I'm scared to have an orgasm?

Hi guys, I need a bit of help here. I don't think I've orgasmed before. When I masturbate I usually rub my clitoris in circles and finger my G-spot to build up to an orgasm. But after a while I hit an extremely pleasurable point that makes me shake like crazy and I feel like I have to pee and is super intense... like I'm gonna completely lose control. I'm thinking this is an orgasm coming and I really want to push through but the feeling truly scares me and I don't know why because it's incredible. Is there any way I could just relax and let myself cum? And is it normal to be this afraid of orgasming?
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  • You said it yourself: You're afraid of losing control. You're gonna have to work through that, and what might help is knowing that nothing bad is gonna happen. Your body is responding the way it should --- until you hit a certain point and then it sounds like you shut it down. You need to give yourself permission to "lose control." But it's a good kind of losing control. You're not losing control of a car you're driving. Stay positive and it will happen!

    • thank you for MHO !

  • Don't try so hard to orgasm! Just focus on what feels good and enjoy it! If an orgasm happens it happens. If it does not then just enjoy the good feelings. Are you a virgin? Have you considered a sex toy (vibrator) many of my girlfriends have really liked them both when I was with them and when going solo. Your thoughts?

    • Yeah I'm a virgin, sometimes I use an electric toothbrush to get off but I get sensitive too quickly with that, so I'm thinking with a regular vibrator it would be the same?

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  • Ah I completely remember the weird feeling of being scared when I was sixteenish - but dont worry at all go for it and let it take you where you want to go. As it all sounds like the normal feelings. And regardless of what the guys say below wtf it's not going to get super messy so just do it whenever it feels right (well maybe not in public hah :L) You will be very grateful for the incredible power we can have over our own bodies!

  • Well you pretty much are already there. Just think of all that pleasure you're feeling and imagine it multiplied. I mean why drive yourself to Orgasm Land if you don't plan on riding the best ride?

  • With G-spot stimulation, the urge to pee is normal. Don't worry about it. But if you really are scared of whatever happening, do it in the bathroom

    • dafuq?

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  • So pee really good first and then ignore the sensation and just power through to the goal line.

  • You may be a squirter darling... and its ok to be scared of orgasms.. some can be really scary/intense. but like @Mesonfielde (i don't like him, he usually says what i want to say BEFORE i say it) said, if you are going to push through. do it somewhere easy to clean like the bathroom... tub.

    • I don't mind verification :p

    • bite me @Mesonfielde lol... I don't know.. everytime i frickin see you, you have said some shit I would have said, then I have to just expand on it and give you credit. You Suck :)

  • Do it in a place where cleaning up a mess is simple, most possibly the bathroom.

  • It most definitely a orgasm but you shouldn't be afraid it sounds like your going squirt

  • 1. No.

    2. No.

  • It's the one thing in the world you shouldn't be scared of.

    • it's actually a bad experience for some people. they get headaches and other types of pain. they hurt down there.

    • @thewanderingme Then those people should seek their "orgasms" outside of their own body.

  • no jus let it happen that way its very normal and next time just let everything out its much better..

  • Well all of girls can't squirt. if you come to shaking & feel pleasure then it means you are orgasmed :)