I need some answers please is he gay with the dildo stuff?

[SondraBarns]

Hello hi I have a question

I been with this guy for 5 1/2 years rite and last yr when we was having sex he was like u wanna fuck me in my ass I told him no then the next couple times we had sex he asks then I thought about it then once we are doing it again he asks I told him if you want me too so he had he’s own dildo huge a** big one so let me get to the point from last year to this yr I fuck him way more then he fucks me for one he don’t even eat my pussy no more but one several times when am fucking him he buts he’s hand back there like he’s pulling he’s ass hole open he be saying go deeper bae some times he say he wants to try it just once you gone sit there and watch I thought it might just be the sensation he was getting to say that so I told him yeah alright one of the next times am fucking him he calls out yes Tommy the next day I told him point blank you you call me a man name on the real do it again we gone have some serious damn problems if you did let another person besides me fuck you yeah I wanna watch just to see if you like that dick more then this pussy but yeah anyways am I a fool is he gay bi or what ever I would love to know a head of time

[smashleyy]

Have a discussion with him about what’s bothering you and that you aren’t sexually fulfilled by how things are currently going. Anal play by itself doesn’t make him gay but calling you by a male name and stopping/slowing down other sexual activities seems like something to be concerned about. He could be gay/bi curious or just a selfish lover.

[SondraBarns]

I mite just have to do that this vibrator is getting old and I getting to that point where I need dick just like i be giving him

[Anonymous]

This does not make him gay. More guys even guys who are 100% straight are wanting to experiment and this sometimes mean they want their woman to fuck them. Do you not remember or realise the male g spot is in their ass. Again this does not make him hay at all but quite possibly just someone wanting to try something different

[SondraBarns]

Yes I know that’s the G spot but calling me a mans name while am fucking you he gets more dick from me then me getting anything

[Sparkie460]

Calling you a man's name is just creepy. Did he just pick that name out of the sky or is there an actual Tommy? It's a problem if you're fucking him more than he's fucking you. If you don't mind doing it to him tell him if he wants you to do it he has to fuck you first.

[Paul09]

5 years? Dam, only now you find out that he's selfish? Maybe he is gay, since he doesn't pleasure you enough. Remind me how these men get women? Definitely 50|50 , or else what is the point?

[boggboss]

That or just selfish when it comes to sex

[SondraBarns]

You might be right I just fucked three hrs ago he in the bed sound sleep am on the couch with a vibrator between my legs

[SondraBarns]

Fuck him three hrs

[boggboss]

Yeah then more likely then not he simply don't care about your needs

[SondraBarns]

I didn’t think of that at all cause he help me become the person I am today

[boggboss]

Maybe talk about this or stop having sex until u can have a proper conversation about sorting this out

[SondraBarns]

Yes it’s been bout a month since he gave me any and I know for show I done fucked him 7 times if not more

[Giggles0]

Nope, not even close. Most likely he is submissive personality and likes a Dominant Female. There is nothing wrong with what he likes or you being a Femdom

[Ben487]

He's at the very least bisexual.

[SondraBarns]

Okay thank you for your answer I hope he’s not at all but I am a women and I would love me some dick

[Iron_Man]

Get out of there why would you even go along with that act

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Dude is gay. Straight men don't want nobody playing with their butt nor do they play with their own butt.

[brandon1122]

Yes, he's gay now

[SondraBarns]

U think so

[brandon1122]

He's barely doing anything with you in bed. But it's you doing him. And he likes Tommy

[SondraBarns]

Man don’t say that

[brandon1122]

I'm sorry. But being honest.

[SondraBarns]

Well like they say what goes on in the dark must come to the light

[brandon1122]

Then stop giving him anal

[SondraBarns]

The way I be thinking if I don’t do him then he gone get it someway some how

[nudeNhorny]

he could be bi and curious about the real thing

[SondraBarns]

I been with him 5 1/2 years I love him very very much do any thing for him but if am not what he want anymore then y can’t he just be honest with me instead of this

[nudeNhorny]

it's never easy for a guy to be honest about this, you ask him if he want to try a real cock, tell him he can be honest with you, if he says yes at least you get your answers, it doesn't mean he is certainly gay, he could be bi, he could be curious.

[SondraBarns]

Thank you I believe I will do that

[nudeNhorny]

Sure, you're welcome.

[Anonymous]

This wasn’t gay until he said “Tommy”!

[Anonymous]

Turn him into your submissive sissy slut cuckold bitch. Fuck him with the strap on and get another man to fuck you and him both. Then you can become his Mistress.

[SondraBarns]

Hehe I like the way you think but I can’t do that he’s a very strong man

[Opinion Owner]

That might be just what he wants.

[SondraBarns]

He’s 53 am 30 I don’t really think so

[Giggles0]

Definitely agree. Sounds like he wants to be cuckold

[Anonymous]

Most men have bisexual tendencies, even though they hate to admit it.

[SondraBarns]

See I don’t mind fucking him at all but if I am doing all the fucking when do I get fucked