I'm regularly having casual sex with my son's friend. It's great for me/his friend, but I sometimes feel guilty. Should I stop?

Im regularly having casual sex with my sons friend. Its great for me/his friend, but I sometimes feel guilty. Should I stop?
I've been having casual sex with my son's good friend for the past month and a half (he and my son are both 23 and I'm 45 by the way). On a completely selfish level this is a pretty great thing for us. Neither of us wants a committed relationship (at least right now), we both still want to enjoy sex, and we get along pretty well. Moreover, he's got this chiseled muscular body and is pretty incredible in bed (better than anything I've experienced in an extremely long time). We both know it's never going anywhere beyond non-committed sex hookups so we can just enjoy sex without having to worry about anything else along with it. Additionally, the fact the arrangement is so taboo/'wrong'/can only be known between us makes the sex that much better. Additionally, it's pretty great for my self esteem. I recently got divorced. There was a lot of reasons for this, but my ex husband basically 'threw me away' after he got bored of me/lost any attraction towards me. It made me feel old and undesirable/unattractive. Maybe that's dumb, but it did take a strong hit to my self esteem/confidence. However, having this incredibly sexy much younger guy lusting after me so intensely and absolutely craves to have sex with me over and over and over again (when he could be doing the same thing with any number of hot young girls his age) has given me a huge confidence boost.

With that being said I often do feel pretty guilty about this. I know it would really, really, really bother my son if he ever found out. I never want to do that to him. I've thought many times of stopping (even though I'm really loving it). However, keeping it a secret from him is pretty easy. Moreover, the relationship isn't ever going to go beyond casual sex. Consequently, I think we could do this potentially for a long while without him ever knowing or being affected by it.
Still, I often feel guilty. Should I stop or is it OK to keep this going?
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  • It's probably going to hurt your son once he finds out, which he will when the friend tells all his buddies about screwing his friends mom. Couldn't you find another sex buddy?

  • You are both adults. Enjoy.

  • Well now your son's friend has a perfect sophomoric insult to throw in his face if they stop being friends: "I f***ed your mom!"

    In all seriousness, think about if he got you pregnant accidentally. That happened to a single mom I know after her divorce.

  • It sounds super unhealthy!!

  • I have never read more disgusting question than this one ever in here be4 . All the comments are even extremely worse what the hell 🤮🤮🤮

    • I've read incest stories in here. They are worse.

  • If no one complains, what's the problem? No real reason to feel guilty, but I think you should cautiously tell your son, because there's still a double lie: between you and your son, and between your son and his friend.

    Don't misunderstand what I'm saying. It's not having private fun with your son's friend that's the problem, neither the age difference (legal age anyway) but what's hidden for each other. The longer the situation remains secret, the harder telling or discovering the truth will be for all the three of you. Sure telling the truth to your son will be difficult, and I have no idea how you should tell him, but I guess you will feel it when the time has come, probably when you're all three casually together; in order to be as honest as possible with each other.

    I wish you all three sincerely the best, and keep in mind that sex remains something very natural.

  • Guilty for what? You’re not harming anyone. It’s good to have little naughty secrets.


  • yoiur son will find out eventually. You might as well keep doing it.

    • Dude, I swear. I like you, man, but you have terrible morals. First telling young men to go have sex with prostitutes and now this. No offense, but you need to go to church, brother.

    • @Jamie05rhs I just look at the big picture.

    • You need to widen your camera angle.

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  • Stop feeling guilty

    Enjoy the young penis ride, your adult and have adult needs

    If my wife if 30 years would die, I would be doing the same thing as you.

    Besides sex is great exercise for us middle-agers. Keeps us young at heart

  • Jesus. I feel gross after reading this. I knew people could be absolute terrible pieces of shit, but you really are a cut above.

    Integrity is doing the right thing when no one is looking. Obviously you see nothing wrong with what you’re doing, because you prefer good dick over having a shred of integrity.

    I hope to God your son finds out. Maybe he’ll beat the shit out of his friend in anger. Or maybe Mr. Superdick will let it slip about how he’s drilling his friend’s mom over one too many beers. But of course that’d never happen. And maybe, just maybe, if you’re really lucky, the two of them will get into a fight and your son will get his head cracked open.

    But hey, your orgasms and self-confidence are what are important. It’s not like there are billions of other dicks you could choose from.

    You disgust me.

    • What are you talking about? Would you say the same thing if a father was doing the same thing with his daughter’s friend? You are so mean.

  • yeah... sounds inappropriate and predatory to me.

    • How is it predatory? He's 25. I get why it's inappropriate though, and that's why I feel guilty about it.

    • Sorry, 23. I had a brain fart. Still, it's well over 18

    • Because you’re old enough to be his mother…

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  • Stop it right away. Your son is going to hate you if he comes to know

  • Hey there Anonymous,

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with what you are doing. You and your son's friends are consenting adults and can/should enjoy as much casual sex with one another while you're happy with this particular arrangement.

    What your son doesn't know won't hurt. Both you and your son's friend know sexactly what you want out of this and that's strictly regular great sex.

    You only live once so enjoy this for as long as you can 😉😈

  • In your position I would do the same thing

  • You both adults, age is a number, enjoy the compatibility’s and the sex. You both matched or at least for right now. Stop feeling guilty and get it out of your system.

  • What's this going to do to your son's self image if / when he ever finds out? Whether you should stop or not you are the only one that can answer that.

  • Both of you are free to do as you please, but for the guys sake you might work on bringing in a gal his age or a little younger to get him attracted to for a long term for him while looking for a long term for yourself.

  • Couldn't you find another young guy to have sex with. I wouldn't worry about his age. Age is just a number. I do think if your son ever found out it would ruin your relationship with your son and his friendship with the guy your seeing.

  • You're going to get caught eventually. I would stop now if I were you, before that happens. You are going to destroy your son's relationship with his friend.

    You seem to be forgetting where your son came from. He came from your vagina. Because of sex. He is your baby. Your child. Don't you love him? If you love him, you should care about his feelings. Stop hurting your baby.

  • I also like older women to fuck but never get any older women. And you can keep on if you just want sexxxx then it is okh do t feel guilty that son's friend is also enjoying hu aving sex with you so just keep going. Take care it will be always your secret.

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