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Cowgirl tips
Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
• He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
• Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
• Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
• Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
• When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
• When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
• When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
• As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
• If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
• Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
• If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
• He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
• Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.1 0 0 0That's actually very useful, thank you!
It's my pleasure. Let me know how it works for you.
Grab a pillow and practise on that. Also if you have a friend that has a horse you could literally try practising with horseriding.
1 0 0 0I actually just might try that! Just another reason to learn how to ride a horse.
Good luck!
Haha Thank you!
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Have an agreed clinical "learning night" lab session where you have him guide you with his hands on what works and try to replicate it. Then try different motions and ask what feels good and what doesn't.
1 0 0 0That sounds like a great idea!! Thank your very much
Have him move around himself too. It's not just your job to get him off.
0 0 0 0Can you PM me? Its probably in your motion. Or your body position.
0 0 0 0My Xper level won't let me- But I understand what you mean. I honestly lock up a lot when I try too, it makes it pretty uncomfortable.
So it may be that you can't support your own body while trying to hump. I would suggest having him put his head closer to the wall so that you can put your hands above his head. That way you can use your arms to help push you back when you thrust your hips forward. I also would suggest allowing your butt to wiggle. I know that sounds weird but if you allow it to naturally jump and then pick up on the rhythm, it will feel better for both of you. You can also do reverse cowgirl, where you are riding him in a more seated position. Have him sit in a chair with no arms and then straddle him with your back facing him. You can do this with another chair in front of you until you build up the leg muscles needed but this won't bend him at a weird angle. Its my favorite. Once you get the rhythm down for that one, you can reach down and help yourself out while he's inside you. Feels great
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6 7Watch some sex videos about it... I learnt that riding position from them...
0 0 0 0Think about riding a horse. That's a good first step.
1 1 0 0Grind. Don't thrust. Sort of rub your clit against his pubic area.
0 0 0 0That's what I initially was trying but he wasn't having any of it
If it pleases you then that's all that matters. There are other positions (Like doggy) for his pleasure. If he's complaining, he doesn't sound like a very good lover in my opinion.
That's actually the first time if heard this
1 0 0 0I just learned how myself. You have to act like you're cookie is trying to sweep... Sounds weird AF but true
0 0 0 0Put a pillow down under his hips that should keep your hips from locking up. Also put on some music and just move your hips to it.
1 0 0 0Look on-line, there is a lot of cowgirl riding vids.
0 0 0 0He doesn't like it. Don't ride him. It's dangerous
1 0 0 0Try to move your hips towards his penis' curvature I mean try to grab his penis with your vagina and move up and down or try reverse cowgirl so that he can see your ass too
1 0 0 0Come on
0 0 0 0Youtube - how to ride sex... the top 2 vids are helpful
1 0 0 0Don't rock, do more of a bouncing moition. Practice an up and down motion with your hips. I usually lay my stomach against his and just rock my hips back and forth (like a humping motion). You can also try twerking on it.
1 0 0 0Doggstyle
0 0 0 0It would be more cowgirl or reverse cowgirl if she wanted to ride not be ridden
She said she can't ride... so let her boyfriend do it duh
He doesn't like doggie-style, I guess it bends his member a little too much for him to like? I don't know he gave me a few excuses essentially.
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