I've thought about going extra, should I? Reactions?

[Anonymous]

So I have been sleeping with this man for almost 2 years off and on. Just for fun and because I'm comfortable. I was thinking about surprising him with lingerie, run ice down his body and bring a bandanna for him to tie my hands together. He can be a real dick sometimes though so I dont know how his reaction would be. he's also very confused on his feelings. Basically its for my entertainment but I'd want a positive reaction. We've never done anything like this. He tells me he's freaky but doesn't want to do anything I suggest lol. Most freaky things he's done is eat my ass and his cum out of my 😺. Anyways what would you think? Too overboard?

[Andres77]

Eating ass and creampied pussy IS a little freaky...
Kudos to him.
Your idea sounds fun. Don't tie him up too tight. More suggest that he just trust you and please don't move. He sounds a little skittish.
I hope it works out and you can have some fun.
Good luck.

[Asker]

He definitely won't let me tie him up lol thank you

[Andres77]

Any luck? How'd it go?

[blackgaletiger]

The whole ass thing is pretty extra already as not many do that. the ice, lingerie and bandana all seem pretty mild compared to him eating his own cum. if he can do stuff like that i dont see why he would react poorly to your suggestion

[Asker]

I suggested blindfold and cuffs, food, ice, heat, massage oils, edible panties, i suck on his balls and his dick after we both cum but thats all the time. Id be cool with watchers and recording but I can't trust his friends or him

[OlderAndWiser]

Why don’t you play “winner says, loser does” with him?

[Asker]

Sounds like fun to me, I doubt he would go for it lol

[OlderAndWiser]

Let him win and go first, then he is obligated to reciprocate. Need some excitement in the bedroom? Are you willing to take a challenge? ↗

[SkipPerk]

Do it and have a good time. You deserve it

[Asker]

Awh thank you 😊

[DonkeyDan]

Soinds like it's pointless wasting your time on him with extra stuff.

[Asker]

Good point lol

[AviatorTom]

Go for it... and good luck!

[Jamie05rhs]

What's the point of upping the ante with someone who is confused about their feelings? You're only going to get burnt.

[Asker]

you're right. It seems I always do, I've just never been comfortable enough with myself to experiment like I want to. But im also the type that wants it to be special with someone, so its probably a bad idea lol

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks. At the end of the day, you can do what you want. I'm just watching out for you. I'm trying to put this in a logical perspective.

[Asker]

I appreciate it lol I probably won't do it, thank you:)

[Jamie05rhs]

Cool :). You're welcome.

[Caliguy88]

Give it a shot if you want to. I don’t say no often to anything.

[IsoUser]

I think that the biggest surprise for him and his wife would be a Paternity Suit from You LMFAO 🍒🍆🤗😍😁😁

[Asker]

he's not married lol

[In_Trance]

lame

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure what you want.

[Anonymous]

Do it and have fun

[Anonymous]

Sound like fun but it would better with someone who really cares about you and isn't a dick like you said.

[Asker]

Awh! I agree, I just wish I could find someone who is nice these days ❤

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I agree with you. I hope you have good luck. I'm nice though, lol

[Anonymous]

It's not going overboard. It sounds like a lot of fun. If he's a dick and won't play along you may want to find someone more willing.

[Asker]

Awh thank you

[Opinion Owner]

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[Anonymous]

I don't know what he likes.
Ice never sounds good though.

[Asker]

he's gentle with me but he never tells me what he's really into. He gets hot easy so I wanna run it down his body. Maybe during a blowjob lol

[Asker]

What would you think if a friends with benefits came over like that

[Opinion Owner]

Everybody's different. I don't mind lingerie, but I don't really care about it either. I just want her butt naked as soon as possible. I'm warming up to the idea of tying a woman up if she requests it. "She says now do whatever you want" but I'm pretty much gonna lick her ass and do all the stuff I normally do anyway. If she put ice on me it's pretty much gonna lead to a food fight.