I'm worried that my vagina isn't really pleasurable to my man?

When my boyfriend and I have sex, I let him cum in me. (Im on the pill.) He usually always cums but sometimes when he cums, he pulls out and he stays completely hard for a good 10 or 15 minutes. And sometimes when he pulls out, he goes soft in like 5 minutes. I'm worried that he doesn't cum as good when he pulls out and it's still hard for ages afterwards.. when he stays hard for a long time after sex I always ask him if he wants more or if he wants to cum again because I feel like he's not completely satisfied. He always turns it down and says that he just came and that he won't be able to cum again. But after we do anal, he goes soft immediately after cumming inside my ass.. Does this mean that when he stays hard for a long time after sex in my pussy that he's not completely satisfied or something? I'm extremely insecure of my vagina and I've been told it wasn't very tight before so now I'm worried that the reason he stays hard after being in my pussy is because his orgasm wasn't very intense. He always goes soft right after anal, so maybe he likes that better.. help?
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  • I have never been a vagina that I didn't like,, they all feel amazing. If he is not getting soft after his cums in you, are you sure he came? does his seamen drip from you? I find it odd that if he cums in your ass and you pussy, but only goes soft after anal. I am willing to bet, he's is cumming in your ass and not you pussy.. Are you sure he is not Gay and can't admit it to himself yet? Because whether he cums in your ass or your pussy, his dick is going to do the same thing, that is go soft. No stay hard after cumming in your pussy but going soft after cumming in your ass. Tight has nothing to do with that. it doesn't work that way..

    • His semen always drips from me.. or at least I think it's semen.. maybe he is faking it.

    • And my vagina feels bad. I know it does.

  • Does he look and sound less intense at any point? Nevermind his cock, I mean when he cums does he shake or groan more or what have you during intercourse with you anally than vaginally? Also, does it take him longer to come vaginally with you than anally? Also, how spent does he look like overall after vaginal as opposed to anal?

    • I ask these questions because sometimes it's because it was so good that we stay hard. Especially if it's not always he stays hard afterwards during vaginal intercourse.

    • We don't do anal as much we do vaginal sex. And he moans really loud when he's cumming in my pussy. He also moans really loud when he's in my ass too. I can't really compare it.

    • The last time we did anal, he seemed to have a more intense orgasm. But he yells when he cums in my pussy and he always looks spent after sex in either anal or vaginal.

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  • Staying hard doesn't mean he's not finished. It's all about blood flow girl. ,🤦🤦

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  • If he just came, he will not be hard for the next 15 minutes. Dicks just don't stay that hard, for that long, after cumming. It sounds like he is not always cumming when in your pussy. You don't say how old he is, but if he's under 40, and if you are the age posted, then your are plenty tight for him to cum in you pussy. Something is a little fishy, like maybe sometimes he says he cums, when he doesn't.

    • by the way Your pussy is fine, if he is having difficulty cumming, it's his dick that is the problem.

    • His semen always drips out of me after he's done in my pussy. But maybe it's not cum and maybe he is faking it

    • Or maybe he isn't satisfied enough after cumming in my pussy. I don't know. My pussy is terrible.

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  • Don't be silly if he cums that's his orgasm he has enjoyed it I sometimes stay hard after finishing it's just somthing that happens not connected to how good I finished

  • Jerk him off on your tits he will cum again try it

  • I’m sure your vagina is fine

  • I dont think it is a problem, but if you feel like that, play something funny

  • He’s afraid to tell you. Women are not designed to be promiscuous. The more promiscuous of a history she has the less happy they both will be. If you’ve had multiple partners your vagina is loose, kinda like a new shoe that’s been worn by many men. Your asshole is still tight, gripping how a healthy vagina should. This might be why. Don’t worry about offering him more pussy. Maybe offer your ass after change it up

    • You are a monument to bad biology education. Fucking a lot doesn't make a pussy loose.

    • ur username is a misnomer

  • Don't worry

  • Staying hard afterwards doesn't mean I'm not satisfied. Too bad he isn't a really horny bastard, though. When I stay hard afterwards, I take that as a Divine Sign from the Lord that I am to dive in for Round Two, if she's up for it. Heck, even when I'm not staying hard, I'll give Round Two a shot.

    I DO so love my wife!

  • I don't think staying hard after orgasm means he wasn't satisfied, he still came after all.

  • you are complete not understanding how men's dick works and how is different between pussy and anal. you are so much confused here.

  • Your ass is tighter so applies more pressure during ejaculation which reduces blood in the penis so it can go softer faster.

    • Are all girls assholes tighter than their vaginas?

    • Without medical conditions, yes.

  • maybe he doesn't want to get you pregnant also is he big or small down there?

  • How do expect anyone to "help" you on GAG?

    • I don't know maybe don't be an asshole. Or if you're going to be an asshole maybe just don't comment or take it somewhere else.

    • So, I'm an "asshole" for asking you how you expect someone to help you on GAG? You ask a fucking question about your vagina not being "pleasurable," and I'm an asshole? Are you fucking kidding me?