I’m thinking of losing my virgin tomorrow, I’m really nervous about it?

So if you read my questions before you know that I was going to have s. e. x with some guy who had a girlfriend but I decided I didn’t want to do it with him because my friends said not to. So my friend who is in my gym class says we can do it together and I said sure but I’m really nervous about it but at the same time I wanna do it, he is 17 and a senior I’m high school. This is also his first time doing this to but he said he knows what’s he doing, and he also send me his nudes as will and did the same and said. Today I told him how nervous I was he and was like his nervous too I told him I was having second thoughts. I was talking abut my friend this is the texts I send to him:


Me: Beyoncé keeps saying maybe you should wait and kinda making me question if I should do this.

Him: Well it's up to you, I know what I'm doing so you don't have to worry.

Me: I just need time to think for a little bit


Him: Okay, comeback to and tell me what you think

So that’s where we stop texting but im really nervous and scared to get in trouble and we were planning to do it at his house because his parents are not at home and it’s a half a day tomorrow and that’s why we are doing in this day and we are not dating at all and I just need advice to what to do sorry if this was long. And I’m 15 just to tell let you know
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  • So, I'm not going to be like all the other morons here who are pretending like they know what's better for you and your body than you do... because that's stupid. Instead I'm just going to ask, what do YOU really want to do? What feels right to you?

    • I don’t know what I want anymore I’m just really confused

    • You're feeling confused. That's okay. It's normal. What else?

    • I’ve been thinking about having sex but I have no one to do it with I can trust but when I had a chance I couldn’t do it

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  • If you are really 15, then he is breaking the law.

    • His not 18 yet so he’s not Breaking the law his not a legal adult yet

    • Doesn't matter. In all 50 states, if you are 15 or younger, you legally CANNOT consent to any sexual activity. It also does not matter if he is still under 18. If you were 16 it would be fine. He can be charged no differently.

    • Well we’re not doing it anyways

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Most Helpful Girls

  • bro you're 15... wait until you're 100% sure. you'll know when that is, the moment will just be right. all this planning and nervousness-- that's not gonna be hot and sexy it'll just be a bad time

    • But he said it’s normal to feel that why is that true?

    • Getting it over with to get it over with isn't worth it! I waited until my 20s, found the right guy, and it was amazing and I'm so glad I didn't settle for less. You'll know when the time is right and have no doubts or regrets

    • it's normal to feel nervous yes but you won't have doubts about the time and the guy

  • If you’re not comfortable with it, you’re not ready. But wear protection. If not for pregnancy, but diseases.

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  • Just wait at this point it seems you want to do it just to get it over with and that's not how you should lose it wait untill you are truly ready and not feelingnlike this hun

    • Thanks for the advice 😊

    • 👍🏽just don't rush things I don't say the first time is gonna be some magical thing but I do know it shouldn't be how u described it

  • You get one shot at high school. there's no second chance.
    You have a lifetime ahead of you and there will be any number of guys who just "wanna do it"
    You're not gonna be with one guy forever... don't rush. Just do it when you're ready and with someone meaningful

    • Thanks for the advice I really appreciate it

    • You're welcome

    • @vikingdude Nicely said.

  • Don’t do it

  • Never lose your virginity to someone who is also a virgin. It will be horrible. Go with the dude that has the girl friend. What do your friends know about your life anyway. Here’s another helpful hint. DONT LISTEV TO YOUR FRIEnds.

    • I already told him that I didn’t wanna do it anymore

    • Cool. It would be terrible. Do I have anyone I can trust that has had sex already?

    • No not at all

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  • If you can't even write the word SEX properly without trying to censor it although you are asking for advice on it, you definitely shouldn't have it.

  • You’re only 15. You still have plenty time to lose your virginity. Don’t rush into doing something you will probably regret afterwards,

  • Wait and make it special

  • Dont listen to the boys, wait

    • Do you ever lose your virginity yet

    • Yeah, i did but wasn't as young as you

    • How old were you

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  • What are you worried about?

  • Don't do it that's illegal. Do tough have all the knowledge about HIV, AIDS, STDs, protection, etc? Don't hurry.

    You are not going to be immortal hy having s*x at 15 age.

    Instead explore yourself at home.

  • Please don’t. 15 is too young to have sex. This guy is sending you nudes? Pretty sure that’s illegal. There’s a lot of psychology that goes into having sex your first time. Take it seriously and slowly.

  • It's terrible to think losing virginity is like winning a rat race as something you must accomplish as soon as possible.

  • Have fun. Just know at first it will hurt.

    • Are you sure I should do it

    • If you think you are ready for it yea.

    • How would you know if she’s ready for it?

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  • You're 15, don't do it. Also by you two sending nudes to each other you've broken the law by distributing child pornography

    • I’m probably going to tell him I don’t want to do it

    • Good, wait until you're a little older and you've found someone you actually care about and want to be with

  • Your to young

    • Agreed. You will be thankful for waiting a few years.

  • I'm ready.. Tell me when u want

    • Wow there 😳😂

    • I'm for u baby 😅😚

    • Ok let’s go we do it today 😂

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