I tried having sex for the first time but the guy couldn’t really get it in, is that normal?

[Anonymous]

I am a virgin and I went to try and have sex but he had a really hard time getting it in, did I do something wrong?

[Cwazzycwafter]

It just means that he wasn’t into it. You could try a handful of other things to stimulate him a bit more, but if he didn’t really want it in the end, that’s that

[metalman12]

No. Its sounds like he wasn't fully hard. Probably nerves

[Asker]

Well given the circumstances that would make sense, thanks

[metalman12]

No problem

[BellePepper]

There are a lot of really good resources out there and none of them are going to say anything is wrong with you

https://youtu.be/kdYtYveJI1Y

[AnnTeddyBear]

It, s ok for the first time. Your are just too tight

[Geer73]

Two things you need. You being wet and him being hard. If it does not go in one or both of you are probably too nervous and then it does not work.

[theventrsomeone]

You didn't do anything wrong. Was it his first time too?

[Asker]

No he is actually kind of a man whore but ik it sounds trashy but he wanted to try it at a dance at our school maybe he was nervous or something?

[theventrsomeone]

Can you message me privately

[Asker]

I can’t message yet apparently

[theventrsomeone]

Follow me and make sure your profile isn't set to private

[Dr-Caustico]

My firs time I couldnt get a hard enough erection. She was a virgin as well. Its perfectly normal that nervousness and other factors interfere.

[JL4PLAY]

When I was young & with a virgin, my dick was hard for days. I remember virgin pussy so tight, I couldn't get all of my dick in, and her saying it hurts. ur limp dick guy might ask Dr.

[boochie0]

Too tight

[najekim]

Your maidenhead probably didn't open. Some are pretty thick.

[Geer73]

This is nonsense

[najekim]

@Geer73 Why? Every hyman is unique. Some are thicker than others. Some have more openings than others.

[Geer73]

Maidenhead does not even exist... look it up. Not good to post false facts to young women.

[najekim]

@Geer73 It's an archaic expression for the hyman, like calling a penis a wee-wee. And there are definitions out there for the word maidenhead which the common way of saying it where I grew up. Others would say maidenhood.

[Geer73]

Yes I know. But this maidenhead would never stop you from having sex if it exists in the first place as this is doubted by many people.

[krishh0805]

What do you mean by "hard time getting it in"?

[krishh0805]

Do you mean he didn't get hard?

[Asker]

Apparently that might’ve been why, he would try and put it in then he would have to like readjust me, he said I was to “small”

[Katools]

Did you feel pain or discomfort, if not what he is saying doesn't make sense. Was there any penetration at all?

[Asker]

@Katools there was an uncomfortable feeling, from the stretching but he could only get like half way in

[shivam12345678]

No no nothing is wrong it happens just give it try

[Hotscorpio3]

No, he probably just wasn't experienced

[Anonymous]

Because you both are unexperienced
It happened

[Anonymous]

No need to rush just take your time. Probably be better if you are in control. You guide him or you guide yourself.