I messed it up w a friends with benefits by being “clingy”&saying I could get bigger P, how do I get back to being friends with benefits w him?

[Anonymous]

Is it possible? How do I get him to be friends with benefits w me again? I only told him I could get w someone w a bigger penis cuz he told me I couldn’t take his, for that long. Which was because we didn’t have lube and it was anal sex. But he said since we had soap it counted as lube and I just couldn’t take it. So I got pissed and said I could get bigger dick anyways. And now it’s over and lmaooo shit is there a return from this?
(Also I would text him a lot apparently so he said he didn’t need clingy in his life rn, but he was still down to be friends with benefits so the thing that ruined it was the jab about his dick)

[chriscdi]

after that bit of shade you threw at him, i doubt it, i dont think he will be comfortable to have sex with you again

[Asker]

Well it’s not like I told him he had a small dick. Just that I could find someone w bigger d... lmao but I thought guys liked sex?

[Asker]

What if I told him I just that cause I was mad? And didn’t mean it?

[chriscdi]

they do but its like you being comfortable enough to have sex with someone and then that person tells you "i can find a tighter pussy than yours" or i can find better pussy than yours" after that you won't be comfortable to show your vagina to him cause he would be basically lowering your self esteem about your vagina and well you won't feel comfortable having sex with him anymore

[Asker]

Like it’s not a big deal but damn men r so sensitive when it comes to their ego. I’ll just leave it. His loss anyways 🤡💁‍♀️

[Asker]

I would still fuck him if he said that Lmaoo

[Asker]

Hey I mean I guess I’m just not insecure

[chriscdi]

what is said is said, anger sometimes makes you blur out the truth, you can try fixing it, i just know that its probably not gonna go back to how it was exactly, its a turn off

[Asker]

So I shouldn’t try?

[chriscdi]

thats the best way i can describe it, its a turn off

[chriscdi]

if you want, only way to find out is to try

[Asker]

Lol well ok I mean I know there’s a lot of prettier girls than, but I still know I’m hot. So I guess I wouldn’t care if he told me that. I guess guys are more sensitive when it comes to their ego , insecure

[chriscdi]

its not that they are sensitive, its just a turn off, and saying that is sorta disrespectful, no one wants to be replaced and those words basically told him that indirectly

[Asker]

Like I said I wouldn’t rlly care

[Asker]

If he said that to me

[Asker]

It is about insecurity tho u admired it “lowering your self esteem” not feeling comfortable lollll but OK

[chriscdi]

well cause women can get laid by anyone, if you put in as much effort as a guy does to get laid then im sure you wouldn't take that either

[Asker]

Eh so what if I sent him nudes?

[chriscdi]

its all based on the person tho, everyone is different

[chriscdi]

like i said, you can try, I don't know what will happen

[Asker]

How do I get him to fuck me again?

[chriscdi]

i dont know the answer to this

[bowenw]

Apologize and talk with him. Tell him how you feel.

[gandolph3]

apologize about his cock, and get some lube for your ass