I need your opinions and help?

[Anonymous]

So I’m a virgin and I’ve been meeting this guy/hookup multiple times and we only do oral sex.
The last we met we were doing our thing and he then whispers have you ever thought of fucking.

[ChrisMaster69]

You need to have an actual question…

it’s your body your choice and all that.

it is how you view consent and when you consider yourself emotionally ready for sex.

having to ask the internet, sort of points to you not being emotionally ready for actual sex.

make sure you have a good knowledge of sex, sexual health, birth control, condoms, getting sexual health tested.

decide how far you want to go, make sure the guy understands this.

you BOTH also need to discuss what happens when you get pregnant, as having sex always comes with that risk. Keeping baby, fostering, abortion.

There is a lot of responsibility with having sex, you need to think about it all both on your own and as a couple.

Will he stay with you if he gets you pregnant, do you have a career planned and what is the impact if you have a baby.

[Berethor]

You are not a much of a virgin, so it makes sense for him to say that.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/TechnicalVirgin

[SnakeBoop]

so whats your question?
if you're legal, and want to have sex. go for it. bring lube as well as birth control, make sure you know what you're into sex wise and communicate that.
if not, tell him you don't want to and probably stop meeting up for oral sex?
also, some folks would still not class you as a virgin now. while it can be only attached to penis into vagina sex, some folks like me class it as anything sexual.

[UniquelyBasic]

What do you need help with exactly?

[RealMarek]

He wants to know if you want to have sex, so you have a decision to make. It would be wise to make sure you are both clear about what kind of relationship you have. Do you expect exclusivity? Is it friends with benefits? Is it a committed and caring long-term relationship? This might influence your decision. Also, has he had previous relationships? If so, has he made sure he’s free of STI’s?

[Wise4myage]

He wants to smash, but are you ready? If not, then just be honest.

[Klinklins]

It's your choice.

[Twalli]

So what do you need help with?

[Zlantur2]

And? What is the question? If you gonna do it?

[fireforeffect]

Wait until after you are married.

[andresD14]

Be honest all time

[Anonymous]

What do you want to know?

[Anonymous]

You're not a virgin anymore if you have been having oral sex. Oral sex is sex.

[Anonymous]

I don't know what you need help with.