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Femdom: BDSM relationship in which female is dominant partner. aka dominatrix, mistress, madame. Often engaging in bondage, ball busting, humiliation, face sitting, forced feminization, chastity, orgasm, pegging, etc.
Their sex life is new, exciting, certainly not boring. But he generally prefers to be mostly dom and she prefers mostly sub. But they are switch as well (hallelujah - I do hate these boxes you know), and she is ready to move on to another role. He is happy & willing as well.
She is an absolute sweetheart. Bubbly, smiley, glass half full, creative, playful kind of girl, very accommodating and adaptable (though not inexperienced or naive.) So bossing people around is certainly not her forte. But she's no innocent, shy wallflower either. She's got no issues with being on top or in charge or making suggestions and decisions. But this guy knows his way around all the toys, all the gear (he brought over a big box in their first week... "No pressure... just for when we're ready" and it's time to swap roles now.
So here I am, the aggregator of information, to collect some of your best tips, on how to help her go about this.
Need Advice On:
1. How to get into this mindset
2. Names to call herself & him
2. Specific words & phrases to say; commands to give (he's into humiliation as well)
3. Actions to do
We Don't Need Advice On:
Sex positions (they've got those covered)
Toys to buy (they've got 'em)
Anal or anything to do with bodily fluids and hygiene
Give me your best, people! I know you have lots of ideas on this one.
What Girls & Guys Said
3 20Meh, I know only vanilla femdom, I'm not into BDSM.