I strip on Omegle sometimes and I feel worthless?

[Anonymous]

I am 18 and completely ready for a relationship in many ways. But I'm incredibly insecure. I find it impossible to believe a guy could like me despite the fact I am (apparently) pretty with a nice body, pretty eyes and nice sized lips, plump and pink. Yet I haven't had a boyfriend and I feel so lonely. I sometimes strip on omegle just to be told I'm "hot" which I know is awful. I don't know what to do or how to be more confident. :( please don't leave harsh comments.

[Gargamel]

if you want to get guys attention but dont want to feel worthless try posting up pics of you dressed up, nice dress or even jeans and a tee with a cute smile, post silly little vids of you doing something you love and having fun doing it. guys who get interested just coz they saw u strip arnt worth your time. If you can find a guy who can enjoy seeing you have fun or comment on ur beauty when your clothed instead of a generic "ur hot" then he's the one you want to know. you said you do it so guys compliment you, if you can do the same thing with clothes on why not? be yourself and be confident in who you are and trust me guys will notice. you don't need to cheapen yourself for some random guy on omegle.

[Asker]

Thanks so much for this. It was helpful and really kind. I'll try.

[Gargamel]

thats alright, let us know how it goes, i wish you the best of luck

[abhishek12]

Maybe u are shy in the real world u are afraid to get a boyfriend I guess... why don't u go out and try talking to guys and flirt with them.! Maybe that wI'll give u a boost and u may find ur bf!!;);)... and when it comes to stripping in omegle u fell awful but u still do it?

[Asker]

I feel awful afterwards, guilty.. But during I like it because it sounds terrible, but complements are nice.

[abhishek12]

So u just do it for compliments huh?

[abhishek12]

Well u don't have to do that once u have a trusting bf.. u may eventually leave this thing in your past..!

[Kyndra]

I've been there before. I can understand the way you think and feel. But you need to value yourself if you want someone else to value you as well. Realize that their compliments don't mean anything, they're just giving you what you want so they can get what they want.

[vekin]

I agree totally

[TrueblueInfantry]

To overcome these feelings, the first step is to stop stripping for compliments. That is a twisted path to a good place, and when you get there, it's not the good place or feeling you expected. So first step is to stop stripping. The second step? Gain comfort in yourself. Learn to be happy in yourself, and how to accept and love yourself as you are, and others will as well. We cannot have a relationship and love someone properly, until we love ourselves.

[bestadviceguy]

I'm sure from what you've written you are attractive. Unfortunately, I could not really assist you in a few sentences, or offer you great advice other than this. You are VALUABLE as a person, and as you are now. It took me forever to find my wife, but we're 12 years married! I would enjoy assisting you in the future. Good luck!

[275153]

You may be too pretty. It happens. Men just feel intimidated by you.

[Zango91]

Stop doing that. Get a boyfriend. :)

[fluffydevil]

Buddy
Dont feel bad... Its natural that we all do stuff like that at some point in our lives.
But remember that the real love comes in your life when you expect the least.
Don't feel depressed and hopeless.
Just remember that real relationship is not just for sex and stuff. Its about feelings and care, affection and respect.
And I believe that you will definitely find it.
Ps I am also searching for the soul mate though so wish me luck as well:)

[vekin]

being insecure is something we all are sometimes, especially when you are young. You haven't had a boyfriend but don;t forget you are still young and you have your entire life in front of you... your time for a boyfriend will come and till that day enjoy your youth

It seems best thing is to stop stripping...

[bigJ909]

I think it's HOTT can I see ur sexy body?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I try and fish for compliments so that I can feel better about myself as well. For now, just try and stop going nude on omegle. When you are older you will gain confidence.

[Anonymous]

Omg you soubd like me O. o, Except the stripping part.. but Sometimes i will make out with "anyone" just to feel wanted, its sad, i know. ...

[Anonymous]

Why is it awful?

I've done it. Made me feel good.

[TrueblueInfantry]

Because she has no self esteem, asshat, so she's stripping with the thought that she will find some self worth in it this time. But the more she does it, the more guilty and depressed and worthless she will feel.

[Opinion Owner]

@TrueblueInfantry I don't think that's an automatic outcome. If SHE thinks it's bad then yes that will happen. But if she's just absorbed guilt because she feels she's not supposed to do it, which is different, then maybe she doesn't actually need to feel guilty. Maybe she can recognize it doesn't matter much and she felt good and move forward in life.