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I told my online boyfriend that I wanted to stop having virtual sex with him because I wanted to meet him, but he still initiates?

It started off as us just sexting, then developed into a full blown relationship because we had so much in common and had a good connection. I however was very depressed/suicidal when we first talked and had poor impulse control. I now feel better and realized that I've fallen for a fantasy/projection, and I want to meet him and see how we vibe in the real world.
The sex feels weird to me now. He still initiates despite me telling him how I feel.

Should I just block and move on?
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Superb Opinion

  • It clearly feels weird for you.. so just don’t allow it anymore.. tell him in a n assertive way that he what you want is to meet and explore a relationship him with him rather than a virtual romance and that you’re not comfortable with that. If he cares about you he would not initiate it but if he DID, be STRIGHT FORWARD and tell him I’m not doing this I told you I’m not comfortable. Be serious about this you don’t have to be super nice all the time, at least until you know what he’s made of.. if he’s not serious about meeting in person and navigating a real relationship with you (which you deserve) just walk away. I know you’re a great and nice person you deserve better ! Always keep that in mind and there’s someone out there for you.. u just have to be ok letting go of anyone who is not aligned with your values and your energy.. you have depression and you mentioned you have been suicidal in the past.. please girl this is a reason to take EXTRA care of yourself.. wish you all the best ♥️

Most Helpful Girl

  • Let him know strongly about what you want. Do not do the virtual sex if it's not making you feel good and just to satisfy him. If he still initiates knowing you don't want it, it'd be better to move on. It's better and easier to move on before you get more involved emotionally.
    Is he willing to meet you tho?
    And take care of yourself, do what makes YOU feel better. Don't let this create an emotional burden on your brain 💛

Most Helpful Guys

  • I am glad that this virtual shit did not exist when I was young and dating. It was much more personal back then. Technology sucks in many ways.

    • WTF is virtual sex?

  • I is not a "full blown" relationship. You've never met in person. You are a long distance from being in a real relationship.

    • I’ve become attached to him. Should I just block and delete, since he doesn’t seem to get why I’m frustrated with him initiating sex?

    • It is usually impossible to go backwards in any kind of relationship. You have phone sex and then you take it off the table and he feels resentment. Tell him how you feel and that the solution is either no phone sex or going no contact. His response will tell you what you need to know.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Every girl deserve brutally get fuck by her guy... dump him asap.

  • Yes, move on & block him. How old is he? Is he telling the truth?

    • He’s my age, and he does seem like a trustworthy person.

  • I say block him and move on if he won't listen to you.

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