I'm sexually attracted to intelligent girls

I'm sexually attracted to intelligent girls

I can't explain this. That's just the way it is. I absolutely love geek girls. I've dated a LOT throughout my life. I even dated many models. I just can't feel attracted to stupid people. It's just a major turn off. Nothing excites me more than a good looking girl with brains. I think that's maybe because I'm more intelligent than average. Not bragging because that's actually a bad thing most times. Sometimes I wish I was stupid. So it's really hard for me to find someone interesting. Most people nowadays are so stupid and narrow minded. Most can't even have a decent conversation.
It's just wonderful that you can share your mind and thoughts with someone that understands you. I love that feeling.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I don't think that most people can't have a decent conversation.

    I think that high intelligence people develop certain interests and others who can discuss those interests are called good conversationalists. A girl who can discuss the relative merits of several different current country western singers would be boring to me but perhaps entertaining to someone who is interested in country western music.

    When dating, choosing a partner with a similar level of intelligence maximizes the odds of compatibility, but that doesn't mean people of lower IQ are less worthy.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Well thank god I'm not stupid then eh?
    I feel the same way except with guys. Stupidness is a major turn off and I don't waste my time with stupid asses. I go for Personality rather than looks mostly so it's crucial for a guy to be intellegent with ambition.

    I'm currently a senior in high school and I plain on going for nursing. I want to be a registered nurse.

    • you must love and hate me then. I'm very intelligent and smart but I don't care about what others think or feel when I speak my own mind and sometimes sensitive people can't handle it and call me an ass. I've a great personality and I know exactly what I want for my life. I know what I want when I want and how to get it. I achieve my own goals and I'm very ambitions. I can't imagine how it is to be a nurse. it would never cross my mind. but I admire that quite a lot. don't get me wrong looks are quite important to me. as it is for any guy that isn't a liar and says otherwise. I would never date a fat ugly genius. anyway there's several kinds of intelligence and emotional intelligence is one of them. I love to flirt intelligent people with great charisma.

    • Bluntness is cool. Sometimes things don't need to be sugarcoated.

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  • I totally agree. So many people DO play dumb, because usually, THAT is the way to get ahead in the work world, for the most part. Unless you're a career academic, you're going to have a hard time meeting someone who is willing to USE their mind.

    It's not that they are stupid, but they've learned that it's better to play dumb.

  • I'm also drawn to brainy guys, but I'm not an elitist. Ex) I have a friend who is very intelligent. She is a tutor and was explaining how a certain underclassman was flirting with her, but her boyfriend wasn't intimidated because she wouldn't be attracted to someone who was struggling with basic chemistry. That is beyond, "I like smart guys" and into "People with lows grades aren't stimulating." That's into doucheville.

    • I had low grades and I've an IQ of 168. grades are meaningless.

  • I wish you luck man. I tried with smart women but they just mess things up for you and they play to many mind games. Like why can't she just ask me if I like her instead of playing games? I do agree that most people are pretty dumb and narrow minded. Smart women also seem to just never want to agree. They always want to debate or argue about things.

    • that's part of the fun of it <3

    • It is fun once or twice but not usually. Most of the smart women I know are to insecure and take the games to seriously for it to be fun.

    • I like to play in hardcore mode ;)

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  • I suppose its a price to pay for above average intelligence, you can't settle for less.

    • fortunately I never lose

  • you know you are so lucky that you are so different from others... today, i have met so many people who don't like geeky peoples but you know, at least brainy people doesn't do stupid mistakes.. just be yourself..

  • Stupidity is a turn off for me, it's right up there with smoking and excessive drinking. I mean, they don't have to be super-intellgent but some indication of being reasonably smart and clever never goes astray, which would make us more suitable since I'm intrigued, discerning and grounded regarding myself and the somewhat crazy ol' world around me. But hey, for some people it might not matter as much if a person is very good-looking.

    • sometimes I crave for intelligent life forms xD is that to much to ask? a good girl with some brains? lol is it such a high standard?

    • Nope, that sounds reasonable.

  • this can't really be surprising.. why would anyone be more attracted to an unintelligent person?

    • tons. the majority.

  • Yeah, I can relate... But - there are those people who can't take many of the things I say hence they avoid me... (Online) And in real life they don't want to go into more serious or complicated topics because they might think they're wrong and they don't want to be disproved... It's just jarring sometimes. It's fine, though. I talk to those who can handle what I say and who are similar to me anyways...

    • test me.

    • Haha I don't do that... It just comes up naturally in conversation at one point or another and that's that.

    • hrvatska cure su lijepe

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  • As a former geek girl, I'm flattered.

    • former :'(

  • Fare play to ye!

  • I don't feel this, I could date anyone I feel a click with. And what makes me feel the click is mainly that it's a nice girl. Rich or poor, stupid or intelligent is not important to me.

  • I definitely feel the same way! :) I love my men intelligent and smart just like i like my meat well done :P there's just something striking and surprising about it. Plus, It opens doors to many things you can converse about. Therefore keeping things spicy and the best thing is you always keep learning!

  • It sounds like you're a hetero-sapiosexual.

    • you stand correct sir

  • Stupidity is a turn off to A LOT of people so ur not alone lol

  • A to the MEN, brother! I feel the same way!

  • it's a nice feeling to connect with someone

    • it's so rare...

  • To each his own. Have fun with them smart girls.

  • HELL yeah!!

  • i like smart ones too

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