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I thought that I had a decent size penis, but my bulge seems so small compared to other guys that I accidentally look at?

Not trying to be weird or brag or anything but I feel the information is necessary.

Erect I am just over 7” long bone pressed, and just over 5” circumference.

Soft/flaccid it varies but generally 4-5” long and not sure circumference when soft. My balls though are very small for some reason.. so could this be the reason?

or is my genital just small.. because honestly despite what the internet says is average size.. every guy seems to have a longer/thicker penis whenever I see on TV or celeb leaks etc..
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  • Pressed? You IRON yours? Well no wonder why it creates such a small bulge!

    Ok, ok.. enough fun. I know it was a typo, but damn... you put creases in it? Maybe if you dipped it in starch before you ironed it, it would stand out better? They don't call it a stiffie for nothing, lol!

    Dude, 7 inches is a nice size. The average is only 5 inches. Your doing well. No, the size of your balls has nothing to do with anything, unless you're ironing them too.

    Be glad you have what you have. Your above average. Sometimes, having a big (ger) one, (despite all of the size queens out there professing their love for big ones), it's not always so good, especially if you meet a small framed lady with an exquisitely tiny vagina, and you can only get half of yourself in.

    Truth told though, most can comfortably handle 8, or 9 inches. Then they're pretty much topped off. Are there some that can handle more... comfortably, yes, but they're rare. Think about it this way. There's only so much room in a vagina, because they only come in the size proportional to the woman. If she's small, it'll be small. If she's bigger, it'll be bigger, but they have limits. Some small ones can handle big ones, some big ones can only handle small ones. It's the luck of the draw.

    All that said, quit worrying about the size of your junk. You're bigger that 70% of the male population. If it's a hotdog in a hallway feeling, find a smaller one. If it's too shallow, find a bigger one. If it's like a square peg in a round hole, you've either got the wrong hole, the wrong gender, or you shouldn't have ironed it into a square!

    • Haha thanks for the laugh. Not sure why I’m self conscious with the size that I am. When a celeb leaks dick pics.. all these thousands of girls are commenting saying how big it is and how nice it is..: or “my man is bigger than him”… I see this and think is that what girls really desire. I guess I’m maybe the big side of average but it feels small. Even took a blow job video of her sucking it and It somehow looked like 5 inches in the video

    • Dude, quit worrying. You'll give yourself a complex. You're good... trust me.

  • The reality is what the average person doesn't accept as Gospel. You are ahead of the issue. There is none here it's all pre-fabricated and sugar coated to persuade you to believe you font make the grade!! End result you were successful but didn't know it and if not caught in time can be your demise, mentally, spiritually and sexually but the real test is when it becomes subliminal. That is the true test. See what you dont think about when everything is right and you know it. Wow!!! Up your standards otherwise you'll never reach total satisfaction.

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  • i had similar worries.
    first of all, it's fine to look at other people's crotch (or any body part) as long as its a peek and not a stare, either if it is to compare yourself or if its a spectacle to behold. anyone who says otherwise is trying to make you feel bad.
    when i was a teenager i went online to check if am average and i was. i went to the military and even in the showers it looked like im not that different. recently i did the search again as a part of commenting on some post and it turned out that i was mistaken. i am outside of "average" parameters and when i asked my ex she confirmed it but reassured me i was fine in that area. then i asked a friend who has the same "disposition" but a bit more severe and he also said that it was never a problem, just needed a bit extra care in bed.
    "small penis syndrome" is an actual "body dysmorphia" that almost all men go through
    i still get a bit anxious thinking about it but i am sure it is just lingering feelings that will settle down after a few days.

    as to how to measure and what is actually the norm:
    when measuring the leangth you need to press the ruller to the bone. the pressing is to get the size without the extra fat/muscle layers that can change with your weight. for cirumference you need to take some cord or string and wrap it around the widest part and mark where it overlaps, then measure the distance with a ruller once its straight. even though the averages change a bit from country to country, it varies in usually half an inch to an inch.
    the average length range with erect is usually 4.52-6.61 inch and circumference range is 3.93-5.69 inch. most women prefer length of 6.3 inch and circumference of 4.9. of course these are statistics and it changes from individual to individual. but it shows that you probably won't have any problem in life in that aspect. i asked a few girls if they have the same preferences and the all confirmed that those numbers are right for them.
    you can check the women preference study here:

    and even if you have a small penis. almost all women stated that they hardly care as long as it is not small/big to the extreme (and the satisfaction gained or lossed is minimal and is much more reliant on what the man does and his attitude).

    if you have any questions then you can pm me.

