I think about being with other guys often. Should I tell him?

My fiance isn't satisfying me sexually anymore. He hasn't for the past 2 years.
I really want to be with him and that's why I've told him about how I feel about our lack of sex.
Now I find myself thinking about sex with other guys often. Should I tell him? Should I keep it to myself?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Why don't you make the first move and just have sex with him rather than cheat on him or leave him. Communicate with him tell him what you want. You do have a mouth and vocal cords and a tongue right? Then use it and tell him how you want him to fuck you and how yiu want him to fuck your brains out to no end. Tell him you want to sit on his face and cum all over his face tell him you want to ride his dick cowgirl style and cum all over his dick tell him you want him to fuck you doggy style or back to the wall. Tell him you want your ass slapped and squeezed and tits squeezed sucked on and kissed. Let him know what you want speak up about it and get over your shyness when it comes to talking to him about your needs rather than looking to cheat or dump him. Tell him yiu want his tongue in your mouth and you want him to kiss the side of your neck and collarbone. Tell him you want him to look you deep in your eyes and hold your head up while he slides his dick inside of you. Speak up have better communication with him it isn't that hard

    • Tell him you want him to give you the world's biggest mindblowing orgasm

    • Thank you for your advise. We talked it over and he's willing to see a Doctor and try to spice things up a bit.

    • If you're looking to spice things up you could pretend to be his doctor as well. Buy a doctors uniform and stethoscope and have him dress in a hospital gown and give him a full examination

  • You should get some couple's therapy and soon to see if you can right the ship.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I say tell him you need it. Sometimes guys lose sex drive and dont miss it. I know I would just take my girlfriend when I needed to but she loved it. Not sure a guy would like that but say he will lose you cause of it.

    Have him see a doctor might be a medication or lack of vitamins or hormones.

    • We talked about it and he said he's willing to see a Doctor to find out the cause. He says it has nothing to do with his attraction to me. I know I shouldn't feel like it does but I do.

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  • Tell him he should use it or he might loss it

  • Communicate! Talk to him about it...

  • I would want my SO to tell me, maybe not about sex with other guys. but I would want to know if their unhappy

  • Break up with him then

  • Tell him help him to make you cum

  • I don't know maybe if you really want to act on it too