I've convinced myself that I'm not good enough. Help?

[Anonymous]

I've convinced myself that I'm not attractive enough. I can't comprehend the idea of someone finding me sexually attractive enough to want me. How do I build sexual confidence? I want to feel sexy in my own skin. Any advice?

[userna186858]

Confidence is just a word.

i used to think that way too.
But now i think it's a bad thing to think like that.

It's not that you are ugly , it's just that you have encountered people with different taste than yours.

Every one have it's own perception of beauti , some people like thin girl some people like curvy girl , some like blonde , some like brunette , someone like goofy girl , someone like confident girl , it's just that you have to meet someone that likes you just the way you are , you CAN'T be beautiful for everyone it's impossible! don't even try that , but you can and should be the best version of yourself !

think about actors, ask your friends who they like , someone likes someone. And someone likes someone else

If you are super sexy to someone , then someone else will hate your look. As i said you can't be beautifol to everyone , but you have just to find someone that likes you just the way you are (but anyway try to be the better version of yourelf! every day a little better than yesterday)

I hope that gives you a smile 😁

(Sorry bad English)

[Marcuslrh]

You just need to be confident in who you are and not care what others think to begin with that's a start then focus on what makes you feel that way about yourself and work out what you can do for yourself to improve the situation I dont no what you look like so I can't give any other advice really sorry feel free to message me with a picture of yourself if you would like anymore help😊

[anmari2001]

What i would do is that i ignore those irrational emotions but sometimes it gets too much, then i cry and i find a rational way to get out
It is a long process but thanks to me ignoring them sometimes i managed to get out of my shell more, even find a supportive boyfriend

[Mikelaughs]

There are a few things to consider here.
Hmu if you want to discuss

[Valnac]

Practice looking at yourself in a mirror, and even masturbating in the mirror.
Now imagine your eyes are a guys eyes, watching you showing him what you are capable of.

[viclarge]

Own your body

[wink313]

Looking at your body and know what you like about it, if you don't then work at it. Comments from others. Explore your own body to know what you like. Wear different clothes maybe. Confidence os sexy.

[Anonymous]

You're just as sexy as you think you are!