I've never done anal how do I prepare myself? Any tips?

im a virgin but told my boyfriend Id give him my ass if he wanted. also big thing is how do i make sure nothing comes out that i dont want coming out if u get my drip. My boyfriend has a HUGEEE dick I'm really scared and he likes to go HARDD. I know he'll try to chill for me but still how do i prep myself and make it feel good. Can i finger my pussy too idkkkk how do i make it less uncomfy and more pleasurable.

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  • You can do an enema but really it will hurt like a lot!

    My hubby is big and I can't relax it always hurts and he is so soft kind and caring!

    Big test if he can't be nice caring and sweet going slow making sure your okay enough lube and your relaxed... End it!

    If he hurts you and won't stop then huge red flag cause he will do other things to hurt you and not care any!

    No hard in the ass slow and gentle for 6 months!

    • @NomNumNoomers God no it hurts! My hubby does not like it either cause I'm in pain! Besides it's not that good of a feeling my hand feels better lubed lol

    • @NomNumNoomers ask your own question stop being a creep 😑! I'm here to help her not a loser jack off to my comment!

    • thank you so much! So many people keep saying I'm a troll. I really want to pleasure my man but dont want to kill myself in the process. I'm just worried he says he literally can't cum unless it's hella rough. But he can't go hella rough since I've never done it before and he's too big. And he told me he's scared I'm going to make him stop but obv he will stop. I want him to finish but like ur right i need to go slow and gentle. I'm conf what do i do if he can't finish. i would neverrr suck a guy after he's in my ass GROSS. Also do you think its crazy that I'm a pussy virgin but would let him fuck my ass lol.

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  • You know he likes to go hard but you’re a virgin?

    • yes he says he likes hard roughhh sex

    • showed me videos of what he wants to do

    • Lube, position, relax, trust, communicate, slow, privacy

Most Helpful Guy

  • This sounds like a bad idea. Big dick and first time anal isn't a good mix. Try out plugs and beads and foreplay/use during sex at least a few times before you try anal. Be really turned on, use anal safe lube, make sure he takes his time and understands what he is doing. If you have a big dick guy and you just let him pound your ass he can do damage/ cause pain

    • he only likes rough sex and can only cum to rough sex I'm scared he's just going to want to pound my ass. and like i know he doesn't mean to hurt me but I also want to make sure he finishes

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  • just relax and use lubes...
    if u fingered ur pussy u will lose ur hymen...
    anyway u r not virgin anymore after u give him ur anal

    • do u think so. that anal is not virgin

    • if u did anal then ur not a virgin

  • understand that won't be a virgin after.

  • Take your time & tell him do it pretty slowly & use more lube..

  • Make sure your pussy get very wet from it, he should rub his dick onto your wet pussy as lube also you should spit on his cock and let him insert his cock inside your horny ass hole that's all..

  • There is proper steps to do it, in very short, loads of lube and relax, hopefully he know how to do anal well.

  • If it hurts tell him To stop

    • he told me he's scared im going to make him stop in the middle. ooffff i dont want to cut him off from cumming. how do i make it not hurt.

  • Just use silicone lube and some anal plug

    • just bought some lube thank you <3

    • So was anal ok?

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  • An enema

    • what rlly is that

    • Google is probably the best answer to this question

    • if i put the squirt bottle looking thing up there i just shit? like hows that work lol I'm scared.

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  • Buy lube, start fingers then Buttplug.

    • I've been fingering with two fingers rn. but my fingers are short. It feels like I need to poop ngl lol

    • @asker lol tahts nice of you to let him. I like how you worded it "give him your ass" lol. So when you gonna do it?

    • @MarkyMark77 next month lol ill keep y'all updated I'm scared

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