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I only had sex 33 times?

on may 16 it was 2 years since I started to date my current boyfriend

I checked my period calendar, I always mark when we had sex and only counted 33 times in 2 years...

Is it even normal? We dont live together but we do work sometimes at the same project and same office.

When we started dating we were having sex, the first 2 months, every weekend. Like whole Saturday Sunday.

I feel sad... why is this happening.

Is it normal or not?

Especially when he told me he had very active sex life, i mean trios, hookers, swinger clubs, he even has a scar on his dick of fucking so much for like 70 hours with viagra involved

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Superb Opinion

  • This happens sometimes. That's why communication, as people say, is important. If the communication is there though but there's other factors playing in as to why you haven't had sex that much, you could write down a list of those problems and then see if you can find out why those problems exist.

    If there are no other problems, as him if he's OK with picking a day or 2 out of the week where you it's just you and him, and you want to focus on your sex life. Then find out what you both are into, kinks, fetishes, things like that, so some spice will be added. Spicey sex makes a good relationship from my experience.

    • How to spice up sex?

    • Maybe figure out what he's into. Wear something he'd find hot, something that would turn him on. Like silky panties, stockings. Do some role-playing. This one girl and I used to play the big bad wolf and helpless little red riding hood, lol. He has to be into something. Every guy has kinks and fetishes. You could also do some foreplay, like kiss on his earlobes and fingers, belly button, go down on him but just long enough to keep him hard. I used to whisper naughty things in my ex girlfriends ear and that got her going.

Most Helpful Guy

  • If I tell you sex is about quality and not quantity, you won't accept my answer, right?

    And to guys in their prime, once or twice a month is definitely not enough. And you allow him to have sex with "trios, hookers, swinger clubs"? Worse, he actually lead an active sex life with them?

    I'm not trying to judge, but I think you're just another vagina to him. And you do not even have orgasm during your meager sessions with him. Where is his love or consideration for you as his "Special Other"?

    Hence my answer is, your sex life is definitely no healthy. It's not the quantity, but the quality. And he should share the same quality, not quantity. Perhaps you should consider talking to him about it, or moving on to another who can increase the quantity and quality.

    • He is 45... I said the life he had before me He left his ex, drugs and all this crazy lifestyle 4 years he is clean and only then i met him and started dating He never cheated on me he swears to me

    • He can't get it up many times We can be making out and its still soft af

    • How you know he doesn't treat me as his special other? how is it even this treatment? Im his oficial girlfriend, everybody know that

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Most Helpful Girl

  • The first month of my marriage I think I had sex 30 times in the first 10-15 days. Honestly I was sore, I asked my sister about it and she said start giving him blowjobs instead of sex or warm him up with a blowjob and finish him off so that penetrative sex is minimal.

    • How is this even physically posible Did you not work but fuck whole day?

    • That makes me feel like a fucking joke He doesn't want me... does t love me... what the fuck he wants from me then

    • We were on our honeymoon.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • How do you feel about that? If you're unhappy with the number of times you've had sex, then perhaps you should consider dating other guys.

  • When people stop making things up and think things through, 33 times is not outrageous. Hopefully you both shared enough oral to keep the equipment in top shape and maintain intimacy.

    • Sometimes we do only have oral, very rare tho

    • He is soft many times

  • Life..

    • What do you mean, life?

    • Life getting in the way. Which tends to show where one’s priorities are. It’s mutual, even if you want more and he’s distracted…you need to let him know.

    • He is tired and soft all the time

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  • It's more times than I've had it.

  • Sounds sad too and laxking of passion

    • Why is he like that with me?

    • Dunno maybe something misses from the attraction between you two, hard to tell you could figure that out probably or maybe he is justmasturbating too much in free time

  • Lmao he doesn't love you

    • How do you know that? He said he does Why would he lie to me?

  • Yes it's too less

    • Its like les than 1 sex per month What do you think about it Why this happens?

    • I ask him he says he is tired He can't be tired or not in the mood all the time, right

    • It's depends how you're on bed..

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