I recently had my first time having sex, this is what I think, maybe somthing is wrong with me?

So. All in all. It was... meh. Like 6/10. It felt good just... not great. I didn't cum, but she certainly did, 3 times. It lasted about 45min or so. Somtimes it kinda hurt, and others it felt meh. Like I had my dick in warm water with a hand around it but a lose hand. There wasn't anything special really and it was... boring to say the least.
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  • No it's normal it's not supposed to feel great like that for the time lol it can be alright tho it's probably cause how feel while having sex an all an nothing's wrong with you you probably wasn't turned on like that

    • If sex doesn't feel good then... why have it?

    • Lol people just let it happen but for a few tries it'll feel right

Most Helpful Girls

  • First times usually aren't the best. Takes time to learn what u like. But if its boring im thinking ur just not into sex or her... even tho when u first start out, u generally are excited and horny and want to experiment. Could b nerves too.

    • Could be nerves. I was super nervous

    • Yes practice makes lerf. will help calm u, so keep trying.

    • Perf

  • I call bullshit. Virgins don't give women multiple orgasms and the only way you'll last 45 mins is if she drained your balls first

    • It's hard for me to orgasm anyway. It's a problem. I dont feel a lot in my dick anyway. Lol, not everyone feels the same amount of pleasure. Maybe mines dampened.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Is the first time you get in the driver's seat of a car your best driving experience? Or is it better after you do it a few times; have a feel for it and know how to act and react?


    Same thing

    • Maybe sex isn't just for me.

    • Too soon to make that determination

    • Who knows

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  • The person you had it with wasn’t special? Don’t you have feelings for her?

    • Of course. But the sex didn't feel special, it felt boring. Like a chore.

    • If you loved the girl, the act should not have felt boring

    • It felt boring because of how stressed I was. I was super nervous

  • (((((((((((((((((((( I didn't cum, but she certainly did, 3 times. )))))))))))))))))))
    (((((((((((((((((((( I didn't cum, but she certainly did, 3 times. )))))))))))))))))))

    Are ya winning, son?

    • Okay. Gotta say. Love the image. Its hilarious. I'm not winning, it was boring and I was super nervous. She says she easily organims though so it's not impressive.

  • The first time, for most people isn't the best. But now you have an idea of what you don't like, so maybe communicate with her and you'll be able to figure out what you do and don't like. It takes time, and if you're with someone you love it's much easier to communicate on those things.

    • But it wasn't special, she was on top cause I had no idea what to do.

    • Personally, I've always had a better time when both parties participate more. Try foreplay to start out, I would recommend researching on how to stimulate a vagina with your fingers, tongue etc. And if she's comfortable, ask her to go down on you as well. Remember to tell eachother what you like more or less. And try different positions for sure. The first couple of times, especially, you will learn a lot about you and your partner.

    • Alright. Thanks

  • You're full of shit.

    • Okay? That doesn't help. It honestly didn't feel that great.