I recently lost my virginity, why am I horny ALL THE TIME now?

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I've only had sex about 5 times, but im always fucking horny. I'm 18

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Applefan1 Guru
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This is normal, the human body needs sex, we are programmed to have a sex life. You have now woken up your sex drive and you are going to need sex more and more because your body has the need for sex a lot more now. The reason it is happening is because you have raging hormones going insanely crazy inside your body, these hormones are getting you horny and causing you to need sex. You then have sex and while it feels great it is making your brain tell you you need more and more of it. I would say you have a high sex drive.
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- Asker
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  i think so because my boyfriend has even told me no a couple times, because we already did it too much in a day
- Applefan1
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  Yeah I am the same as you have love sexual things so much. It sounds like you have a higher sex drive than your boyfriend. I have seen quite a lot of women that sound way hornier than a lot of men.
chocolatedragon Yoda
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Your libido is on fire.
But seriously, sex is a stress reliever and helps boost the immune system.

So on top of getting a fantastic orgasm, you're relieving your stress and improving your health.

You can imagine that's it's quite normal you'd desire it so much.

The real question is:
Can your bf keep up?
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- Asker
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  No haha he has told me no a couple of times because we already did it more than once in a day
- chocolatedragon
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  I don't blame him, the dick gets sore pretty easily lol
- Asker
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  i dont think 5 times was too much?
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- chocolatedragon
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  Depends how long the sessions are.
- Asker
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  like 10-25 minutes
- chocolatedragon
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  If they're 10 mins each then 5x spreaded throughout the day should be possible. If they're 25 mins each, he may get a little wore after 3rd round. It all depends on his refractory period. Refractory period= Time when dick doesn't respond to pleasure and the amount of time it takes for the dick to be able to sustain a full erection. Refractory periods can range from 1s to 1hour lol
- Asker
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  i just dont think he's very good at it
- chocolatedragon
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  Like he doesn't do foreplay or anything? Or you don't feel much pleasure from penetration?
- Asker
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  We start kissing, then making out, then he touches me down there for like 3 minutes, then he sticks it in
- chocolatedragon
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  He's not doing enough foreplay. You need to be "touched" down there for a good 8 mins before he sticks it in.
- Asker
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  i dont think he knows my clit exists. but he's 25 i thought he should know how to do it lol.
- chocolatedragon
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  You mean he doesn't lick the clit? Holy shit lol. This is bad lol. You're not warmed up enough and he goes all dick hungry inside you, damn lol. Unless he learns to please the clit, the sex may suck for a while lol
- Asker
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  he refuses to go down on me. and when he does touch me with is hands, its like, no where near it.
- chocolatedragon
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  If he's not going down, then you could try guiding his hand to your clit cause he seems to be clueless if he hasn't figured it out by 25 yet lol.
- Asker
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  i tried that too. he said he knows what to do.. but no, he doesn't. I dont know how to tell him without hurting his feelings
- chocolatedragon
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  I mean unless you grind your clit on his fingers as he's moving them, there's not much you can do without guiding. And unfortunately, if you never speak up to him, he'll never know and will keep on giving you crappy sex. Maybe if you both watched a p*rn together where they do some of the things you like and then you can ask him to try those things on you. Alternatively, you could try denying him bjs unless he decides to eat pussy as well. Think about it. You have to deal with 25 mins of crappy sex while he's getting his nuts off and you're having a subpar experience. Doesn't sound fair to me.
- Asker
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  i'll try stopping the blows lol I have to say something, now that i know what i can get, i want it all the time and he isn't doing it
- chocolatedragon
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  That's the spirit. You like sex and you deserve to get it good lol. Why have sex if it's always going to be crappy, he needs to know what he's doing wrong.
- Asker
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  i dont think it'll work though. he doesn't seem open to anything new
- chocolatedragon
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  If he doesn't make an effort, then eventually the bad sex will create some underlying problems which may lead to a break up, cheating, etc. He better swallow his fucking pride and learn. I never have that problem cause I love giving oral more than receiving lol.
- Asker
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  I'd love to know what a clitoral orgasm feels like
- chocolatedragon
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  It will be your best lol. Clit is equivalent to the head of the dick and it's pretty damn sensitive lol. A shame your bf doesn't eat pussy. He doesn't realize the power of his tongue lol.
- Asker
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  he says he doesn't trust the cleanliness of it since its not "outside" of my body
- chocolatedragon
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  My god, this guy won't stop with the excuses lol. If you regularly shower and have no STDs, he has no excuse lol.
- Asker
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  he's the only guy who has ever touched me and we shower together. I dont know what his problem is. Maybe he isn't attracted to me, and just gets himself off as fast as he can
- chocolatedragon
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  Nah, I doubt it's attraction unless you're chubby/fat or reslly skinny. His knowledge of sex could be influenced p*rn and more than often in p*rn , they don't show the guy doing much foreplay to the girl. Unless you tell him, he's clueless that you're not enjoying the sex to the max.
- Asker
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  I'm chubby. Well i'd say fat, but. yeah.
- chocolatedragon
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  Is he fit or something?
- Asker
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  he's not muscular. but he's thin.
- chocolatedragon
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  I suspect he's suffering from a lack of knowledge, but I don't think it's sn attraction problem unless he has a problem maintaining a boner before/during penetration. But then again, I can't help but think that he'd be willing to try harder if you were hourglass/pear instead of chubby. Some guys are like that.
- Asker
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  then i need a man who can fuck me with the body I have. I won't change it for anyone
- chocolatedragon
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  Then I hope it's just lack of knowledge on his part and not a physical attraction problem
- Asker
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  im mostly thigh and butt with a little bit extra tummy. if he can't handle that, he doesn't deserve what i have to offer
- chocolatedragon
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  So you're pear shaped? Closer to beyonce or Kim K? I think he should be able to handle it. He does shower with you after all.
- Asker
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  haha i couldnt compare to either
- chocolatedragon
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  Do you have any celeb you could compare to so I can think a better mental pic?
  
