I think I want to explore with the same sex but I dont know how to do it. I could really use some advice in the area 🥺?

[Anonymous]

I'm straight but I'm getting really curious about the same sex and it really turns me on thinking about sexting or having sex with another woman. I just dont know how to go about it or how to find a girl to start that up with. I'm a virgin so I know for sure I want to have sex with a guy before having sex with a female as I'm still not 100% certain I want to do that but I've come to the conclusion I at least want to like sext one or mess around a little with one. I can barely talk to guys though women are a whole new ball park and I'm terrified of it lol

[Leavesbound]

Do a google search for places where lesbians hang out. I suggest go to google maps in your area and run a search for "Lesbian bar" and see what pops up. Then just get dressed up like you were on a date and then go in and sit alone at a table in a corner and order what you like. Most likely someone female is going to approach you in five minutes. It's up to you if you want to purse that or not. Anyways a friend of mine who is lesbian does this when she's alone. She claims it is 100% full proof though be prepared for a lot of butch girls to approach you.

[Joseph69]

They say that most women are attracted to other women, and most women who participate in same sex relationships grow out of it. I think that if it becomes common knowledge, a lot of men will be put off thinking of you as serious girlfriend material. Be careful.

[ushagomez]

Talk about it with your friends. You may find someone is equally intrigued...

[Asker]

Uh well I kind of dont want anyone to find out at least not of my friend group I'm not surrounded by the most well excepting people. I dont want to even think about what would happen if I told them. Lol.

[blondegrrl]

Message me. As a bi girl I understand how you feel

[gangs_and_guns]

I guess she is bi curious. U can hep her 😊

[Asker]

Okay. 😊

[Ripper_E]

Try to do it with someone that you are comfortable with or understand what it is you want.

[Danny_dan92]

You’re bi sexual then

[Ironic_Method]

Use dating apps and advertise looking for women explaining that you might be bi curious and wonder if anyone wants to help you discover.

[Lottifan]

Do you have any friends you can talk to about how you feel?

[Twalli]

It's easy to talk to your same gender. Since you want a guy first, you shouldn't worry about flirting with a girl yet.

[2021biguy]

You're the kind of girl I like, Just trying to be fiends first and then tell them you are bi curious, so they know. I love watching cute girls licking each other :)

[Brownbored]

You are the type of person men want but cannot have lol

[Asker]

I mean men can have me, why can't men have me? 😅😂😂

[Brownbored]

Well when you are going after women.. they would feel left out lol

[Asker]

How would they feel left out?

[Brownbored]

Wouldn't they? When you kiss a girl and not them lol

[Asker]

I can't see a scenario where If a man was around while I was kissing a girl that he would feel left out... there are many things a man could do in that moment to feel included... no?

[Brownbored]

Yeah he could go to town on himself? Or be more daring and hope you dont kick him away ;)

[Asker]

Given that the man would have to be very skilled to go down on himself I dont think I'd push him away. 😋 Besides I'm a nice girl and nice girls wouldn't do that 😝

[Brownbored]

Haha omg no i meant with his own hands!! But now that u mention it.. that is a useful skill to have lol Oh u say you won't push him away now.. I don't know if u ever tried more than one partner ever before at the same time :p

[Asker]

Oh gosh I'm so sorry I read that as down 😳😂 I haven't been with anyone period. Lol. It can't be that hard to please two people at the same time tho can it? Given I'd probably have help in doing it.

[Brownbored]

Haha its ok.. Oops.. now if u haven't been with anyone i feel bad for talking about this with u.. its bad to spoil innocent people :) And yeah it sounds hot in theory.. totally separate thing when u start preferring one over the other ;)

[Asker]

Pfff I thought men liked tainting innocent women...😇 Like in the middle of threesomes or in general? That would be awful to be like mid sexy time and stop being into the other one. 😂😂

[Brownbored]

Haha only if the innocent girl shows signs of willing to be spoiled:p Well yeah in the middle of happy time u realize.. hmm.. female lips are more appealing than hanging balls lol

[Asker]

Ah is that so? Well do you think I've shown signs of wanting to be... spoiled... sir? 😊 I mean that can be easily solved in a series of changes positions.

[Brownbored]

Ohh why don't u send me a pm and we shall see what signs were there :;)

[Asker]

About time I thought you'd never ask. 😛

[seanscoopers]

I ask you a question

[Asker]

What's your questions? Lol

[seanscoopers]

If a boy and girl approach You means what you do U go with the boy or girl

[Asker]

Uh approach me how? I mean if a random person came up to me on the street and told me to come with them I'd most likely trust and be willing to go with the girl but still that would be super weird and the world we live in I'd probably run. Lol

[seanscoopers]

Both are your friends Both have a crush on you Now tell

[Asker]

Well I mean it would depend on where we were going I'd go with the one who had the better destination.

[jimmy2]

Lol well be careful

[MasterKS]

Talk and friendship is best start.

[Boooba]

Just be yourself and natural

[Asker]

I'm not sure I know how to do that. 😅😂 Thank you for the advice though!!!

[Boooba]

You seem like a cute person, i am sure a lot of girls would love to expreince something with you

[Asker]

Im actually told I'm a cute person a lot tbh I have no clue why but i still find it really kind and sweet when people think so. thank you. Lol. 😊

[Boooba]

You are welcome. lol

[Anonymous]

you aren't straight, you are a gay and that is gross. i avoid bisex wmen

[Asker]

I like men pretty sure that makes me straight and I didn't ask I'd you found it gross not do not care what you avoid there's plenty of men who looooove women who find other women hot.

[Opinion Owner]

not as many as you think. guys will have sex with bisexuals but most wouldn't trust them in a relationship. I dont blame them. I know two men whose wives cheated on them with another women. bisexuals are untrustworthy cheaters

[Asker]

That's really silly to take two people's actions and think that everyone is like that. I know numerous people who have been cheated on too by straight guys so does that mean that all straight guys are untrustworthy?

[Opinion Owner]

do what you want but most guys i know will fuck a queer women but never invest any time in a relationship or marriage. They are proven cheaters and nobody has the time to wastge on an immature partner whoc can't even admit that they arew really gay