I’s my boyfriend not interested in sex with me anymore ( read for more details ) ?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and i were having car sex. I really enjoy foreplay and try to have it as much as I can before penetrating. I always suck his dick and I enjoy getting my nipples licked. My boyfriend rarely goes down on me so I sometimes have to ask him but I usually don’t force him. Lately he wants to fuck me to soon and I tell him to wait and continue sucking him up. The reason why I do that is because he now last very little and cum and I end up wanting more and this is exactly what happened in car.
i started sucking him then I was riding him for a while then I suck him again and then he told me he wanted to Fuck me , I made him wait alil and then we started and it only lasted less then 5mins.

he asked me if I enjoyed and I said “ yes but it lasted very little “ he got so bother saying I was talking shit but I made sure I told him I wasn’t. And he created a problem out of it. I told him if he didn’t want last very little he could of control himself but that made it worse. I told him that he knew I wanted more and that he could of told me we could have another round in a few minutes but he said “ I busted already I won’t be hard so no I don’t wanna fuck. “ I told him that was fucked up of him to say and that it doesn’t seem like he wants me anymore. He stayed quiet and told me he will be dropping me home.

[MacMan156]

well i guess you gotta understand his position too. It happens to me too, blowjob does make us cum very fast because it is too hot, so when you suck him too much he might not last as long when you guys start fucking. then when he cummed, he won't be hard again for a while because we need some time to recover, that explains why he said he dont wanna fuck. he probably feel bad because he can't last as long as you wanted him to, i feel that too

[MaSult]

I think you guys are too different sexually. I myself also love extensive foreplay. The longer the better. long oral pampering for both. But I also had a girlfriend who almost only wanted to fuck directly instead of foreplay. There were always discussions. she came every time, for me it wasn't really satisfying, she never tried to find anything that we both are happy. We broke up at some point because apparently IM too selfish 🙄

[kylee2437]

Lack of communication is a huge issue here. You never communicated your needs and still really aren’t and not only that your boyfriend sounds like a selfish lover. Two horrible combos.

[Asker]

He knows what I want. He just stays playing victim

[kylee2437]

Let me rephrase. You put zero expectations onto things in the beginning. So now he just does whatever because at one point you accepted below bare minimum sex

[Asker]

Im the one that always communicated and still communicates to him about what I want and need but if I say something that he doesn’t like to hear “ I’m talking shit “ so I’m the bad guy

[kylee2437]

No one said here you are the bad guy. I am just pointing out accountability on your side. You give him sex even though he still continues to do bars minimum

[kylee2437]

Bare*

[Asker]

I respect your opinion and thanks for responding to my issue but then what should I do then.

[kylee2437]

Decide if this is someone you want to be with forever. The issue here is lack of compromise on his part which essentially can be a huge issue with more important things in the future

[Summeroflove]

Maybe don’t make everything about sex and you’ll find a meaningful relationship and sex will come later. Like after marriage

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, it sounds like you guys' sexual chemistry just doesn't line up.

[Andres77]

If he gave you oral sex it would last longer.

[peterrezeeek]

why u didn't ask him to give u oral untill u cum 😛💦?

[Northernmost84]

Sex should be enjoyable for both. Don’t feel bad for communicating your sexual needs.

[Anonymous]

Dump him. I'm single and I will take care of you better than him. 😘