I’ve got a girlfriend who claims she’s a real dick pleaser. How she doesn’t suck dick, but she expects me to eat to eat?

[Anonymous]

[Caramalkisses23]

Communicate that to her. No one knows how u feel unless you tell them. Explain to her that the same way she wants you to please her- is the same way you would like pleasure.
Some girls thinks it’s nasty… it takes a person time to feel comfortable doing that sort of thing. But how you respond is what makes her get turned off more. You have to be patient but also communicative.
I’m not saying give her an ultimatum but let her know that ur not into giving oral, yet you give it to her because u know she likes it. Tell her to at least attempt. And maybe stop doing it for her. If she does attempt- u may not like it. But fake it and make her think she did great. But remember it’s how u ask for it. If ur rude and argumentative while trying to convince her to give u oral- trust me- it’s not going to motivate her except really make her not want to do it. Some girls, whether in a relationship or not, feel like giving oral is slutty.

[Asker]

I try make all the girls I talk to feel comfortable with their sexuality and being naked. I don’t like using the word “slut” unless I’m talking dirty and it turns her on. I don’t think it’s fair that a lot of women feel ashamed of their sexuality. And it really breaks my hurt when I see a girl scared to express herself sexually. I want her to feel good and pleasured by the act of sex. I don’t like it when a girl feels like she’s a you know the word “sult”. I think its very belittling for when people call women those names.

[Asker]

Damn, you look like 23. You’re really 33?

[Caramalkisses23]

I understand that. But it’s not about how u make her feel, it’s about how she feels in general about the act. And again- of course a man will try to rub ur back while pushing your head to their penis. Lol. They want some. I think u both need to actually talk about why she doesn’t like it then slowly work from there. And by the way: I’ve had this account FOR YEARS. Never changed pics. Thank you.

[Asker]

She just thinks it’s gross. But I don’t never really liked oral sex tbh. I’m like the only guy in the world that doesn’t really care too much about it. I just like when they kiss after doing that. Well, damn. I’m sure still look great though. Who ever your boyfriend/husband is, is really lucky.