I started talking to this guy I met through a mutual friend, he is a little older than I am but I want to please him in every way he desires?

[Shybutinterested]

He tells me he needs to be punished, and thinks it's cute when I mean mug him or flip him off. He says things like he needs slapped in the mouth or he's been bad so what am I going to do to him for it. I am a shy person but he makes me want to try new kinky things with him I just have no clue as what to do for him. I want him to be satisfied in every way and I am afraid I will disappoint him. He is really awesome in every way, sweet kind and affectionate I love it I just want to be everything he wants as well. I am willing to try anything at least twice. I just have no clue what I'm doing when it comes to dominating him or making him submissive to me.

[ChrisMaster69]

@shybutinterested there are actually some real world Dommes / Switches on here, these would give far better advice than me, however couple of things first,

what is your overall experience with BDSM like?
What is your usual feel with things, Sub, Domme, Switch?

[Shybutinterested]

Honestly I've never done it but I feel like I could do both just what ever he likes at the moment I get the feeling he likes to be dominated and submissive

[ChrisMaster69]

@shybutinterested the important thing is that you must feel comfortable with actually Dominating him, it’s often one of these things you either are or are not.

Also with everything, you start of small, and take baby steps.

A lot of BDSM stuff comes with risks, this is why it’s termed informed consent, meaning risks are fully understood etc,

See following Link..

belasarius.com/.../

[MrtoddsWildRide]

I have been a dominant for awhile. I think the most important thing is to learn as much as possible and be careful about how you do it.
Safe, sane and consensual.
The biggest online community is Fetlife. If you can ignore the politics that spew out there, you can learn a lot and find people that will be happy to answer questions. It's typically a non-judgmental space although you do occasionally find judgmental people about some kinks. Avoid "domly doms" that know it all and have been doms for twenty years and are twenty two years old and you will be fine there. I have made more than a few friends there
YouTube also has some really good content as well.
If you have questions that you want answered immediately DM me and I will get them as best as I can.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Not sure if I can help much, but the best course of action would be to ask him what he is interested in you doing or pleasing him, ask him how you can do it.

[PrettyPriya]

What is the question you want us to answer?

[Shybutinterested]

What to do, how to do it. I'm not a kinky person but I'm willing to learn for him.

[PrettyPriya]

@shybutinterested there are far more experienced with this. I will tag someone who can help. @chrismaster69

[PrettyPriya]

I’m not into that stuff. The person I tagged can definitely give advice.

[ChrisMaster69]

@prettypriya @shybutinterested hello What’s the short version of the question?

[PrettyPriya]

@ChrisMaster69 the way it reads sounds almost like a bdsm kink by the guy. I could be wrong as I often am on these things.

[Shybutinterested]

@ChrisMaster69 how to be kinky fur the first time.. example choking him while riding him? I'm a shy person never done anything like this before.. I don't know if he wants me to make him stop breathing or simply apply pressure... I'm to shy to ask him and honestly I'll probably have the lights off so he can't see me. Is it possible to get comfortable in this life style when a woman is uncomfortable with her own body but he likes it as is

[DonkeyDan]

That's out of my area of expertise how to dominate a man. I'm sure there are plenty of submissive men here who can give you some tips.

[bowenw]

Be honest with him. Let him know this is new to you but you want to learn so you can please him. You may find it helpful to watch domination porn either alone or together. If you watch with him he can point out what he's into.

[Wise4myage]

Then let your desires be known, but don't have high expectations.

[Anonymous]

Run.

[Anonymous]

Tell him to buy you a strap on so you can f**k his ass if he wants t really be dominated