You weren't doing it wrong, that's just how it works for men.
You want to start slow and then you build up the pace.
After some time the guy gets used to a certain pace- it will keep feeling good but it will become harder to maintain an erection for him, so he has to go faster.
At some point the guy has to go pretty fast and that's usually when he will take the lead because he can do it faster than the girl.
And, well, he kind of wants to take the lead at that point- not because he got "bored" of what you were doing, but because he got built up to that point and that's when it feels the best for him.
If he went fast like that at the beginning, he would just come too early.
The more he builds up the more he will be able to handle towards the end, when it feels the best for him.0 0 0 0You're reading it wrong.
If the guy really gets turned on, he will usually drill you faster and harder than you can him. That your man asked you instead of just flipping you over, was gentlemanly of him.
He' a keeper for you.1 0 0 0
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(15)You're doing everything right. He just wants his turn to drive.
0 0 0 0Whoever does that while you're riding him and enjoying the sexual pleasure that will probably bring both you & him to orgasm, sounds like he doesn't really know how to please a woman sexually and seems concerned mainly with his own pleasure
0 0 0 0He obviously cares about you and he is enjoying what you’re doing but he has the urge to thrust hard and take control. No worries. It’s all good.
0 0 0 0He may have meant he wants to be on top or the one doing the thrusting. Next time you ride him ask him how it feels to him. If you're in a cowgirl position there may not be a lot of friction on his dick to get him off. If he goes at it too fast, tell him to take it slow so you can enjoy him for for as long as possible.
0 0 0 0nope. irs kind of a respect thing in that its me wanting to share in doing the work
0 0 0 0He's impatient.. on occasion that's fine but sometimes he needs to let you explore... and you don't always have to just accept what he said either. Tell the boy "no".
If he's a boy he'll whine. If he's a man he'll let you explore.0 0 0 0He wants to take charge and change positions.
0 0 0 0Technically you were fucking him
0 0 0 0I would definitely fuck you. Ride my hard cock and enjoy the orgasms.
0 0 0 0Maybe he just wanted to take charge
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