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I've been married to my husband for 6 years already and he is very sexual and horny I know as a wife I should meet his needs but he won't take a no?

He always wants sex and we both work and we have 3 kids so honestly I'm often very tired, and I don't understand how he never gets tired after 10 hour shift but he always will ask for sex almost everyday, I mean I love my husband and I love sex but there are days I'm just not up for it and he still demands it from me, he keeps saying it's just 10-15 min and that's all, I rather get a foot massage, he doesn't like when I say no not tonight.. should he be more respectful?
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  • Not the least bit uncommon. In your age group you equate having sex with having more kids, and you're already tired out every night by being a wife and a mother- and I'm sure that you are great being at being both.

    Here is the hard reality: If a man isn't getting the sex he wants at hone he looks else where. That doesn't mean he keeps a mistresses- do you have any idea how expensive that would be? Instead he keeps a side chick available. Otherwise, when he and his buddies go on a fishing trip down to Baja, they are banging the hell out of every pussy they find. I'm not married, but the code of silence remains in effect among men.

    Say yes to sex and this doesn't happen. Say no and you're rolling the dice on his looking elsewhere. This is my own experience. Your mileage may vary.

Most Helpful Guy

  • He should be more respectful.

    I am going through the same with my partner of 7 years, where I ask nearly every night if we can have sex or fool around.

    I try it on hoping one night she says yay let's go, as we have had sex 3 times this year.

    When I can tell it is a no go, I drop it and stop asking /pestering. As much as I would love to shag her, if she's not into it, it's going to be average sex anyway

Most Helpful Girls

  • There are two people in a relationship, both of their needs and wants are important. Have you sat down and had a direct talk about this recently? Dancing around it daily has to be exhausting. Think about what works for you. What he does that makes you love him. Tell him these things. Ask to know his. Just talk. No judgement. See if you can set something up that works for both of you. Not a schedule exactly, something that’s a give and take.

  • Everyone saying just lay down and take it can die honestly hahaha. If you don't want it, put your foot down. If he won't take no for an answer, leave. You have to set boundaries and have your own bodily autonomy; if he doesn't respect that he doesn't respect you and its honestly not getting better from there.

    Its a two way street. Your weigh in is JUST as important.

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  • Yes. He should be more respectful. It’s normal for him to ask every day but if you are not up for it he should respect that and take care of himself.

  • This is an issue that should have been worked out before you got married.

    What happens if you say "not tonight, but I'll make it extra good for you tomorrow night?"

    • They had three kids with jobs before they married? Get real.

    • @dustybiker I don't see anything in the question that says that.

  • Tell him fine but you have to quit your job

  • He should be, but you should have known he was like this before marriage

  • I got a good idea, dm me

  • Is absolutely normla ma'am!! i think he is still not much satisfied with his pleasure!!

  • You need to be more accommodating and fulfil his needs. He’s doing all the work just sit there and take it

    • Sounds like you've never pleased a woman before. Good call going anonymous.

    • @tilmyheadblows sounds like you’ve never been a good partner before. Being married means being there for your partner even when you aren’t in the mood

    • Something tells me you are unmarried whilst I am not. Being married means communicating and agreeing on things that work for you, you never have to force yourself to have sex & if you are forcing yourself your partner probably sucks in bed. But I never said you haven't had sex; just that you've never pleased a woman. You've more or less confirmed for me anyway.

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  • Make a deal with him. You let him fuck you and he gives you a foot massage.

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