  How about Mindy Kaling, but with less arm/boob fat?
  
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Most Helpful Girls

sexyredhead Xper 5
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Ya i know the more i have sex or even masturbate, the hornier i get. If you have never felt a penis or experienced one, and then you have the experience, it can be really exciting and just make you more horny
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zombiebabe Editor
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hahha its normal... you're enjoying the pleasures of sex!:D
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wonderhappytime Xper 5
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Probably because sex felt good and now you are addicted to that... It's like a cocaine addiction. You didn't want it before, but now that you know what it feels like, you want it now.
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abzence Yoda
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Because now you've eaten the candy, gotten a taste for it and want more.
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Blondiee2014 Yoda
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Because you know how good sex is now.
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cavmanier Master
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Probably because you want more sex.
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bestadviceguy Xper 6
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Use that desire to express your sexual fire! Tell him what you want/want to do! Can he be sexually adventurous? Does he give you oral?
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- Asker
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  he's pretty vanilla, and no he doesn't.
- bestadviceguy
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  You will need to take the lead... perhaps by expressing that you may help him to be more expressive sexually and it could help your relationship...
Error_204 Guru
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Because you like sex. Any other dumb questions?
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Your_boss Xper 7
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This is natural
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genericname85 Master
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it´s normal. guys live with that problem since they are twelve or something xD masturbation helps.
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chocolateismylover Master
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Seems, normal.
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Bend_West_2 Xper 5
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It's because your body is malfunctioning. Go see an electrician.
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entellect Xper 4
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It's because you're 18. There's nothing wrong with that, just have lots of safe sex!
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ObviouslyAnon Xper 3
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It's like being a child who has never been given chocolate their whole lives.. you have one taste and now you know how good it is!
It's natural, you're a human being! Do it, just be safe!
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kingPoker69 Xper 2
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Love dick
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Anonymous
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Hahaha.. you do really love the sex..
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Anonymous
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Hahaha! Must've been pretty good!
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- Asker
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  the first time no, i didn't have an orgasm until like the 3rd time. i guess he figured out what he was doing
- Opinion Owner
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  And the times since then? Are you regularly orgasming now?
- Asker
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  no. maybe like every other time
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- Opinion Owner
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  Hmmm. . . Is he doing anything in particular the times he does get you to cum?
- Asker
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  he doesn't really do anything except but in and take it out, and put it in.
- Opinion Owner
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  You mean he doesn't do the hokey pokie and shake it all about? I thought THAT'S what it's all about?
- Asker
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  hahahaha no not really. its kind of boring sometimes
- Opinion Owner
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  Sounds like you need to work on some new moves with your guy! Probably a few new positions too!
- Asker
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  he doesn't want to do anything else
- Opinion Owner
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  Tell him if he wants to have his penis serviced, he's going to have to learn to please your pussy too!
- Asker
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  I'm thinking about it!!
- Opinion Owner
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  You totally should! Besides, it's better for the guy if the girl gets off anyway.