    • Appreciate it this answer. I’m just maybe an 1/8” over 7” length and right around 5” circumference. So my stats are pretty normal but it still looks super short to me (maybe because it’s more like 6.25-6.5 when I DON’T press into the bone. And 5” circumference but it just looks so damn skinny to me.. I swear guys that I see in change rooms are thicker than while soft. I’ve never had any complaints.. all I’ve had was either no comments and just good sex OR I’ve had “actually, your cock is pretty big” a few times.. but that just confused me more.. what does that mean? That it looked small at first? So confusing Oh well I just wish it was exceptionally large to the point that I could pull it out anywhere and know it would impress anyone looking lol

    • well, there is a phrase "a grower, not a shower". essentially, size in flacid state has no meaning other than showing off in the lockers room to other men. and as i said, dysmorphia is a real thing for men. 85% of men who seek surgery because they think they are small are acttually normal. and your stats are actaully a bit outside normal in length and normal in girth. so yeah, it might look a bit skinny but thats actually a good thing. most women would find you pretty ideal for them. but most important thing is that almost none of it matter in any case, and your case esspecially since you are ok. so be confident in yourself, invest more in the interrelationship part. and if you are still uncomfortable about it, either research bed moves and practice or get a group or really close friends who would be willing to compare sizes and stories. the act of research itself and getting information yourself will reassure you, thats what it did to me.

    • Appreciate this response. Seeing girls go nuts over male celebs that expose themselves makes me feel like it’s ultra important.. and they all comment on the size of it when they see the celebs member. Then I look it up because I need to see what girls are seeing.. and it usually looks bigger lol. Endless cycle. I’m going to take your advice and work on getting better. I think I have an irrational fear that despite me being a decent size.. I fear my girlfriend will see a celeb with a huge dong and then just assume that my member is just super small. Basically scared of her getting an unrealistic expectation. Not sure how I developed this fear especially when my size is normal. (Maybe because she looked at the rapper (he goes by the name “the game” and he posted a pic in his boxers and his penis print literally looks like a monster. I was pissed that she looked it up and she commented that it was huge which stung. Oh well I’ll work on myself, thanks for your time brother !

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  • You've got a tiny microdick but don't worry. Some girls like that cause they don't want to get stretched out.

  • You are above average dude, what is there to worry about.
    I have never heard anyone comparing themselves to tv and celebs, so that’s a first for me!

    • But you watch tv with your girl and that’s all she sees.. so that’s what she starts comparing you to. And then she thinks every guy is bigger..

    • What kind of tv are you all watching? It is very rare they show bulges and dick on tv or even movies

    • Harry styles who my girl has a huge crush on is having a nude scene in an upcoming movie next year.. and apparently he had a big one. Other ones she watched are magic mike.. celeb pics like the rapper named “the game” showing his huge piece on his insta in just his boxers and she kept saying how big he is.. another is Orlando bloom and Justin bieb naked on vacation with paparazzi snapping photos. It is what it is but this is what she always sees.. and yeah I thought I had a decent size but then seeing these (since I look to see what she saw).. they look bigger SMH

  • Accidentally look at it what are you talkin about what are you looking for boobs or something

  • comparing is the best method to becoming depressed. Whatever you are watching, turn it off.
    If the girl can't turn it off as well, then she is poisonous.

    • If I could have picked more than one best answer you’d have been selected too. Thanks man

    • Thank you for your consideration, np.

  • If you can belive what most of the women on this site say, size is not really that important and it is a bigger deal for guys it seems.

  • Does your size matter to you? Why

  • You’re above average so stop worrying. Your’e a good size.

  • Stop looking at other guys dicks and work on your dating game ffs

  • you seems to have good size

  • its what the woman likes

  • poor guy. Stuff a sock down there.

  • This question is not at all suspect

  • They might be stuffing, yours sounds pretty big

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