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I'm uncomfortable with letting my boyfriend go down on me?

I'm really scared to let my boyfriend to go down in me. I do things for hum and I'm fine with it but he really wants to do oral sex on me. I'm fine with not having it done but he really wants to. Im just in a very sexually untuned person. I find masturbating really gross and weird, and I just don't like it. And the idea of him going down on me just seems nasty. He doesn't seen nasty but the idea if someone being with my vagina is kind of nasty. So basically I just don't understand how he can enjoy it , so once he starts going down I assume he'll get grossed out and so I pull him away. But I just don't understand why im this way. If you could give any tips so I can move past this it would be great. Also guys do you actually enjoy going down on a girl?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • First off, the fact that he wants to pleasure you gives him major brownie points. Secondly, going by your logic, why is it not gross for you to go down on him? Personally, I love it. I promise that if you're clean down there and don't have any weird, stinky diseases going on, then he won't be paying attention to anything except making you feel good. And really, by "good", I mean AMAAAAAZING. My suggestion would be drink a glass or two of wine (or whatever alcohol you like) just to calm your anxiety, and then try it. After that, if you don't like it, then at least you'll know for sure instead of wondering!

  • Girl I'm the same way. I hate those things too. My man likes doing that too. But I told him I hate it and to respect me! Never heard another thing about it. If Ur guy can't respect you to let it be. Then you deserve better!

    • I'm curious as to why you hate it? Are you insecure with the way you look down there or had it done previously and didn't enjoy it? No judgement just curious

    • I think it is very nasty. Unclean. Even showered it's nasty. I'm also not into doing it myself.

    • I know! No matter how thoroughly I clean it's just weird and gross to me.

  • Im. the same way when it comes to that. Very self conscious. But I don't find masturbating gross. That's the only way I've ever had an orgasm, so I'd be lost without it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Just relax, trust him, and let him do it, try it at least once. 90% of girls like it, and there's a reason for it. So just give it a try and then decide, maybe you love it and you've been missing a lot, something you don't wanna keep missing in the future.

    I personally love going down on my girl, I like the fact of making her scream with pleasure, and make her body shake. Plus, if the girl's clean, it doesn't taste bad, it actually has a sort of good taste.

  • I'm assuming I will. Do you you do oral on him. If yes then think about how that feels for you and that's what he wants. Plus I don't know how to explain it but the vagina is just really sexy I'd like to be up close to it.

    • I do oral on him. It doesn't make me particularly happy doing it but making him happy makes happy. I don't know my vagina just creeps me out

    • But it turns him on.

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  • It sounds like you want to be more comfortable with this stuff, and that will come with practice but only when your ready. There is no rush. Just do what you enjoy and you will get more confidence etc and be more comfortable exploring.

  • I bet you have never had an orgasm in your life or have issues reaching one. Mainly because you find your own sexuality gross and weird. Take a shower, let him do it and relax

    • I've never had an orgasm, but I also haven't been having sex for long

    • You will never have one if you aren't comfortable with your sexuality and letting loose. Oral is the easiest way for a woman to orgasm because of direct contact. Try it out and if you don't like it try something else. Good luck!

  • y's dat?

    anyway... if he enjoys it... there's no need to complain :-)

  • I had a girlfriend who at first thought it was gross and weird, but once she had an orgasm that way she wanted me to do it all the time.

  • My girl yes.

  • A lot of guys want to do that why do you think your boyfriend is so eager? Just relax and let the sexy stuff happen.

  • I love going down on my girl

  • Lots of girls are!

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