I think the better question would be, Did you ever intend to sleep with more than one or two people in life?

Like did you grow up hoping to have sex with as many people as you could? Or Did things go wrong with the first and because you didn't want to give up on having a sex life, you eventually ended up sleeping with someone else later on?
#FeelFreeToList #HowManyLaysDoesItTake
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didn't mean to confuse a few of you. I was asking if you intended to sleep with a lot of people before you die… I think some assumed i was asking if you’d have threesomes or cheat on your partner and have sex with someone else. Not what i meant at all lmao
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  • No, I fell madly in love, was engaged at 19, planned on staying committed forever. It didn't work out. After that I never invested that much of myself into another. I'm honest with my intentions with women about not getting married, they just think they can change your mind about it a lot of the time then blame you when it doesn't work.

    • Yea we do have a bad habit of trying to change a guy but luckily i stopped trying tears ago. As for you, did you allow that one failure of a relationship to stop you from ever wanting marriage again?

    • Still a bachelor, last man standing in my friends circle. I been with this one girl awhile & she's started hinting at it. I always found that rather odd, ALL my friends are married. I stayed single a really long time after, takes me a LONGTIME to process my emotions. Men are taught to repress them. Then after I did that I went wild.

  • I never much thought about it. I've not been single for long since I was about 22, but neither have I had a large number of partners.

    • Well thats good

    • Why?

    • I think its good that you haven't been with a lot of people

  • Yep, I want to experience other women.

    • At least you were honest

    • Why wouldn't I be

    • Im just saying that you gave a direct answer of doing it because you wanted to try different things while others beat around the bush

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  • No. I never thought like this.

    • Tes i just ha dto ask cause some do have that mindset

  • I had my fun as a young college student and then military sailor. Back then I was young and stupid, but now I’m happy to have made my final choice of partner for the rest of my life.

    • Well at least youve found the one

  • Well, when I was a teenager, I did try to have sex with as many girls as possible. Not since then, though.

  • With more than one person, for sure. Always had it in my mind, to try with both girls and boys.

  • As a youngster and teenager (once I learned about sex), sleeping with one person in my life was my thought. As I got older, that number got progressively larger.

    • But it was never on purpose right? Did it just happen or did it come with intention?

    • @dizzydesii Not planned. When relationships break up, you move on to the next one.

    • Yea i move on to the next relationship but i dont give myself sexually to every relationship. I’d have a high body count if i did. Sex is just too valuable to me. I have to choose carefully even tho i still failed at it. But at least it was only 2 mistakes and not all it could've been. Im so glad i learned true colors early on

  • As long as i remember.. i has very strong thinking that i won't have sex unless i am married... Till i am 17 ... Then once I got into relationship... We were still thinking we will never have sex till we get married...

    We were very serious in our relationship...

    We use to kiss svd that's all nothing more for almost 2 years...

    We never intended it to happen but when i was around 19 after 2 years of our relationship we ended up fucking...

    After we did it once we liked it but we were feeling very guilty about it.. and we were like we will never do it again till we get married...

    But we could not... After 1 and half month or do we again did it for very long time...

    We were very confused svd then we deside ok as we r going to marry each other it's ok...

    Then we started to have lots and lots of sex...

    And we kept ready on internet and we kept guiding eachother what to do...

    She use to teach me what like loved and what i should do and how i should do.. same way i use to teach her

    That went on for 4 years... And lot of shit happened and due to circumstances we ended up breaking up...

    I was depressed more than a year...

    I use to cry sooo much... It took me lot to get over her...


    AGAIN BACK TO UR ANSWER...

    VERY LONG TIME IN MY LIFE I GREW UP WITH MINDSET THAT I WANT ONLY ONE SEX PARTNER FOR LIFE THAT TOO ONLY AFTER MARRAGE...

    but things fucked up 😔😔

    • I can relate sooooo much to everything above the depression point.

    • Yes but i am changed now.. I don't want to wait till marriage.. I am like wats the point in waiting 😒😒

    • Br how long would you wait for

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  • Yes and no. I intended to do so with any person I loved and trusted. If it went above or below 10, it's whatever honestly.

    • But did you feel you’d ever date more than one in general? I know its crazy but some truly believe in lasting forever with their first

    • Yeap I figured I would, just didn't know how many it would be

  • Yes to the title, no to the below scenario. I've had 4 sexual partners in my life. The first wasn't a choice, the 2nd I felt pressured, the 3rd I was broken mentally, the 4th was my one and only truly on my terms, healthy relationship and partner

    • Aww is she your recent :)

    • Yep! ☺️

  • Not as many as I could but would have assumed numerous partners. As it was I was in a bad place and didn't sleep with anyone till I was 35. Had 2 partners including my fiancé.

    • Perfect

  • By the time I was 20 I really thought that I may never have sex with anyone. As it was I only had sex with 3 others before I got married and one of them was a one time only thing.

    • Damn well im glad you’re married now :)

  • I wasn't really all that interested in sex as a young adolescent. I had a really traumatic experience so it was more about self control and aggression to me then sex.

    • Its always been mostly about procreation for me so thats probably why i could fo without

  • The plan is one person but we'll see how that turns out.

    • Hopefully it works out

    • That'd be nice.

  • Yup it always fascinated m

    • But do you wish you've met someone that good that you want to stick to him?

    • @Guy__ i m with sumone who i will stick to for life but that doesn't mean i can't have sex with others

    • Makes sense. Do you think it's possible that someone will make you scream so much that they'll be the only person you'd want to have sex with?

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  • I’m too scared to sleep with more than one

    • Damn thats actually a new one. What are you afraid of?

    • What if it’s bad… STDs , the emotional attachment.

    • I make the mf get tested before we sleep together. If the sex is bad, teach him to be better at it. Emotional attachment is normally a consequence of having sex

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  • By default I can't multi task. It's not even in my thinking pattern. So, no never thought of it.

    • No i mean like if things didn't work with the first person and then you later date someone else

    • Ah yeah of course. That's the normal thing to do. Funny I said that. Never dated since the last girl who brings my heart. It's been 3 years now.

    • *broke

  • When I started, no.
    I was wholly dedicated to my evil wife. And she destroyed me. Catching her cheating and finding out she'd done porn and not wanting to have sex with me, or using sex to manipulate me... she broke me. Something switched in my brain. And when I finally divorced her I had sex with everyone I possibly could.
    I put myself at tremendous risk. Almost like I was trying to commit suicide the most pleasurable way possible. I hardly ever used condoms and I always gave the girl oral sex until she couldn't breathe. And I dated prostitutes and drove one to meet clients and we'd still have sex without a shower when she was done.
    When I fell in love with my first wife what eventually happened was not my intended plan.
    I wouldn't recommend it, ever.
    I had fun but I'm lucky to be alive.
    I was good when my now wife found me 20 years ago. Because of how much she loved me I used all my skills and knowledge to please her. The bond we've developed has made our own sex go off the charts.
    You're wanting to dedicate yourself to one man and develop an awesome sex life between the two of you... that's what I wanted with my first wife. I chose poorly who I married. I had horrible self-esteem and married the first horny money grubbing liar that landed in my lap.

    • What you seek is optimum if you can find a like minded partner.

    • Well at least you stuck around. I dumped ole boy when i found out he was a former porn star

  • I don't plan on sleeping with anyone. Ever. I prefer to sleep alone

    • Lol i hear ya

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