I need a f buddy?

I don't want a relationship just sex is that normal?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Honey_shhxox, it's normal in a way. Make sure you are emotionally healthy and prepared for any unintended consequences. I've been married to my wife for 8 years. I met her when she was 25 and she was sexually wild!! She wanted to have sex w/ me first date, I turned her down. She went to see a therapist about her lack of relationships. Took her 2 years to get her self respect and esteem back. From the time she was 18 till 25 she had sex with at least 50 guys. She is a faithful wife now and much happier with herself. Bonus for me I have a wife that is a sexual prowess and knows how to please a man!!
    Have fun but be careful you don't get hurt emotionally or physically!!

  • It's not that uncommon.

    However... women tend to get emotionally attached when they have sex (not your fault - it's biological; your brain releases the hormone oxytocin during sex - especially during orgasms - that makes you bond) and though they originally wanted just friends with benefits, their feelings change and then they want a relationship - and tend to get upset when the guy's feelings DON'T change and he wants to continue the friends with benefits but doesn't want to turn it into a committed relationship.

    So... be aware of that, and if you feel like you're getting feelings for the guy, you should probably end it.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Totally normal

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  • To your generation, sex is a recreational thing, not what it really means. Go for it.

  • Sure it is for many :)

  • It is normal. I am in an friends with benefits relationship. We get along with each other and have fun but it is mostly about lots of sex.

  • your life and if thats where you are at then go for it

  • for a woman? thats really strange. only men have that mindset

  • Pretty sure most girls have had one, so no it's not uncommon.

  • Yeah, I go through phases like that in my life. I'm in one right now, in fact.

  • Sounds like stage 1 Downs syndrome to me.

  • I consider it normal...

  • You don't want to be tied down, that's completely normal. You're only 20 and your mood for settling down will change over time.

  • Its the new normal
    its gonna lead to a bunch of unhappy individuals who are used up and lonely and have no one who loves or trusts them

    • Well said!

    • @nirala_na Yeah, it sucks for everyone! This hook-up, no commitment relationship culture is gonna cause a lot of problems long term

  • From my perspective is compreensible.
    Hope you get someone tha can offer you trust and care.

  • Sure is normal, that is why there's this thing called a 'fuck buddy'

  • And I need a drink.

  • sure, why not.
    not that uncommon

  • Yeah id say so.

  • Go for it. I'm sure you have plenty of options.

  • Yeah, sure. Nothing wrong with that.

  • If we say it's not normal, do you promise to not do dirty things?

  • Perfectly normal , good luck to you 😉

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