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I need Any cool or different sex ideas?

So my boyfriend wants me to fix our fight by surprising him with new sex stuff. So the last week I’ve been sending him like new kind of nudes, public nudes (that was so hard to do!). I’ve planned a sex date for him. I’ve done a photoshoot at home like a boudoir shoot and printed them off and sent them to him in a card.

He said he hates everything and they’re not good. Any more ideas? It’s more he wants me to send him something kinky than do a sex act.
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  • Dumb question, why do have to fix this.
    Last time I knew it takes 2 to argue.
    Sounds like he is trying to manipulate you into doing things you might not otherwise do.
    When does it end?
    Remember once you send nude pictures they are out there forever!
    Even if we're to break up he can do whatever he wants with them.
    Just tell him that was more than enough already.
    Personally I wouldn't trust him.
    I'm a guy and to me it really sounds like something he or he and his buddies cooked up to see how far you will go with this.
    Ya, he says he loves you bla bla bla, but if he truly loves you he wouldn't be asking you to do all of that.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You sent him nudes and he said they were not good? If the woman I was with sent me nudes, I'd think they were wonderful, and tell her so - even if they did come out badly. Its the idea that would mean so much.

    Maybe your pictures were not as polished as professional porn - but that is taken by pro photographers in studios often with lots of post-processing.

    What to do? I'm tempted to say dump this jerk.

    • Yeah he always says he doesn’t like them or they’re not good or they’re like boring or the same. It’s rare he’ll compliment them to be honest. He just says he’s being honest

    • There is hones and there is rude. Is my wife the most beautiful woman on the planet - of course not. I didn't marry her for her beauty, but for many other reasons. It would be stupid to suggest that she happens to be the most beautiful woman out of billions. But... she is beautiful to me. That is not a lie - its a description of how I feel when I see her.

Most Helpful Girls

  • More ideas! Break up!

    No more for him you did such a hard thing and he hated it.

    After a fight he demands you do something new! Gross

    I'd slap my husband for that and start another fight.

    Grab a collar sit on him and make him obey you and do new things only for you!

    Really you need him then try a camera toy

  • There's surely nothing about this guy worth any of that, if this story is even true.

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  • He obviously just wants videos of you having sex with other men.

    • Why do you think that?

  • He sounds kinda picky and it seems like it is all about him when you have tried your best. How is your sex life with him?

  • No no no no no no no!!!

    Sex isn't something you owe him because there was a fight.

    Just no. Dump him and find someone who has a mature view of communication and conflict resolution.

  • Tell him you want to play a game. Tie him to the bed or handcuff him (I will loan you you the handcuffs) Put a blindfold on him, ear plugs, and shooters ear covers, take all of his clothes off, gag him, Invite all of you girlfriend's in to see what you are 'dealing' with, and then don't tell him until a month later, what you did.

  • If you can do it, masturbate close-up on camera through to visible orgasm contractions; crop and send him that video clip. Tell him that's how he makes you feel.

    • That’s kind of good. Any other ideas?

    • Cringe alert. A fixation of mine. In that same closeup position, pee for him.

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