lol no one cares you virgin lmfaooo
I lost mine at 21 .. it's cool and all but It wasn't with the girl I'd see myself with in the future so make sure it's with the right person
You are not ashamed but yet you are anonymous.
Sounds to me like you need to get f-cked.
Salute to you madam! you have a perfectly right reason! i respect your view!!
I wish you made this MyTake three years ago. I lost it to a guy who I thought was going to stick around. I got pregnant with him, and he left me.
I don't regret my son, but I sort of regret having sex now, and now I don't even know if I want to do it again...
Thats because in western society praises females for being virgins, The woman is celebrated for being pure and many men get instantly horny when they hear their girlfriend is pure because it means their first and whatever cock he has will be her first experience, first judge - its seen as frosting on the cake.
however men are looked down upon and are generally deemed socially awkward or damaged in some way for them to still be virgins. It turns that cake into a sugar-free cake.
which is why I didn't even have to read this take, because of course your fine. Its celebrated in your case.
Very true.
Meh, sex is sex. I enjoy it but when I lost my virginity at 21, I didn't feel any different and thought, this is it?
There is nothing wrong with sex as long as you're responsible about it, but this whole idea of you must be getting laid constantly or there's something wrong with you is nonsense. Even after losing your virginity, dry spells still happen so it's not like guys should be praised every time they get laid or belittled because they have a dry spell.
If anything, I'm more concerned about the fact I've never had a serious relationship over not being a virgin.
No one cares...
Well I'm 24 and never had sex
The sex with that "right person" will be just as amazing, whether you are a virgin or not. Sex brings people closer together but could also push them apart, I understand your point but if you feel the love with the person you're with why not dive in, live in the moment. It could be the thing your missing, you know. You have everything else so now add in sex and you're connected on a whole another level. Im not trying to be rude here but also what if you have sex with the person you think is the one and they're not... then what..
Then you feel regret. Happens to a lot of girls. You eventually move on but its a lesson in life that is constantly being taught, especially for those that are dedicated to waiting for marriage but end up having sex because she's pressured... and they break up. Just saddening to hear those stories.