I’ve used the wrong apps and sent nudes and masturbated to people online who probably laughed at me? I've done wrong?

eremn Xper 1

So when I get angry that people tell me I’m beautiful in my own way, I start sending them pictures of myself and forcing them to tell me I’m the prettiest when in fact that’s not true. I’m not conventionally attractive by any means. In 7 cups, I met this older guy I guess this hideous human being and he laughed at me masturbating, on camera. What do you think are the key takeaways from this chat other than seeking therapy?

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And not forcing people to tell me I’m pretty?

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I think it’s funny how you all are making fun of my problems.

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Anemone978 Yoda
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I defiantly think you need some sort of therapy... Why are you just giving your nudes to anyone, especially masturbation ones? You need to focus on yourself and learn to love you... Do you send them to people who have no interest in you? Then yes I could understand them laughing at you... if so why would you subject yourself to peoples ridicule unless you really hate yourself...
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- eremn
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  He said yes to it! I was just on cam and masturbating, and this was all done on that therapy website -7 cups
- eremn
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  What do YOU think I did WRONG?
- Anemone978
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  Well any therapy that you could masturbate on is not real or helpful therapy!!! Do NOT try to get physical therapy like that, just get mental therapy. You absolutely need to focus on learning about yourself on a deep level, how to love being you and not to compare yourself to anyone else... Do not try to get validation from other people. You need to get validation from yourself that is how you become confident and whole. And DO NOT use stupid sites to try to get free therapy it is never gonna help you on a real level...
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- eremn
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  But what makes him laugh at me? And I agree with your opinion.
- Anemone978
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  I am not sure especially if he asked for it? I have never had that happen to me... He probably just was mean and wanting to tear you down... maybe he is gay... who knows lol If he did laugh though he obviously has some issue with women and either thinks he is better than women or just hates women in general... so don't take it too personally...
- eremn
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  No it could be I’m ugly to him
- eremn
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  Look at my photos
- Anemone978
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  Guys don't care if you are ugly... that is the truth... they will fuck any girl if they have an interest...
- eremn
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  Do you think I’m ugly from my photos?
- eremn
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  I agree
- Anemone978
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  What photos?
- eremn
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  My profile photos. Check the questions I’ve asked and you’ll see what I mean
- eremn
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  Maybe he laughed because there are prettier girls out there :)
- Anemone978
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  You look fine... Just put some mascara and eyeliner on so your natural beauty is more defined... There will always be someone prettier out there... you need to find a guy who likes you for you... not randoms on the internet.. and most girls ain't that pretty take off the makeup, fake eyelashes and most girls are average or below average...
- eremn
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  So who is prettier than me?
- Anemone978
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  I don't know... not many girls too be honest...
- eremn
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  Well since you answered my question that there are girls prettier. Who exactly are they? The ones with colored eyes and hair?

