I slept with a married woman, was I in the wrong,?

When I was 20 and at university, I wanted to have some fun, so I matched with this 36 y/o Woman on a dating app, she was married.
I didn’t want anything serious, and I thought she wouldn’t either, given the fact she was married, however in the long run she turned out to be a massive headache as well as very emotionally draining.
Long story short, we had a fling, the sex was mind blowing, which is the only reason I stuck around for as long as I did.
In the end I ended things with her. Because she lied about having a miscarriage (I knew she was lying, because I never cummed in her, and she had no proof of ever been pregnant at all)
I would never have sex with my friends girlfriends or their exs , cause they’re my friends, however I didn’t know this woman’s husband so I didn’t feel like I owe them any loyalties,

Do you guys think I was wrong, is my way of thinking wrong or she was the one that should have kept her vows and stayed loyal to him?
She was married, you should’ve stayed away from her
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You did nothing wrong, she is the one that cheated on him not you
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Wether I enabled or not is irrelevant, my only aim was to get laid, and she laid it on a plate for me, again you don’t blame McDonald’s for being obese you blame yourself
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I think you’ve been watching too much coronation street
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  • did she cheat on her spouse or you? if she's willing to sleep with another dude, i feel like if i'm that dude, her decision has already been made, so me fucking her did nothing for that process. she would have done it with someone else but me, so the end result would have been: "1 cheated husband" either way. so may as well benefit from that situation.

    • Exactly, I had nothing against her husband, I just wanted to get laid, then again I didn’t owe him any loyalties

    • yup. and at the end of the day, he has to accept the fact that he married a hoe that isn't loyal. none of that is your fault.

    • It would be different if he and I were friends and I fucked his wide behind his back, then I would be just as bad as him

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  • You were both at fault, should've known better. But I'd say in these cases the lover (you) is usually the least to blame. The fact that she lied about a miscarriage sounds like emotional abuse to an extent, that was fucked up on her part.
    In the end, you made the right choice to end it. I assume the consquences were lighter for you in the long run (if there were any)... if you learned not to get into anything like this again, then think of it as an experience that made you wiser.

  • Both of you were in the wrong. But if you won't be mad at the guy who your future partner is gonna cheat on you with, thrn you're alright

    • You missed The entire point, in your attempt at trolling, it’s not about being mad at anyone, I maybe could have been considered towards him however I don’t owe him loyalties

    • Ya if a user doesn't like the opinion or its unbelievable, it's always TROLLING TROLLING🙄 That's what I mean. Many guys like you in this world. So don't worry. You will get your answer to if a cheatee is right or wrong when your girlfriend fucks another guy like you

    • If I didn’t want to hear opinions different than my own, then I wouldn’t have posted it on here, as I already said, if my girlfriend cheated on me I wouldn’t be mad at the guy she cheated with and be pissed at her, His wife was going to cheat regardless, whether I was there or not, all I wanted was sex, so I might as well have made the most of it

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  • Very similar thing happened to me at the same age. She lured me in, messed with my head and broke my heart. I rebounded fine but I did later come to accept that I was partially to blame for what happened as she was. Vowed to never to it again. It sounds like you got through it too. I think after some time you might feel the same.

    • I wasn’t Herat broken, I was never emotionally attached to her, to Me it was purely a sex thing, it was just draining how she constantly needed reassurance

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  • You both are equally at fault. Don't feel bad when you get cheated on the same way she did to her husband - but please remember not to blame that guy whom with your wife will cheat on you, because he "doesn't know you and so he did nothing wrong".

    • You tried, I’ll give you that, if I ever got cheated on I would t blame the other guy, I would Blame my girlfriend, cause she’s the one that owes me loyalty, you clearly missed the entire point and came here to troll

    • I'm not trolling, I'm clear on my point. Sleeping with a married woman is simply a direct contribution to that household's destruction. She betrayed her husband's trust and you helped her in that. He is a human that matters, does he really need to be your friend for you to be decent towards him?

    • I don’t have anything against her husband, look at it this way, if You Found £20 on the floor do you pick it up and keep it or do you worry about who lost it?

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  • Hey you wanted fun, you got great sex AND never got involved with her husband? Sounds fine to me. As long as nobody else but her got hurt in the end you ain’t got shit to worry about 🤣

    • I like your way of thinking love 😂

  • Maybe ten years from now, you will be married, and some young guy who is looking for fun will return the favor and fuck your wife good and hard, and then you can hear about it and maybe then be able to answer this question for yourself.

    It was primarily the married woman's responsibility to be faithful to her partner but you were a willing accomplice in her sin. Yes, you should be ashamed of yourself.

    • Good attempt at trolling

    • You don't know me, but others can tell you that I am not a troll.

    • What others tell me it’s irrelevant, all I can do is take you at face value, and at face value you’re a troll

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  • Bro this ain't even that bad

    • Cheers buddy

    • That's why god our females here on earth bro. Have sex with as much as you can before you pass bro.

    • Lol I’ll try 😂

  • While she was a cheater you were the enabler. Chances are that she would have cheated regardless, but no way to prove it. Plus it wouldn't be because of you. Essentially you are the reason she cheated in him, because you allowed her to with you. My sister started dating a married man, but as soon as she found out she got up and left.

    • I never claimed to be saint, besides if she was always going to cheat on him, I might as well have some fun and be the guy she cheats with, and get laid, you don’t blame McDonald’s for becoming obese

    • Because it's actually possible to lose weight only eating Mc Donalds. Also if every guy said no to her because she was married she wouldn't have cheated. Let's say you were the only one who would have said yes to her. You are the reason she cheated in that case. Since we don't know if other guys would have said no, you are the reason she cheated by enabling her

  • Yes with a but...

    • What?

    • But 90% her fault. Wouldn’t lose sleep over it but I wouldn’t do that to the guy

    • Fair enough, I get what you’re saying

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  • Na not really. It's her fault she cheated. You just wanted to fuck. Most guys I've met never cared that I was taken if I were to offer someone they'd say yes.

  • I slept with a married man, but his wife was with us in bed. LOL

    • A threesome? ?

    • Of course.

    • That’s technically different, either way I hope You enjoyed the experience

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  • although she was having an emotional problem you shouldn't have sex with her because it makes her think it's the right way to run away from my problems, I'm sure she's now divorced and she regrets it so much