I mad my bf get blue balls. What's gonna be his attitude in the long run?

I had foreplay with my bf but didn't have sex with him he told he he has blue balls. I heard about it b4 but never believed it, out of curiosity I asked him n he told me what it was. I was like OK n he then asked me if I wanted to help release it. I told him no n I think he was mad well I don't know for sure. When I got home I did some research on it n said he has nothing to worry about. but I wanna know if he'll has a problem with me because I didn't do that for him?
will he be mad about it
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  • Do you have different ideas of what foreplay means? Some people think it's everything besides sex... foreplay for some means oral sex, for another it's just making out with somebody.

    Don't listen to everyone saying you're a cock tease or whatever because I'll bet those same guys would turn around and talk about not respecting some girl because she gives it up too easily. I don't like the whole dichotomy of guys having to talk a girl into it, because if she really doesn't want to it's like rape, and girls can want it too. It's like you're a tease if you don't, too easy if u do. Double standards are a bitch, I never paid much attention to them in my own conduct.. most of the time I want it more than the dude I'm with so I personally killed the myth of the girl being some gate keeper or some other weird shyt

  • Absolute rubbish and BS. tht blue ball nonsense is what guys use on naïve girls to pressure em4 sex and they say leave it2 give u a guilt trip. thts so old skool. he's sounds lika jerk. then a girl can also say she has pink balls when a guy leaves her unsatisfied in bed. he's totally manipulating u. u shd do it cse you wna not if u not in the mood cse he's comin here with his blue ball junk. he's totally selfish jst tell him2 quit thinkin with his d#ck. knowin guys like this hell probably wna cheat or act moody with u. he doesn't consider ur feelings then he's really not worth ur time he's lika kid sulking.

    • Lol. I'm no naïve girl trust me on that

    • I like how I said the same thing and I get called a cunt by shutupandjive but he didn't call u out. I hate the Internet 😑

  • Blue balls lol 🔵🔵 what bull shit!! It's only something said by guys coz they wana cum, yes they may have an uncomfortable feeling but it certainly doesn't hurt. Don't let him pressure u or make u feel guilty, he has a left (and a right) hand to sort himself out if it's that uncomfortable for him. Stand ur ground ull be glad u did in the future.

    • @ShutupandJive what the fuck is wrong with you? Can you not sort yourself out from time to time and feel you must pressure a girl into doing something she doesn't want to. I feel sorry for you, you sad lonely little boy

    • And she's fucking 17! She should not be pressured into anything.

    • Blue balls are extremely painful. Just not very common. And don't obligate someone who is not sexually active to become so. If you are sexually active already and indifferent to your partner being in pain from being teased, i would say that's not so good. But if you're not sexually active, its not a reason to become so.

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  • he'll get over it. first of all I kind of doubt he had blue balls. most guys say they have blue balls when they don't get release but the fact is blue balls don't occur this way all the time. it requires lots of sexual stimulation without release... lots of stimulation. otherwise every time a guy got a boner blue balls would soon follow.

    • He did get over it actually

  • He can release the blue balls through masturbation, but he got really excited and needed to ejaculate. If you are going to conduct foreplay, then some sort of sexual act is going to follow; otherwise, he'll continue to get blue balls. Eventually, he'll get mad enough and leave you.

    • Leave me!! Impossible he knows if he does he can never ask back for me so he wouldn't push his luck

    • That's a really bad attitude girl

    • Yassss (y)

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  • I don't mean to be rude, but that was difficult to read...
    Anyway it does hurt like hell, for a while too, but he can get over it or just have him fix it himself.

    • OK, but I think he was mad n he bit my tongue n tugged on it because I told him no Lol...

    • Maybe it's just my age showing, but I literally can't decipher what you're trying to type...

    • Because I didn't help him masturbate I think he got angry with me n while kissing me b4 I left he bit my tongue n pulled it (that hurts a lot if u don't know). If u don't understand that well I can't help u anymore

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  • Blue balls is not that bad (it feel like someone is squeezing your balls ever so slightly, hurts but it is not unbearable), it is not like he got kicked in the balls, that hurts magnitudes worse, blue balls does not affect health in any way (I think).

    He was just using it as an excuse to get laid, if he does leave you then it would certainly have less to due with his blue balls and more to do with him not having the patience to wait for the right time.

    • He knows I'm not gonna slp with him as yet he wants me to help I'm maturbate but I can see myself helping him with that since I've never done that to myself

    • Maybe when your both a little older, if you can both be patient enough to stat committed, then you can both move a step further.

  • My ex gf gave me blue balls from sitting on my lap
    during a movie we were watching , she was wearing
    thin short shorts hey i liked it , she said to me i was crazy lol

    • OK, well I was naked frm the top but not the bottom I had on leggings n I was sitting on to of him n even lying on top of him

    • Cool hahhaha

  • I hate girls that tease it's annoying as hell. I would go find another girl seriously

    • Not even if it was ur idea for that?

    • What kind of guy wants that? Like I said no games. Stuff like that gets you cheated on

    • U don't understand, I have big breast n he happens to love breast especially big ones. He wanted to suck them so I allowed him, I only give what u ask for that's my rule. N if u ask for something else that I think u should get like losing my virginity then u gotta work for that

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  • Im sure he went home and jacked off. He will be fine after he cums once or twice. You should stay away from him and any sexual activity f ok r a year or so.

  • Think of it like this, imagine having sex and he stops right before you have an orgasim. How pissed off would you be? Because its the same thing only ours hurts.

    • Ok I guess

    • It's the truth.

  • He will forget about it. If you don't do the foreplay for awhile.

    • The first time it happened the month was finished n he wanted todo it again but due to things not going right he got it last Sunday

    • Wasn't*

    • Oh I see

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  • So essentially, you were a bitch to him, fro no reason?

    • for*

    • Lml I wouldn't say so

    • Sounds so

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  • Do not tease if you have no intention to please
    also he can jerk off and take care of it himself

    • We agreed on foreplay only, it was his idea. The first time we tried it he didn't had blue balls but the second time I don't know what happened

    • what types of foreplay?

    • Breast sucking or whatever u wanna call it

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  • Just stop fucking with him and give it up!

    • Nope I can't give it up to him yet he gotta work for it

    • Whatever happened to workers rights? You're not paying fair wages!

    • Hahaha