I'm straight but I have gay thoughts sometimes?

I'm straight and I like girls. However, lately I've been having these weird urges to look at like naked guys online. Has anyone else experienced this? It feels really weird and I don't like it. Thank you.
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  • I wouldn't be surprised if it's a phase of some sort. I had a phase of isolation and I hadn't met girls for years. So eventually people started doubting my sexuality. And because of the paranoia that came with the isolation I also started to doubt my sexuality. That kinda triggered a strange phase were I tried imagining kissing men to see if I liked it or not =) holy shit. It eventually passed when I broke the isolation and started seeing more people.

    You like girls, so you're obviously not gay. And you said yourself, you don't like it because it feels weird. That's what makes me think it's a phase. Worst case scenario is you're bisexual. And that's not so bad. So chill bro.

  • Just cut it out, I had the same thing whereby I thought I was gay because someone told me I was (I'm stupid), and so I went online to see whether or not I would get an erection from naked men. I didn't thankfully, because I too "didn't like it", yet I still like you had "weird urges" because I was 15 and this was a forbidden, taboo thing to do

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  • You might just be bi, or bi curious. Sometimes people get a phase in their life when they become incredibly curious or get urges to look at the same sex. Its normal. Even if you were bi it wouldn't be a big deal anyhow, so don't feel bad or guilty about it.

  • I'm the same. I like to look at guys too. Oh wait, I'm a girl. Nvm. 😜
    Joking aside, I'm sure it's mostly curiosity, which is normal. But ask yourself are you attracted to guys? Do you hope to be romantic with a guy?

    • Erm, i mean if a male friend wanted to try it I probably would (assuming they aren't ugly). But i defiantly want a long term relationship with a girl.

    • Explore your curiosities and see what happens.

  • If you don't like it, then resist the urge. If you do like it, then don't resist. If push comes to shove and you're going nuts over the issue, then seek professional (non-religious) counseling.

  • It's most likely is a phase. I went through the same thing, but I found girls attractive.

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  • Maybe your watching too much porn. It has been proven to change sexual orientation and gender identity. lay off porn for a few months.

  • Bi-curious?

  • Maybe you're not as straight as you think haha :) It happens. Perhaps you're heteroflexible or something.

    • What's heteroflexible mean?

    • Heteroflexibility is a form of a sexual orientation or situational sexual behavior characterized by minimal homosexual activity in an otherwise primarily heterosexual orientation that is considered to distinguish it from bisexuality. It has been characterized as "mostly straight".

  • Do you feel sexually attracted to them, do you feel aroused. Do you sexually fantasize. Have you watched gay porn. You could be Bi or just Bi curious.

  • Thoughts or fantasies are just that: thinking about another girl doesn't make you a cheater.
    thinking about killing doesn't make you a murderer. Thinking about gay sex doesn't make you a gay.

  • You're only straight if you only like women.

    You can't be straight and show interest in the same sex.

  • everyone has a gay thought or two.. big whoop

  • You might be bi curious or just sexually frustrated.

  • It's totally normal. A lot of straight guys have gay thoughts too sometimes. I experience this too sometimes.

  • Could just be curiosity.

  • Sometimes when I argue with people I have this weird urges to kill them lol , dude they are just thoughtsss
    Just ignore them dude

  • It's probably normal in this time period

  • I didn't like it either but I did it secretly for years. Still do. Never touched a guy. I still don't know wtf. But it's okay.

  • You're bi

  • Depending on your level of "gay thoughts" you might be bi or bi curious. Or, you just simply might be curious. Are you looking at these guys thinking sexual thoughts or are you just looking? Curiosity is a normal human behavior. All guys I'm sure have checked out other guys, I have, not in a sexual nature, just looking just strictly out of curiosity. It's what thoughts and urges you might have that tells the difference.

  • You could be bicurious.