I recently lost my virginity found out today the guy didn't use a condom and he also blocked me On social media I am pregnant?

[Anonymous]

[ZS007]

No phone number?
use a friend's social media to come in contact with him.
Find a legal reason to "trap" him
don't tell him that you are pregnant via texts or calls
lure him in and then make it so that he can't escape
He is a scumbag
You should have also been more careful though. And about sex and about who you meet.
I don't know what you are going to do with the baby but he can't just dissapear without taking any responsibility

[Joeshamo]

You think she can Metoo him?

[ZS007]

@Joeshamo what's a metoo?

[Joeshamo]

#metoo you know when they go after famous rich people who use their money and status to get sex from women. #METOO is for rape victims too. I think they do it for normal people too. But I can be wrong.

[ZS007]

@Joeshamo I didn't know about that thank you for telling me. I don't know if it's a metoo situation though. There was partial consent, to getting physical but not knowing what he did thats not right. Not sure. The guy should be found that's certain.

[Anonymous]

take a pregnancy test. if you are pregnant, the two week mark would start to show some symptoms such as nausea and vomiting, frequent peeing, tender and swollen boobs, moodiness, and of course a missed period.
sometimes those symptoms are different for everyone but take a pregnancy test to make sure. they will sell it to you if you go to the dollar store like someone else said.

[TadCurious]

You really didn't know at the time you had sex with him that he wasn't using a condom? Really?

[Asker]

I was a virgin. I was also nervous and i remember i put one on him but he turned me around to fuck me

[Wise4myage]

Get tested just to make sure, hopefully its negative.

[Aerissa_Jade]

What an ass, but you'll need a test to be sure. It isn't always a guarantee, it is always a possibility.

[purplepoppy]

Tough shit. How would you not know he wasn't wearing a condom until several days later?

[Asker]

It was my first time :/

[purplepoppy]

No excuse

[loves2learn]

You are pregnant? I’m really sorry that happened. If you know his name tell the authorities and ask for a paternity test so you can get child support.

[Asker]

I don't know? This happen two weeks ago

[loves2learn]

Ok. Chances are you are not. Take a deep breath and buy a few tests. Dollar store ones work just fine and are cheap. Good luck.

[Asker]

Okay but I m only 14 would they sell me them?

[loves2learn]

Yes they will sell them to someone any age. Maybe make sure to go to a store you don’t usually shop at.

[bigbluey]

You’re only 14?

[loves2learn]

That is what she said. Tho her age on the site appears to be wrong.

[Asker]

Okay :/ and yah i lied

[AviatorTom]

Maybe I'm wrong, but it seems that every Anonymous post I see shows (18-24).

[Asker]

Cause people lie about their age

[loves2learn]

@aviatortom its either: 18-24 25-30 31-36 36-45 45+ I*think* or close. Don’t quote me.

[loves2learn]

*31-35

[AviatorTom]

Thanks, that's what I would expect but all I recall seeing is 18-24

[Cubus]

@Asker Hey girl, is everything ok? Did you have your period?

[readyplayer001]

getta pregnancy test actually more then one and take them

[mark000h]

Sounds like a great guy 😔

[exitseven]

You might be. You will have to take a pregnancy test to find out for sure.

[Cubus]

Were you fertile that day?

[Asker]

I don't know?

[Cubus]

Then it's a hard situation.

[Cubus]

You said it was two weeks ago, right? I heard that pregnancy tests work just so after two weeks. Buy some and check.

[Cubus]

Don't worry. I believe everything will be alright.

[loves2learn]

@asker do you know when your period is due and if you’ve missed it?

[Asker]

December 3 and not yet but my stomach feels weird

[Cubus]

It may be because of stress. I heard it can also cause it.

[Asker]

Okay :/

[Cubus]

I would wait for your period. If you won't get it then have a test.

[Cubus]

It will end up good, girl. I know it.

[loves2learn]

I’m with @cubus it could be nerves. You are most likely not pregnant. Take a test on 12/3 if you have not yet gotten your period.

[Asker]

Okay :/ i will :/ thanks

[Cubus]

Is everything ok, girl? Did you have your period?