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SunnyRS Xper 6
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It's alright if you made a mistake but that doesn't mean you are not beautiful, believe in yourself and think positively about yourself.
Then you might feel better.
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- eremn
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  Exactly, it means nothing and it’s not about beauty. I should READ the reviews first.
- eremn
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  Before trying out those apps. A lot of people share nudes but it’s important to not fit in. I’m just not like them, and because of this for some reason I feel like leaving my home and moving to another state to start afresh. I’m from the US
- SunnyRS
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  Great. Try to stay positive and everything will be fine
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- SunnyRS
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  Oh where do you want to move? If you want to start a fresh that's your choice.
- SunnyRS
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  Just don't leave the people behind who care about you
- eremn
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  Yeah if online people don’t care about me on those dating apps why did I even go on there?
- SunnyRS
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  Exactly live your life and leave them behind
- eremn
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  That’s not even 1/5 of the world that’s on there. Why do I even care about what they think if they’re purposefully going to be rude?
- SunnyRS
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  Yes very true.
- eremn
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  I Mean they end up blocking my accounts. It’s insane
- eremn
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  Reddit is pretty superficial and so are dating apps like Bumble and Badoo. Tinder in my opinion has insecure guys on there
- eremn
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  So personally I think these apps are a wastage of peoples time. Why even go on there to share nudes and have sex? That’s the dumbest excuse to feel good about yourself
- SunnyRS
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  Exactly, you should only share those things if you want to and feel comfortable doing it. It's not necessary to do these things
- eremn
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  It’s not even about that! Half the guys and girls on there don’t even have the time to appreciate others besides the outside and what’s on a stupid profile, anyways
- eremn
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  I just can’t let the online world win. Why even show them I’m vulnerable to how they feel about me?
- eremn
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  Here’s my time on dating apps: I open an account and go on there. They mock or ignore me. I message the girls. They ignore what I have to say and just disappear from my chats. Like, if you were in my shoes, what would you do?
- SunnyRS
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  I would move on and try talking to someone else. Hey I am have been talking to you and I really appreciate your honesty. So don't give up on humans yet
- eremn
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  But why move on if everyone is ignoring me? Do I really have to give them a chance?
- eremn
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  We have blocked your profile for violating our Guidelines<< this is what they tell me, and this is the second time it happened. Every time I open the app someone files a report against me on “Badoo” and treat me like I’m the problem. Before I even got my app blocked, the team banned my account for being underage and asked for an ID. 😂
- SunnyRS
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  You should not if you don't want to. But moving on is necessary as it keeps you going on
- SunnyRS
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  Which guidelines did you violate?
- eremn
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  I don’t even think you’re understanding. These people have a problem with me. They don’t find me interesting. It’s not me. It’s them. If you were constantly ignored what would you do?
- eremn
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  I think it’s irrational they think I’m the problem when in fact others are being cruel
bowenw Master
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If I understand correctly the issue is using the wrong apps. Try to be careful which app you are using. Also, don't worry about what mean people say or if they laugh.
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- eremn
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  Which app are you referring to? Dating apps or Reddit, / 7 cups?
- bowenw
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  Whichever apps you were referring to when you said you used the wrong apps.
- eremn
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  Yeah they only make me feel like I’m not pretty and useless in anything I want to ask them
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- bowenw
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  Yeah, it’s probably best to avoid those apps. Please feel to PM if you wish.
- bowenw
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  Thank you for the MHO. 😊

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TheFlak38 Master
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level 1 catfish
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- eremn
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  When this is a true story
- eremn
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  I don’t know how you think I’m a catfish when I’m giving out my experience. I really don’t feel like living sometimes doing such things but I’m making it through. I’m not pretty in that way by any means so why should I do such horrible things? It shocks me to the core I even did this
Deepinthought345 Xper 7
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Why would anyone laugh at you for masturbating on cam? I think its a perfectly acceptable online sexting kinda thing, isn't it? I am confused
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- eremn
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  Why are you confused?
- eremn
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  They think it’s funny I’m selling my body to the internet
Backwood1988 Xper 3
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Why did you say that you didn't mean to send them
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- eremn
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  You just trolling me?
- eremn
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  You don’t have to be so difficult to talk to you know?
- Backwood1988
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  Who are talk to
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- eremn
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  What does that even mean?
- Backwood1988
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  Why you say that I am trolling you for
- eremn
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  To have a laugh, simply
- Backwood1988
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  Why laugh what is there to laugh about
- eremn
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  My experience. You’re laughing at people on a therapy website trying to see me masturbate on camera
- Backwood1988
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  I have not asked for you to do that or anything like that
- eremn
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  I know but you’re laughing at what I did
- Backwood1988
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  No I am not laughing at you we're dose it say that in any of my comments too you I never laugh at you at all so you are very wrong about that
- Backwood1988
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  I mean it's okay I'f that is how that turns you on and something that you like doing but I haven't never done that but I don't think that there is nothing wrong with it
- eremn
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  I thought I would look cool
- Backwood1988
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  O ok well only you can think that it would make you feel cool and everything can you message me and we can talk about what ever you want to talk about
- eremn
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  What are you saying? I’m saying I have been laughed at and you don’t care?
- eremn
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  Maybe because I’m not pretty
- Backwood1988
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  I think that every female is beautiful no matter what
- Backwood1988
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  You might think that I am ugly and you might think that my size is small
- eremn
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  How is every female beautiful?
andy530 Guru
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Sounds like you just haven’t met someone who truly appreciates you for you yet. They are out there
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EaterPeter Guru
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Try me
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Byuser Xper 5
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I would really like
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Anonymous
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What apps can I find you on?
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Anonymous
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Some people never grow up. 🤦‍♀️
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- eremn
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  Apparently people should be comforting on therapy apps

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