I never had one night stand, is something wrong with me?

I never had one night stand.
I had possibilities but i didn't feel the need?
Yesterday we had girls meeting and talking about it and all of my friends had many one night stands and they even said "who hasn't?" I kept quiet.
Now i think i am weird, does anyone else never had one night stand? Am i normal?
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  • This means you are normal. I don't know what percentage of people have had a one night stand, but I'm sure it's a minority.

    And no, I have never had a one night stand. I have nothing against it if I connected with someone and things went that way, but it's never happened. I don't feel like I'm missing much.

    Also, don't assume those girls talking about having many one night stands are telling the truth.

    Something that has shown up in many studies, is that most people think that others have more sex with more partners than they really do. The average lifetime number of partners is only about 4-5. That's for an entire lifetime.

    Also, don't buy into this hookup culture stuff. People talk a lot about it, but there is NO evidence that it even exists.

    • I noticed that you are a bit older than me.. and maybe for younger people nowadays it is normal to have many one night stands, i do believe my friends

    • As I said, there is NO evidence that the hookup culture even exists. The evidence actually shows the opposite, that younger people today have less sexual partners, not more. Compared to 30 years ago, there is a higher percentage of virgins and a lower percentage of multiple partners. The term "hookup" is new, but that's just a new word not a new phenomena. "all of my friends had many one night stands" I don't know what "many" is. If they've had 3 or more total partners, including relationships, they would be in the minority. For one night stands, they would be in an even smaller minority. So the answer to the question "Who hasn't?", is that most people haven't. This comes from some of the best research available.

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  • I have NEVER done a "one night" or just 'casual sex' with anyone either! You are TOTALLY normal, OK?
    Don't let other's opinions, and their own 'Sluttiness' make you think you have to be like them!! Be Who YOU are!
    What if that 'one night' and you get pregnant, and he just walks away, like so many punks?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well I haven't either and I most certainly consider myself to be completely normal.
    You should always remember never to do anything that you feel uncomfortable about, and never follow others examples.

    • Thank you for the MHGirl.

  • There’s nothing wrong with you. Not everyone has one. I didn’t and have never felt the need to have one. You have to do what’s right for you but there’s no such thing as right or wrong.

    • Thank you for the MHO

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  • No.

    Actually, you could be the actual normal 1, based on more traditional systems of ethics.

  • This is what the dating world has come down to: If there is any decent woman out there, her social circle starts making her feel like she's the one in the wrong. Disgusting

    • They think it's because i have poor sex drive.. but i don't think so, i masturbate a lot. I just find it kinda disgusting to sleep with a stranger , i am not sure if i would even enjoy it. With my ex boyfriends i had orgasms when i explained them what to do , what i liked, when it took time... i am not sure a random man would even care?

    • Some might care, but still, it's just meaningless sex with a stranger. A turn-off to me that almost every girl is into that these days

    • And yeah, sex drive has nothing to do with it. My sex drive is very high, I'm sure, and I stayed a virgin for many years, and then only had sex with one person

  • I haven't either.

  • good for you, i actually dont respect girls that have many one night stands, because they generally have very poor self control and sleep around a lot, if you only slep with people you value dearly, then thats the healthy thing to go, the phenomena of one night stand is very recent and has had a disastrous effect on western society

  • nothing wrong, no... I've never had a one night stand either, nor have i had any hookup's or friends with benefits... perfectly normal tbf to have or not... it's down to personal choice...

  • No, I haven't either. Seems normal to me.

  • doesn't matter what your friends have done... you do you and thats whats normal

  • Nothing wrong with you 👌

  • Totally cool

  • Never had one as well. Been with the same girl i lost my virginity to for 17 year's.

  • You never do anything unless you really want to.

  • Nothing wrong with that.

  • One night stands are if you just want to get off with someone without having an emotional attachment, if that's not you then that's fine

  • Nothing wrong with being a women of culture

  • Totally normal

  • Lol no there's nothing wrong with u that's a good thing

  • not really, you all have our need

  • Sounds normal.

  • Nope, I only have sex in relationships

  • Sounds normal to me

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