[Asker]

Not yet :/

[Cubus]

Were your periods irregular before?

[Asker]

No :/

[Cubus]

I would wait day or two more, and if you won't start bleeding then have a test. But I would like to ask @loves2learn what she thinks about it.

[loves2learn]

Hi hun! I’m gonna recommend you take a test (or 3). At this point it will be accurate either way and it is better to know than not. If you need help interpreting your results or with anything feel free to follow me and send me a direct message.

[loves2learn]

*or 3

[Asker]

This Moring when i woke up I had to throw up :\ I think i am ;\

[Cubus]

Then I believe it's the best to have a test. You'll be sure.

[loves2learn]

The funny thing about bodies is the same symptoms of pregnancy can also come from feeling nervous or stressed. Are your nipples or breasts sore at all? That was my #1 pregnancy indicator.

[loves2learn]

My recommendation is still to buy a few tests at a store you don’t usually shop at and just get it over with.

[Asker]

Nope. no soreness just the me throwing up this Moring :\

[Cubus]

It could be just stress. It may cause this. But it's better to check.

[Asker]

Ok :/ i think im have to steal the rest :/ there 11 $ each and i havw 16

[loves2learn]

Don’t steal the test hun. Are you able to go to a cheaper store? Or look for one that’s a thin strip? Those are cheaper but still effective.

[Asker]

There a walmart and a cvs

[loves2learn]

Target by me sells these for $8. There might be smaller packs too.

https://imgur.com/a/nsdpsZk

[loves2learn]

Look for the generic brand called Equate:

https://imgur.com/a/QGOFmtM

[loves2learn]

It will be at Walmart.

[Asker]

Target a far walk. im at walgreens now

[loves2learn]

Do you see some that are Walgreens brand? They will probably be like $8. But worth it.

[Asker]

Yes but there open and nothing inside

[loves2learn]

Is there another store close by?

[Asker]

Walmart and cvs walmart closer im walk there.

[loves2learn]

Ok. I recommend walmart and look for the equate brand. Should be less than a dollar.

[Asker]

Okayy

[loves2learn]

Did you get a test?

[Asker]

I got 4

[Asker]

This lady keeps staring at me im in line to pay should I ran?

[loves2learn]

Deep breath. Just make your purchase.

[Cubus]

Don't run, girl. Do it quickly and it will be over.

[Asker]

Ok :/ I feel like everyone staring at me :\

[loves2learn]

I know. What they think does not matter. Quickly make your purchase and get out of there.

[Cubus]

I understand it's awkward, but you have to. Don't think about what others think about it.

[Cubus]

You can PM me or @loves2learn. I will do my best to help you. She too.

[Asker]

I got them should I do then it home?

[Cubus]

I believe yes. @loves2learn

[Asker]

Okay i will.

[loves2learn]

Be careful to hide them well if you do not want your parents to find them.

[Cubus]

Do you have everything that is required to take the test? If you don't have it than maybe you should buy it at shop.

[Asker]

Okayy thanks y'all.

[Asker]

I tho i just needed the rest What else I need?

[loves2learn]

You need the test and pee. Usually you can pee on the stick or in a little cup provided and dip for the recommended amount of time. I preferred to dip in the cup myself but either works.

[Cubus]

Remember to be sure, your parents won't see you taking the test.

[loves2learn]

@Asker were you able to take a test?

[Asker]

Yah :/ im kill myself :/

[loves2learn]

Oh hun. It’s positive? Also don’t say that. It’s not as bad as it seems right now.

[Asker]

Yes :'(

[loves2learn]

Do you have a sister or cousin you could tell who might be able to support you?

[Cubus]

Don't say this. I understand it's extremely hard for you, but it'll be good, girl. I know it.

[Asker]

My sis lives in Montana I don't know if she help.

[loves2learn]

I think you should call her. She will have the best advice for how to tell your parents.

[Asker]

I Don t wanna tell them.

[Cubus]

You will have to eventually. They would notice it. It's better sooner than later.

[loves2learn]

You can wait 2 or 3 months if you like but they will notice you throwing up.

