I say that woman have a higher sex drive

I say that woman have a higher sex drive

My experience in life have shown me that women who feel truly loved, cherished, respected and safe are more orgasmic!

My contention and what I have heard from my male friends is that women have a lower sex drive then they do. I have heard many times my friends complain that they don't get enough at home. Not saying they went elsewhere, I'm just saying they often complained.

I believe that such a man is unaware of why a woman, ( who I personally believe has a higher sex drive than a man) would appear to have a lesser sex drive. I will leave aside cases of past abuse. From women who have not had the pain of abuse, why is it that men complain, sometimes mildly, that she is less sexual then he would desire?

If you know how to make love to a woman's heart, from the start of the day, love her for who she is and not for what she'll do for you tonight, you will see the true sex drive of a woman.

Some men have understood that. But why isn't that news spreading like wildfire? Are we too selfish? Do we not want to make the effort? Is romance dead? Our ability to seduce is just our ability to unbuckle our belt?

Most of my partners have been multi orgasmic. According to them the important thing is not technic, skills, or stamina, but it is being helpful, generous, caring, understanding and a good listener; in and out of the bedroom.

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  • she can be single and also have awesome sex drive lol

    • You are 100% right , if my take gave the impression that a single woman cannot by herself have a sex drive higher than a man, that was not my intention. she doesn't need to be a steady relationship , she doesn't have to be with a man, it could be another woman , or she can be a virgin, These women have a naturally high sex drive or they are so at peace and comfortable in their sexuality that when they get intimate , they can enjoy it without limitation , even if its a virgin who only masturbates by herself. The only point I was really trying to make , was that women have a higher sex drive, I gave examples that showed scenarios where there was a man and a woman in a relationship , but you are right. single women, and I know first hand how true that is.

  • Women are much more complex than men both physically & mentally , especially emotionally & female sex drive is cyclic , can be very strong during ovulation ( women also secrete more sex pheromone during this time...& it's irresistible to men , I know this first hand , in my picture are the results of this !! ) However women are repressed by especially Anglo type "culture " which teaches both " Sex is wrong " & men are sex obsessed morons , plus men do have to empty that pesky prostate gland & produce a lot of testosterone. Overall as an average , the male sex drive is generally much stronger , I have never encountered a sexually frustrated woman , but no end of men with this frustration !!

    • I agree with you , but what does the end of your statement mean? Of the women where I was able to make love to her heart . It would have been impossible for 99.9% of men to match. I saw them become more patient, better mother ( in 1 case) , more energy , more everything almost and then thinking I should be rewarded , would offer herself anytimes and almost eveything in the day where she had time, I couldn't , 3 -4 times a day , everyday? 365 days ( minus 50 due monthly cycle) . The way I lived it , she was doing it as a thank you , but also because every other part of her life was better , not perfect , but better. It became so NOT about sex , but my reward and a thank and for her about a drug that fed all the other parts of her life. She felt more balanced , but willing to go to the excess had I been able to. The extreme sex drive settled down , often she had that look and a smile and she'd wink and I smiled back only, never a disappointed look on her face

  • I agree, the main difference is it is never spoken about because women are always more discreet and classy with their 'urges'. Whereas, men are often desperate and verging on embarrassing

    • I agree and embarrassing is the right word

  • Pretty sure this is bullshit. Testosterone is primarily what makes you horny, and men have much, much more of it.

  • they do.

    Alien women have higher.

  • When a woman is in love I could believe her desire for sex goes through the roof. Thats usually what happens to me. The only exception I have seen is older single women in terms of having sex with no strings attached like a dude.

  • With alpha males and badboys only. Women are sociopaths.

  • Good take you write so well you must become a editor.

  • My wife is proof this take is true. Her sex drive is through the roof and has amplified since she got pregnant.

  • Annectodtal evidence isn't concrete scientific evidence suggests otherwise. Your title implies woman have a higher one in general. But anyway since your using annectdotal evidence I'll use some of my own. How many woman complain about dick picks compared to guys receiving boob pics.. How many guys go out with the sole purpose to get laid... How many guys masturbate compared to woman... How many guys discuss sex like it's a debate... How many guys complain there partners are prudes. You hardly ever see women say there men dont want sex... Your idea that if she feels loved she'll want it more is to an extent true but it's hypothetical and it's the testosterone in men which makes them hornier. Woman are naturally monogamous and in general have sex with a partner where men are not innately monogamous minded. That's why there are more men that cheat and even if you take animals for instance it's usually one alpha male who protects many of his offsping with several females. Men are horny more so in duration and it's constantly high excluding factors such as stress but for woman it fluctuates because her hormones kick in during her period but for the most part it's lower. It doesn't take a genius to know men are horny more soo them woman. It's almost as concrete as men on average are stronger/Taller then women. You will always get that person who says but some woman are horny and sstronger then men but it's ignorant to ignore the general consensus and average.

    • maybe the proof is that men don't make love to their partner according to the desires of HER heart. Hard to disagree with you , my point is , statistic probably prove your point, I'm putting forward a personal opinion on my observation that with the right lover , it changes and its not just the sex drive that changes but everyone around. At least at this point , the women here have overwhelmingly agreed. Maybe I should have presented it differently , using sex drive in the original question was to peak interest , The sex drive could get higher or it could remain the same, I think the sex drive part of this whole take is just one aspect , I know that making love to her heart which is way more than sex , changes everyone around, that point to me is undenyable

  • So please a woman 24/7 and you'll get some good nights of pleasure. Sounds like a good deal. No, thanks.

  • Your hatred of men is real. It seems like all of the posts I've seen from you are man bashing. It's almost like you're some misandrist who loves to take shots at men. There's nothing wrong with loving , respecting women that are also willing to do the same at equal levels, but you come off (indirectly or directly) as men are evil and women are innocent and aren't capable of any wrongdoing and it also seems like you would defend them to the death no matter what they do.

    • I bash their behaviour , not them as men.

    • Sure okay.

  • Female sexuality is narcissistic, them feeling loved and desired is what turns them on, not the male body, women are more attracted to themselves than their partner. And their sex drive will be limited normally to one man (normally), while men will be more sexually attracted to women at large.

    • you agree wit me don't you take owner, pfft fuck that, i am not going to play to their narcissistic self affirmation

  • Loving and cherishing respecting and safe are all good but so are excited and uncertain, dominated and danger. There are lots of things which release sexual excitement in women. The real key concept is sexual response for women is mostly mental and situational and less physical stimulation. Sex for women is an opera for men it's more like a massage.

  • Well girls do ask all the time why guys are horny all the time.

  • They only have a higher sex drive if the guy is perfect looking. Other than that they want nothing to do with the other 95 percent of guys.

    • in my experience , that would be false , I'm not more than average looking and none of them were what you can consider nymphomaniacs, but willing to make love multiple times a day , every day ( I couldn't do it and never tried ) but every time , they were multi orgasmic , without an end in sight , I would say that had I had 1 or 2 partners like that , ok maybe I got lucky , but try half of my partners and I won't give a numbers count. I learn very quickly that how you treat a woman from the smallest of things and reassure her that she can be herself , and make her realise that he pleasure is more important than yours, woman respond well when you are more there for them than for yourself that she'll try to outdo you and she feels free to let go and feels like an angel yet totally wild. Its impressive and it only requires that we care enough to learn how to make love to them, not according to OUR desires, but according to the desires of HER heart , try it , let me know.