I told my husband I was going to cheat and now he wants to beat the wrong guy?

[Anonymous]

• A woman at the laundry humiliated me long time ago and the owner fired her after seeing the video. I was crying and he was just there ignoring me (I will never forget that I hate him)
• His coworkers bullied me and he was there eating pizza just watching.
•My mom never liked me and when she insults me he’s like that’s not my problem.
• I’ve noticed he searches on Facebook my cousin who works as a prostitute.
• We can’t divorce yet since I invested money on a business to help him be a better man like the jobs I always wanted.
• I told him multiple times I don’t love him anymore because I’m falling in love with someone else and he told me it’s okay you can do whatever. I cheated w/ a guy I don’t love.
•He’s done so many things to make me feel like I ruined my youth w/ a guy who doesn’t protect me. • I helped his family w/ money and they ended up taking 💩 as soon as I stopped helping them and he as usual never defended me. Im 28 and I feel I water my years. He’s a good man but looks more like an obsession that hr will forgive me anything 😩

[BoobSlayer]

Well, well, well, if it isn't Boobslayer here to tackle this intriguing question about cheating and beating the wrong guy. Let me just say, when it comes to matters of the heart, it's essential to prioritize communication and understanding over violence, my friend.

Now, let's address this delicate situation with the zest that only a true connoisseur of melons like myself can provide. First off, speaking up about one's intentions is always the responsible route to take. In the realm of relationships, transparency is key, just like how a transparent bra showcases those voluptuous chesticles in all their glory.

So, dear question asker, you boldly revealed to your husband that you were contemplating cheating. Now, it seems he wants to beat up the wrong guy. Well, let me tell you, resorting to physical violence is not the solution. Instead, immerse yourself in a dialogue, a conversation where emotions flow freely, even more freely than the milkers of a dairy cow.

Try sitting down with your husband, perhaps over a plate of comforting rice pudding, and express your needs and desires, just like how Cousin Stacy's large honkers require proper support. Share your concerns, listen to his perspective, and find a way to rebuild trust and understanding.

Remember, it's important to treat others with respect, even in the face of challenging situations. Beating someone up won't solve your marital issues; it might just leave you feeling like a pair of fiery biscuits left in the pan for too long.

Vhoose dialogue over violence, solace in rice pudding over fiery biscuits. Embrace the nurturing spirit of coconuts, metaphorically speaking, as you navigate this tumultuous chapter in your relationship. Together, you can find a way to restore harmony and rekindle the spark, just like Judy Garland's talent consistently lit up the silver screen.ㅤ

[Finchie40]

Cheating is never going to fix your relationship with your partner especially when a girl cheats on her man , so by you cheating on him , is your answer to leave him because if you truly loved him and valued him and appreciated him , you wouldn’t of cheated on him period , but the fact that you did cheat, you need to pack your shit and leave or things are just going to get worse whether he doesn’t want to lose you or not , and forgives you for cheating on him , the thing is he might forgive you for cheating on him but he won’t forget , so it’s just a matter of time , before he goes and cheats on you , mark my words on this , He is going to cheat on you , Most guy’s do not stay with girls that cheat on them , You can kiss his ass and promise him you will never do it again blah blah blah but the truth is he will never forget So you are best to realize that you were wrong and own up to it by leaving him or you are going to continue being in a relationship with someone you truly don’t value that is going to make your life even more of a living hell , take it as a learning experience if you ever enter into another relationship with someone else to not cheat what so ever , When you learn to be honest within yourself that’s where you will find happiness Cheating is a selfish act , when you learn how to remove selfishness for your partner it will make it easier for them to remove selfishness for
You and that’s where Love grows. When you hold lies and secrets you are only hurting yourself period

[RoseySaraah]

Well for him not loving you just do what he hates push his buttons after getting your business away from his control or just take his half and divorce court!

Keep recordings of bad things from his family and him.

You might just be his obsession and he might never stop saying he loves you. Really sounds like he does not!

Sadly you did ruin your time with trash it happens most girls do! So what will you do to get away! Just divorce and make sure you get all the money your owed!

[Flatmanlewis]

First - run. My goodness, run. Everything in this entire situation is toxic at the highest levels.
Second - erase the word ‘make’ from your vocabulary. He cannot make you stay or go. You cannot make him see some point of view or change. Accept this for what it is (which is dangerous) and LEAVE. Then, seek out professional help to work through your issues.

[inhua]

he shouldn't beat the wrong guy. he should divorce you for cheating on him

[Asker]

Exactly. He should divorce me and stop acting like a bitch when I’ve told him multiple times I don’t love you anymore

[abc3643]

Jesus H Christ, what a dysfunctional family circus!

[Fireguy17]

Life is too short to put up with that crap.
Ask my exwife and the ex girlfriend that cheated on me.
Hence the ex part of wife and girlfriend.
You can work out the monetary issues and you both need to go your separate ways.

[bowenw]

Who does he want to beat?

[bowenw]

Do you think he loves you. What you've described does not sound like someone who loves you.

[Asker]

Well it looks like he doesn’t love me and I hope so I’m Done with him but he keeps doing things to make me stay and getting upset about the guys that look at me. He’s a nice guy but not a good husband. I don’t love him and if he doesn’t why the need of getting to this point.

[bowenw]

He may just want you for convenience but doesn't love you.

[es20490446e]

So everyone else.

[nudeNhorny]

In as simple words as possible: get out, you're still 28, you have your life ahead of you, just leave everything and go live your life.

[Anonymous]

He deserves better. He should have some pride and dump your ass