[Asker]

There not home in the Morimg so its okay.

[loves2learn]

Okay. I still think you should tell your sister. Also, when I was pregnant I didn’t just throw up in the morning. It happened all times of day.

[Cubus]

It would be hard for your parents, but you are their daughter. They love you and would do anything for you. The will support you girl, I'm sure about it.

[Asker]

@loves2leaen Really? I tho it was only in Morings? They Dont love me :/ they left me home alone for weeks.

[loves2learn]

It’s a misconception that it’s only mornings. What about someone at school. Do you have a school counselor or school clinic you could go to?

[Cubus]

I will pray for you, girl 🙏 It will sort out, I know it. Stay strong.

[Asker]

I rarely go to school I think they yell at me :/

[loves2learn]

The clinic would not yell at you.

[Asker]

Okay ill go Monday

[loves2learn]

Okay. If you need anything you can always message me.

[Asker]

K thanks (;

[loves2learn]

Very welcome.

[Cubus]

You can PM me too. I will do my best to help you.

[Asker]

Ok thanks. I ask a friend and she said if i have rough sex i might have an abortion.

[loves2learn]

@Asker that isn’t true. That is a myth. Rough sex would likely only hurt you and not the baby.

[Asker]

Really? :/

[Asker]

I Don t want a baby :'(

[Cubus]

Couples have sex during pregnancy and it doesn't affect baby in any way. It's a myth

[loves2learn]

I know. You are awfully young. I think you need a medical opinion.

[Asker]

:'( :'(

[Cubus]

We're with you girl. You're not alone in this.

[Asker]

I made a fake fb and told him im pregnant he wanna talk in person should I?

[Cubus]

You should be very careful. Don't know what he's gonna do.

[Cubus]

How old is he?

[Asker]

His 16

[Cubus]

What did he exactly told you?

[Asker]

He said he doesn't remember Fucking me. and If we wanna talk we can talk in person

[Cubus]

When does he want to meet?

[Cubus]

I think I would stay cautious. At least for now. I don't think you can trust him after what he did to you.

[loves2learn]

I don’t think it’s a good idea to meet him.

[loves2learn]

If you do, it needs to be a public place and you need to bring a friend or family member with you.

[loves2learn]

Classic denial. He can “remember fucking you” when the paternity test comes back positive.

[Asker]

His last message before he blocked me. " if i message me again im call the cops on u u whore i never fucked u u were so drunk u were begging go get fuck by me but im loyal so stay away form me whore "

[Cubus]

Don't listen to him. He should be the one afraid of cops, and not you.

[Cubus]

You're not "a whore" girl. Don't listed to him.

[loves2learn]

He is saying that because he is scared. I do think staying away from him is best for your safety rn.

[loves2learn]

@asker how are you this morning, hun?

[Asker]

Ok :/ talking with my sis she said i can move in with her.

[Cubus]

That's great. You need someone to support you. Good news.

[Cubus]

Can you send me a private messege? I will help you, girl.

[loves2learn]

That is really great. I’m glad to hear your sister is being supportive. ❤️

[Asker]

U think an abortion will be expensive?

[Cubus]

I understand it's very hard for you girl, but think it over very carefully. If you done it, you won't be able to change it later.

[Cubus]

I will pray for you. Don't worry. It will be good.

[loves2learn]

Did your sister recommend an abortion? I’m really not sure how much that would cost.

[Asker]

Yah she said it might be best for me and my health.

[loves2learn]

I understand why she said that. Maybe she could take you to a doctor who could explain the procedure and any possible risks?

[Asker]

That what she said. because she says i might be too skinny

[loves2learn]

Could be. Best to ask a doctor. @Asker I just want you to know that most teenagers do things they aren’t proud of. When I was 14 I got drunk and fooled around with a boy from my math class. It can happen to anyone. I’m really sorry it took this turn for you.

[Asker]

I feel so stupid

[loves2learn]

You are not stupid. As teens we often do things without realizing the consequences. I’m really sorry you had to learn such a hard life lesson this way.

[Asker]

I followed u.

[jasco]

DNA testing is a great tracking device.