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Sexual Health I think I'm addicted to sending nudes. Should I get help?
Thotty_V Xper 3
I can't stop sending nudes. I've sent to over 10 guys some who I barely know. One time I sent over 230 nudes to a guy in less than 2 weeks. And the number just keeps growing, I think I'm up to somewhere around 400. I feel bad and guilty and I'm physically sick. But I also kinda like it. When a guy leaks I don't even care. By now almost every guy in my school has seen my nudes and I don't know if I need help or not. I flirt with every guy I talk to and I don't even know it. I'm ok with people calling me a hoe and a slut and I even call myself that publicly. If you have seen this before. I have another account but it didn't have my real age on it. Anyway Do I need help?
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10 60Yeah , you need help.
One day, you might want to think of settling down and having kids. If you do, what would happen if your kid discovers his/her moms nudes in the net...
Tjat woupd be all kinds of traumatizing...
You need to find another hobby
Yea ur right. But it's not like people r putting them online. They r just giving them to each other. Like pretty much every guy in my school either has them or has seen them. But it's just my school
I think
Yeah most of them.. But there will vome along that one particularly nast guy who will want to put them online. Since your givong them to many, you are at risk.
Ur right and thanks that helped 😊
Well im trying to resist temptations and improve myself as well, so it felt right to try to help others as well. Good luck!
It's great to know that there r some good people out there who have the self strength to control them selves. I won't ask what is tempting unless y want to tell me. But good job!!
Thank you. And thanks for respecting but its not much, its just drinking and smoking. I quit smoking. And i cut down drinking. With girls i think i have akways been in the right place, and im starting to get fitter physically and also work A bit harder on my education ( I've kinda been lame in the rwcent years)
I think it's just amazing that there r some people who want to better them selves. U r doing a great job and I hope there r other people like u who can just make the choice to be better. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
There are. And you can too dear, if you wish to. Its a choice and also kind anf an effort, combined with the dedication to stick with your choice... Its not always easy. But its wirth it. Good luck :-)
Yeah, I'd say you need to start seeing someone. An addiction is an addiction. Most need help in order to stop.
you obviously enjoy being seen
But I feel disgusting when I'm not doing it I don't want to at all but when it happens it happens. It's like in not even the same person
you have choice over it, accept the choice you make
Holy moly.. Could you be the first case of nudes addict. Could be, could be.
LOL you need to go on The Dr. Phil Show.
Best to get some help because your situition is pretty extreme. It's almost turning out like an addiction. Stop sending them, only bad consequences come if you're sending them to everyone left and right. You'll lose the respect from many and people will only see you as a sexual object and not as a person. You sadly might even be used for that. Since it's leaking everywhere, depending on the pic (ie. Clearly shows it's you if you have your face in it) it might affect your current job and future career
Under 18! ? You tryna get people in trouble! ?
many people do this u r not alone
just let me know if we can chat anytime
Like chat about this or u want me to send 😂😂😂😂😂sorry if I sound like a bitch
anything u like to chat
u can send me a follow request or simply a message
Ok lol
I need nudes when I'm horny maybe you could send me some
That's kinda hot lol
😂😂thx
No problem lol
have you tried talking to anyone about this? school counselor? friend?
Yes. I have talked to all of my closet friends about it and they r supportive. But I can never tell them the full story and I don't know y
in a way i understand why you'd do it. There could be a number of reasons why you do it. Maybe you really love your self and have no shame or guilt in expressing it the way you are doing, could be insecurities so you do it to boost self esteem? , you like the attention you get, like i said. many different reasons. I could only suggest you talk to a professional for their help and opinion. But I do hope you find the answers u need :)
Thank u
Sending nudes isn't a bad thing people do it all thr time if you like it then keep doing it if not then dont kust be carefull younare keeping it aroind your age.😊👍
Good luck in prison.. child pornographer!
Suck my dick
Don't lie about your age on here... You posted the same question as your true under age. You'll go to prison as a child pornographer.
You are engaging in child pornography. You could go to prison.
Ik. They tell us this stuff in school
As you just admitted to 400 counts of production of underage pornogaphy and where I live that in punishable buy up to 5 year in prision for each one so your looking at a posiible 2000 years in prison my advice is stop tell your 18 then go be a stripper in some boom town and make a ton of cash and possibly go see a phycoligest about the resion you crave so much attention
Ok wow thanks
Why do you care if your not showing your face in them? Obviously you are seeking validation; so just send them only to me from now on ;) Unless you are 99 years old
Haha I'm not 99 but I'm younger than u
We should trade obvs
OP lets underage nude trade
Haha 😂😂 how old r u anyway
16 😉 you
15. 😅
Just send one to me no worries ;)
by the way I forgot to mention this but I'm under 18
Do you feel bad because you think it's wrong or because what you think others would/do think? People (society) is way too uptight about nudity in general in my opinion so if you're ok and enjoy it and you're not sending them to people that don't want them then I don't see a problem. As that number grows though it could affect other areas of your life though, like a job.
I think it's wrong. But I feel like as u said it will affect me in the future so I want to stop but I feel like I can't. Like when someone asked I don't have a choice. But later on I feel like it is my choice and I choose to keep doing it. And Ik that sounds confusing
I get it. Well just make the decision for yourself that you're not going to do it anymore. You do have the choice.
Thank you