I need sex advice, quick. Initiating sex dominantly?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend has been wanting me to be more dominant in bed. She only just brought this up the other day, and she never really elaborated on what exactly she wants me to do, but she definitely wants me to be more take charge. I've been horny for her all day, so I want to give this a go. I've gotten the ball rolling with text messages. A sample; Me: You need to be at your place by 6 Her: Y? Me: Cuz that's when I'll be there. Her: I might b a little late. I can't leave work until 530. Me: Don't be late. Your pussy belongs to me tonight, and I want you in your apartment waiting for me at 6. Her: Whatever you say. :D That's my idea of being dominant, (over the phone anyway) and she seems to be liking it. So my question now is, what's the best way to get started once I walk in the door?

[FakeName123]

What most girls mean with dominant is not necessarily what you did in your text-example. They want to be taken, but not subjugated.
What she means is you taking charge, you being confident, you going ahead and taking her along. It's pretty much being the active part and initiative.

In opposite what you are doing is "Do what I want when I want it". And the moment she would say "no", you would be dropping out of that act immediately.

Now obviously the boundaries between what is being active and dominant and what is simply subjugating her are not as easily to call out. It depends on a lot of factors. Generally speaking try to take more charge and develop yourself from there.

Don't worry about pinning her some against a wall when you want to passionately kiss her.
Don't worry about taking her on your shoulder and throw her on the bed when the mood is right.
Don't worry to write her a sms that she is making you horny and when you come back home she should be wearing something nice.
Don't worry about showing her how much you desire her physically.
Don't worry about being joking (i. E. Pointing at your boner and say something like "See? This is all your fault. You should do something about it.")

But make it within context and not an everyday thing. Don't use it for your own selfish reasons to have easy sex at all times. Else it will backfire.

[whatIsCreative]

you set the pace. do what you want, communicate but dont ask for permission. get her up against a wall and start to kiss her, (neck, lips, anywhere you want to). i dont know if she likes hair pulling or spanking or things like that but those are ways to dominate your significant other.

[Thisisme01]

Lol my boyfriend is dominant and it's so so sexy. So I love when he tells me I'm his little slut or asks 'who's my little slut? '... other sexy things he says are' you're mine to fuck when I want how I want '..' this pussy is all mine'... 'I'm gonna tear up that sweet little pussy'... and also calling me a' good girl' is so hot.. As far as actions go I love when he pulls my hair... Slaps my ass and bites my neck/tits whilst he fucks me/I ride him.

[Anonymous]

I say you guys should do role play. That'll be very fun & sexy. If she likes it rough, then you should fxck her hard & spank her (only if she likes it).

[Anonymous]

Simply put you want to lead her.
Depending how dominant your talking about. Choose positions, tell her what to do to get into position or just put her into position yourself. Give her commands never ask, get her to tell you who her pussy belongs to. Pull her hair and spank her, hold her down when you fuck her. Tell her she belongs to you.

[Anonymous]

I would have went with if your late your getting a spanking but do you have handcuffs or rope