I made the mistake of telling my boyfriend that my ex had a huge penis n he's extremely insecure now.. How do I fix this?

My boyfriend has a really small penis n is extremely insecure about it. I love him n I told him I don't care about that but I know he doesn't believe me. We were drinking one night n I let it slip thst my ex had a really big penis n now I can tell he is extremely insecure. He won't let me see him naked anymore never mind have sex. I keep telling him size doesn't matter but he doesn't believe me. Now he's asking exactly how big n what size n did I enjoy it n if I have pictures so he can see. He waa huge n this guy is very small n I know telling him the truth will mess him up even more. What do I do? Do I tell him? Will that help him get over this? Any other ladies experience this? What did you do?
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  • if he ever changes his mind about sex, then you start giving him head every day and tell him it's exercise and good for his penis health and help his penis grow bigger. but i think eventually you two are gonna split one way or another, unless he gets over his insecurities over this

  • I pulled the trigger and accidentally shot someone n now he's paralyzed from the waist down. How do I fix this?

    You don't. Sometimes you can't take it back or fix it. You just gotta live with it or move on

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  • You can't fix it. I accidentally did that😳 he asked if my ex-was big and my dumbass answered yes. You can't fix it. I even tried paying extra attention to his member to try and distract him from the mistake from then on. It didn't work. 3 years in he still talked about it.

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  • If I was talking to your man, I'd say: you're good! Don't worry about size so much- you just need function, technique and you need to make sure you are CLEAN down there. Wash well and use a penis care product to get great benefits to your genital skin.

  • Come on to him as hard as you can- give him the feeling he is desirable to you. Might take a few times before he lets his guard down, though.

  • There's probably not much you can do. What exactly have you told him? Only about his penis size?

  • Lmfao you def are a cuck troll.

  • Don't talk about penis anymore, and be as thirsty as possible instead. Ask him for sex multiple times a day.

    Show, don't tell.

  • Avoid the subject and show him how much you want him. It doesn't matter he is small what matters is you enjoy him and that he knows how to use it or is open to learn. So i agree with the act thirsty, show him how desperstely you want his dick and tease him to have intercourse. Normally i advice people to be genuine but in this case make him feel like a sex god by letting him know how incredible it feels once he fucks you again.

  • You can't. You started that ball running. Not much you can do about it now.

  • He must learn to face facts. When he asks questions: answer truthfully (he calls for it). If there is no question: give no answers. If he cannot stand it - - -> someone else will.

  • Go for a date make himself comfortable. Take the initiation.

  • Make him believe that he is the best fuck of your young life and that he pounds the cum out of you. Do that a handful of times and its ex by who? I didn't know you had 1

  • Hahahaha 😂 LOL
    Don't tell him. It's better that way

  • Simple, tell him the truth, tell him that a larger penis feels better, but you would take him and his micro penis over your ex and his elephant dick any day of the week, because the man is more important to you than his dick.

  • Go back to your ex 😂

  • I don't think there is a quick fix for this

  • You should never tell a partner that your ex had a big penis. No wonder he's insecure. Was your ex much bigger.

  • Tell him how big it is, and show him pics, if you can. He may be really excited about it.

  • Why you're even talking about your ex in general, I do not know, much less his penis